Shameless Sex

Kristen, our dear Sex Educator friend returns to answer your sex questions: I'm a straight woman who fantasizes and is curious about exploring with other women. How do I go about this? I have a pregnancy fetish. Is this normal? How do I support my partner through their past trauma? And also personal accounts and tips on pegging, fisting and anal play. Get ready...this episode is a juicy one! Other...

What does it mean to be submissive? Why do some people like exploring "sub space" and what are some tips on exploring submission without sacrificing one's strength?  Veronica is a multi-passionate entrepreneur on a mission to strip people bare—of the expectations and limiting beliefs that do not serve them—so they can thrive unapologetically exactly as they are. From systems to spankings, she embo...

Ashley Manta returns to teach is all about hand jobs AKA hand sex. Learn Ashley's signature position, the "Reclining Diamond". Master the "Pepper Grinder" and "Lower Lip Tease". Use these "Handy Skills" to make hand pleasure the main course! Ashley Manta has mindfully combined sex and cannabis as part of her CannaSexual® brand. Her work has been profiled in The Huffington Post, BBC, LA Weekly and...

We recorded this episode because YOU, our dear sweet listeners, requested that we bring on an expert to speak on this important yet touchy subject. Holistic Therapist Melissa Fritchle returns to chat all about depression, anxiety, ADHD, SSRI's and how they all affect sex and relationships. She also shares some tips and tools on how folks can navigate these often turbulent waters, as well as how pa...

Dixie De La Tour is a sexual folklorist, professional storyteller, podcaster, teacher, community builder and most of all, a facilitator. She is also the founder, curator & host of the award-winning and NSFW storytelling series, Bawdy Storytelling (“The Moth for Pervs” - LA Weekly, “The Original Sex and Storytelling series” - Playgirl) that’s been lauded for its transformational, relatable, empower...

Once a month we are offering an ad-free bonus episode as a gift to our listeners. This episode is with a repeat guest and fellow podcaster and friend Connor Moore of The Realness Podcast. We talk about dating, orgasms, how to show up as our best, most true selves in sex and relationships, and more. Enjoy! Connor Moore is a Lifestyle Design and Dating Coach. He also leads personal development retre...

What is erotic breathwork? How can it enhance our sexual experiences? And why does it all start with the anus? Tune in to learn about this and more! Recorded live from Sex Geek Summer Camp! M’kali-Hashiki (em-KAH-lee-HAH-she-kee) is a Renegade Sexual Mystic; a Tour Guide to the realm of Eros; & a Teacher of Somatic Erotic Possibilities. M’kali-Hashiki is also a Certified Sexological Bodyworker; a...

Amy has been working with a Sexological Bodyworker as part of her journey in reconnecting with her body and reclaiming her sexuality. In this episode Amy's practitioner joins us to discuss what Sexological Bodywork and Tension and Trauma Release are all about, how scar tissue affects sensation and tips for the remediation process, practices to reconnect to your sensual body, as well as the importa...

What are the common reasons people stray from their partners? How common is it and how do folks rebuild relationships after infidelity? And what is the "New Monogamy" all about?  We also answer a sex question: How can I reconnect to myself and learn to relax with my partner after sexual trauma? Dr. Tammy Nelson PhD is an internationally acclaimed psychotherapist and TEDx speaker and the author of...

Charlie Glickman returns to teach us all about the ins and outs of awesome anal sex! We also answer a sex question: I feel shame about the fact that I can only climax when I touch myself. How can I change this? Charlie Glickman PhD is a sex & relationship coach, a sexuality educator, a sexological bodyworker, and an internationally-acclaimed speaker. He’s been working in this field for over 25 yea...

Dr. Alison Ash returns to teach us about the five tenets of CHAMP quality pu$$y eating. We chat about orgasms, attunement, technique, and more. We also answer a sex question: How do I get over my jealousy about my partner looking at other women on Instagram? About our speaker: Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach, sexual empowerment educator, author, and founder of TurnON.love. A champion fo...

Laura Delarato is a writer, video maker, body image activist artist and sex educator based in NYC. Her art and essays have appeared in Travel + Leisure, Refinery29, NBC, BeautyCon, Men’s Health, Huffpost, Allure, Ravishly, Revelist, Salty Mag, The Horizontal, and Le Wand and she has spoken on the topics of body image and wellness at Decoded Future Summit, ProjectHEAL, Body Politic NYC, The Brookly...

