Shameless Sex

What does it mean to be transgender and non-binary? What are some of the current issues trans and non-binary folks are facing? And what are some tips for folks who are considering (or are already) transitioning?  About our guest: Looking at Rae now, you’d never guess that they used to travel with their fundamentalist Southern Baptist parents doing missionary puppet shows. It wasn’t until Rae went...

What are non-ejaculatory orgasms and why would a penis-owner want to learn how to do this? How does it lead to more full bodied or multi-orgasmic experiences? And how might it increase intimacy and sexual connection between partners? Shasta and Ian share all this plus tips on how to master these techniques.  We also answer a sex question about dating someone who has never had sex before.  Want to...

What are some of the obstacles folks with disabilities might have when it come to sex? What are some tips for folks with disabilities to have more pleasure in their lives? Kelly shares this as well as her favorite sex toys for folks with disabilities.  About our guest: Kelly Gordon is a 32 year old entrepreneur and consultant based in the West Midlands, UK! She has Spinal Muscular Atrophy Type 3 w...

What gets in the way of people having great sex with themselves or others? What is the most powerful thing people can do to amp up the pleasure? Return guest and dear friend, Pyasa, answers all this and more (along with plenty of applicable tips for how to how more sexual pleasure in your life).  We also answer a sex question about dirty talk. And we share our fav sex toy of the week: The Kurve  A...

Why is masturbation important? How can it change your life for the better? And what are some of the ways people can bring more self-pleasure into their lives? August shares her own personal journey as well as plenty of tips and applicable life hacks for ways you can have great sex with yourself.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17.  About our guest: August McLaughlin is a nat...

Learn how to give pleasure to your partner WHILE bringing yourself to orgasm with you on top! This episode is packed full of tips, tricks, position techniques, and a lot of laughter.  About our guest: Samia created Sexual Essentials to take an unconventional approach to sexual education, by offering hands on sex workshops such as the infamous #MouthMasterclass #DickRiding101 & the Sex Conditioning...

What is crossdressing and why does it feel so good (and arousing) for penis owners who embrace the feminine part of themselves? How does crossdressing show up in sexuality? And how is this related (or not related) to sexual orientation or gender identity?  We also answer a sex question: Menopause is ruining my marriage.  About our guests: Sissy Becca has been an alpha male all of his life, but dis...

Billy joins us to share his shameless slutty YET SAFE sexual adventures including installing a glory-hole in his apartment, masked outdoor blowjobs, getting jerked off by a FemDom and then cumming on her male sub's face, and more.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 10. About our guest: Billy Procida is a professional stand-up comedian, podcaster, and accidental gang-bang organi...

NOTE: Dr. Willow Brown's retreat has been moved to June 12th, 2021.  Did you know that you can have a kidney orgasm, a liver orgasm, and utilize sex as medicine to change, heal and empower you? Friend and repeat guest Dr. Willow Brown joins us to to talk about all of this, as well as sex for longevity, vitality, & spiritual/emotional harmony, the four phases of moon cycle and five Chinese elements...

Ian Kerner, PhD, joins us to talk about why he asks all of his clients the question, So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex (also the title of his new book), and how this question helps uncover couple's repetitive sex scripts. He also shares tips on how to re-write old sex scripts for more sex and better intimacy, as well as ways to "turn off" to really turn on.  We also answer a sex question:...

How can what feels like the ultimate betrayal turn into the ultimate blessing? How can folks navigate the feeling of their lives/world falling apart - especially when it comes to breakups and divorce? And what if you have kids? Tammy Letherer, author of The Buddha at My Table, answers all this and more.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 25. About our guest: Tammy Letherer is a...

What is Extended Orgasm? How does it lead to a hot passionate relationship and/or help couples get the chemistry back into their love lives? And what about for single folks? How can they practice/have Extended Orgasms? We also answer a sex question: I'm having a a hard time making my partner orgasm.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 14.  About our guests: For over 25 years Erw...

Dating and relationship expert Damona Hoffman shares her top tips for successful dating - both online and in person, as well as advice for folks looking for long term partners. She also touches on the question: “Is it dating preference or racial bias?”.  For this week's sex question, we answer: How do I navigate losing attraction for my partner after excessive he's gained a lot of weight? Want to...

What happens to the mind/body/spirit when someone experiences sexual trauma? How does sexual trauma show up in sex, intimacy and relationships? And what are some ways folks can begin to heal from their sexual trauma? Darshana Avila answers all this and more.  We also answer a sex question about shame while exploring "dirty talk" after having an affair.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward...

What is cuckolding and why might someone be into it? How common is it, and how might someone find a cuckolding relationship? Venus answers all this and more.  We also answer a sex question about losing sexual attraction to a partner after they've transitioned from FTM.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. About our guest: From the moment Venus learned about cuckolding relatio...

What can people do to overcome shame around sexuality that was given to them via religion? How do sexual and personal boundaries come into all of this? And why is the G-spot more than a spot? Melissa answers all this and more.  We also answer a sex question about how to set up an all-day sex marathon.  Also, come joins us for live sex questions and sex talk on the Clubhouse App Thursday 3/4 at 8pm...

Why do so many people feel shame about the size or look of their cock? What is the truth when it comes to penis size and pleasure during penetrative sex? And what are some important tools for overcoming shame and embarrassment about penis size?  We also answer a sex question about herpes.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18.  About our guest: Soleiman Bolour is a Men’s Neo Ta...

How can people navigate threesomes smoothly and ethically (and pleasurably!)? What about aftercare post threesome - what are the protocols? And how do you find that third person? Stella Harris answers all this and more. We also answer a sex question about HPV.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. About our guest: Stella Harris is changing the way people experience their sex l...

Join us for this super playful yet informative episode where the fabulous educator and adult performer Rain DeGrey teaches us all about strap-on play.  We also answer a sex question about men who like to wear women's lingerie.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 14.  About our guest: Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster, and performer that has b...

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What are some of the ways men have been conditioned to think about sex and how can they approach it in a different way - not only to be better lovers but to have more profound sexual experiences themselves? How can men experience full body orgasms, multiple orgasms, non-ejaculatory orgasms, and learn to last as long as they want? Destin Gerek answers all this and more.  Be sure to check out his fr...

Beloved friend and repeat guest, Lisa Nicks-Balthasar, returns to tell us her story about finding and losing her soulmate, resulting in a profound journey of deep heartbreak, grief and betrayal, as well as the lessons and tools she used to heal, keep her heart open, and find profound love (and another soulmate!) once more. Her dear partner, Chris, also shares his experience supporting Lisa's journ...

On this bonus ad-free episode, Pleasure and Sexual Empowerment Coach, Samantha Helm Stelk, joins us to talk all about her personal journey as she went from struggling with orgasms to becoming her most juicy, orgasmic self. She also shares tips and tricks on how YOU can tap into your ultimate orgasmic potential.  About our guest: Samantha is a Pleasure & Sexual Empowerment Coach with a trauma infor...

Allison Moon, repeat guest and author of the new book Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-free Sex joins to to talk about casual sex and hook-ups. We discuss everything from how folks can navigate hook-ups in a way that feels really good for them, ways to be better flirts, as well as some of the signs that it's time to end the relationship, plus tips for how to navigate those dif...

Davey Wavey - adult film star and director of educational, affirming, AND hot” AKA “good for you porn on himeros.tv - shares his thoughts on how mainstream porn shaped modern day sexuality, as well as some of the positive things he has learned about sex from working in the porn industry and how folks who have shame around watching porn can reclaim it in a positive way. We also answer a sex questio...