In this episode we chat with author, sex coach and Sexological Bodyworker Xanet Pailet all about sexless marriages and relationships. How common is it (hint - it's more common than you may think)? What are the signs that someone may be heading towards a sexless relationship? Why is this happening? What can partners do to keep the fire burning? Xanet Pailet, best selling author of the new book, Liv...

In this episode we chat with Sex Educator Reid Mihalko all about threesomes! How do we negotiate threesomes with potential (and current) partners? Where do we find a third? What about safety and consent? And how do we make threesomes playful and fun? We also answer a sex question: How to navigate a date night visit to a sex shop without feeling awkward. About Reid: Sex and relationship geek Reid M...

Here’s a sneak peak into a new podcast for you: Purple Panties is an erotic fiction story created by New York Times best-selling author Zane. On the outside Maddox, Loren and Stephanie go against the grain when it comes to sex. But as relationships shift and physical needs change, can they keep up with the facade? Follow them on their journey as they navigate their professional and personal lives....

How can mamas reclaim their sensuality after kids? How can busy mamas (or all people) invite pleasure into their daily lives - in and out of the bedroom? And how can couples reignite the fire in long-term relationships?  Also, guess who's now single? Tune in to learn more! About our guest: Dana B. Myers is an award-winning product developer, entrepreneur, author, and media personality.  As Founder...

In this episode we have a playful yet informative with Disability Awareness Consultant, Cripple Content Creator and host go the Disability After Dark Podcast, Andrew Gurza. Why do people have so much fear when it comes to talking about disability (and sex)? What should listeners should know about sex and disability? What about the fun and the vulnerability around sex and disability?  We also answe...

What is vulva mapping and Sexological Bodywork? How can a vulva mapping session help a vulva-owner to awaken sensation and expand orgasmic potential? How does this apply to lovers/partners? Our special guest, Dolly Josette, answers this and much much more (believe us...you are probably going to want to learn all about how to get your own genital mapping session after listening to this episode).  A...

This episode features Amy’s beloved therapist, teacher, guide and mentor, Dr. Nicola Amadora. We talk all about relationship – with the self and with others – and tools for deeper, more profound connection. Nicola teaches us how to break through our protective walls as a means of tapping into more LOVE and ALIVENESS, including “getting naked without taking our cloths off”. And we talk about how it...

What is kink and how do I know if I'm kinky? How do I start to explore my kink, and how do I talk about it with my partner?   We also answer a sex question: I'm a healthy 42 year old man, married to my beautiful queen, and I have a hard time getting/keeping an erection. Please help. About our guest: Mike Rozycki has been active in his local kink communities since 2005. In 2018, he and his business...

In this episode we dive deep into female sexual arousal with award-winning author, Wholistic Sexuality teacher and medical professional, Sheri Winston. Why have women’s body parts gone missing in history? How does female ejaculation happen on a cellular level? What are some tips for female-bodied folks who want to experience more orgasmic abundance? What about partners who want to up their pleasur...

What are the most common fantasies people have? Where do they come from? Why do we have them? And how do I talk to my partner about my fantasies? How can we bring fantasy into real life?  Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller received his Ph. D. in Social Psychology from Purdue University. He is a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire...

What do I do if my partner asks me to do role-play and I'm uncomfortable with being in the spotlight? How does one learn how to do authentic yet sexy role-play? And what about dominance? Can I learn how to tap into my most confident, dominant self (even when I don't feel it in everyday life)? Join us for this playful yet informative episode with world renown sex educator, Midori. We talk about rol...

In this episode we chat with Dr. Lee Phillips about chronic illness and chronic pain and how they affect sex and relationships. Dr. Phillips shares tools such as sensate focus, as well as ways partners can support their loved ones with chronic illness.  We also answer a sex question: Great sex during an affair...should I leave my husband?  About our guest: Dr. Melvin L. Phillips, Jr., is a License...

We are SO excited about this episode. Emily Nagoski AKA one of our idols and author of the groundbreaking book Come As You Are joins us to talk all about female sexuality. We talk vulvas, clits, g-spots, orgasm, and all about how WE ARE ALL "normal”!  We also answer a sex question from a female-identified listener: Are the homosexual thoughts just in my head or should I leave my heterosexual relat...