Shame(less) Podcast

What does it mean for a man to grieve the loss of a child through miscarriage? In this vulnerable and raw conversation, returning guest Eric Schumacher joins Ken Freire to talk about something most men never speak of out loud: miscarriage from the father’s perspective. Eric opens up about losing four children through miscarriage and how it challenged his identity, faith, and masculinity. Together,...

Why do so many Christian men feel like they’re failing — at work, in marriage, in their faith — but still refuse to ask for help? In this raw and deeply moving episode, Ken Freire sits down with pastor, author, and counselor Eric Schumacher , who shares the story of how shame, perfectionism, and pressure to perform nearly crushed his ministry. From childhood insecurities to ministry burnout, Eric...

What do you do when your worst nightmare becomes reality—and God doesn’t step in the way you hoped? In this episode of the Shameless Podcast , Ken Freire sits down with Davey Blackburn , founder of Nothing Is Wasted Ministries , to talk about grief, suffering, and how to find purpose when life feels shattered. Davey shares the heart-wrenching story of losing his pregnant wife, Amanda, to a random...

What happens when the man everyone turns to for healing is secretly breaking down? Dr. Mark McNear was a respected Christian therapist. But behind closed doors, he was overusing psychiatric medication to numb deep childhood trauma. In this raw episode, he shares how a confrontation with a psychiatrist forced him into rehab, how his family met his confession with grace, and how Jesus met him in the...

Have you ever carried a father wound that shaped how you see yourself, God, or the world around you? In this raw and powerful episode of the Shame(less) Podcast , Ken Freire sits down with Jonathan Lewis , founder of Fathers for Fathers , to unpack how trauma, addiction, and anger often stem from deep places of brokenness and how the Father's heart of God brings real healing. Jonathan shares his o...

Is your sexual desire something to suppress or something to understand? Could the cravings you battle with actually point toward something deeply holy? In today's powerful episode, host Ken Freire is joined by Matt Cline, founder of Restored Ministries , a global ministry that has helped over 4,000 men find freedom from sexual addiction through profound, heart-level transformation and intimacy wit...

What if everything you thought you knew about sexual purity missed the bigger picture? In this powerful episode of the shame(less) podcast , Ken Freire sits down with therapist and author Sam Jolman , who wrote The Sex Talk You Never Got , to explore what it truly means to become a godly sexual man . They unpack how the church’s teaching on purity culture, while well-meaning, often left men with m...

In this deeply personal and redemptive conversation, Ken Freire sits down with Adam Westlake , a biblical counselor, to explore a Gospel-centered approach to same-sex attraction (SSA) and LGBTQ identity.  Adam vulnerably shares his own story of growing up in West Texas, wrestling with his identity, and finding true healing through Christ, community, and biblical counseling. Whether you’re in...

Struggling with pornography addiction? In this episode, Ken Freire interviews Bryan Petkau, professional counselor and founder of Renewed Hope Coaching, about the limitations of traditional therapy in addiction recovery. Discover how faith-based coaching, accountability, and community can lead to lasting freedom.  Key Topics & Takeaways: 1️⃣ Why Therapy Alone Falls Short in Pornography Ad...

In this episode of the Shame(less) Podcast , Ken Freire sits down with Joe Masek, founder of The Freedom Group , to discuss his journey from addiction and abuse to redemption. Joe shares his story of childhood trauma, struggles with pornography, and the deep shame that followed—along with the practical steps that led him to freedom in Christ. This conversation is for men who feel trapped in addict...

What if your connection with God isn’t as deep as you think? Are you truly experiencing intimacy with God , or are you just imitating faith? In this powerful conversation, Eric Munoz shares his personal journey of breaking free from lust, overcoming shame, and learning true intimacy with God . From struggling with pornography and abandonment issues to finding spiritual freedom, Eric reveals the ke...

In this powerful episode of the Shame(less) Podcast , host Ken Freire sits down with Dustin Alley , the founder of Men After God , to discuss turning past regrets into a God-given mission.  Dustin shares his raw and unfiltered testimony, from his wild teenage years influenced by the Jackass-era subculture to his struggles with addiction, pornography, and dysfunctional relationships.  But...

In this episode of The Shameless Podcast , Ken Freire interviews Anthony Curnutt on overcoming addiction, rebuilding trust in marriage, and embracing biblical masculinity. Learn how Anthony fought to restore his marriage after battling pornography addiction and how men can step into their God-given roles. This conversation is a must-listen for men struggling with addiction, marriage challenges, or...

In this powerful and deeply honest episode of the Shame(less) Podcast, Ken sits down with Keith Johnson, a man who has experienced the devastating effects of sexual sin firsthand but has also seen the transformative power of God's grace. Keith shares his journey of being trapped in sexual sin for 35 years, his struggles with adultery both before and after coming to Christ, and how he ultimately fo...

In this powerful episode of the Shame(less) Podcast , host Ken Freire welcomes Jason Weening—husband, father of 10, and host of the Helping Men Thrive Podcast . Jason shares his wisdom on how fathers can help their children overcome the shame associated with pornography. They discuss the importance of creating safe spaces, having ongoing conversations, and leading with intention and love. Key Take...

In this powerful episode of the Shame(less) Podcast , Ken Freire is joined by Frank Rich, founder of Rebuilt Recovery and host of The Rebuilt Man podcast. Frank shares his transformative journey from addiction and shame to freedom and purpose. He introduces his holistic approach to recovery, which uniquely integrates faith, fitness, and gut health to empower men to reclaim their God-given purpose....

In this heartfelt and candid episode of the Shame(less) Podcast , Ken Freire welcomes long-time friend and guest Matthew Wyatt to discuss his powerful journey of overcoming morbid obesity, battling lust, and finding healing in Christ.  Matthew shares his struggles with unhealthy coping mechanisms, his turning points, and the vital role of community and accountability in his transformation. To...

In this episode of Shame(less) Podcast , Ken Freire sits down with Sathiya Sam , founder of Deep Clean Coaching and host of the Unleash the Man Within podcast, to discuss why internet filters fall short in the fight against pornography addiction.  Sathiya shares his journey of overcoming a 15-year addiction, the limitations of behavior modification, and the transformative power of a root-base...

Guest: Ian Simkins, Lead Pastor at The Bridge Church In this episode of the Shame(less) podcast, host Ken Freire is joined by Ian Simkins to dive deep into the journey from distraction to purpose, especially as it relates to struggles like pornography and lust. Ian draws from his wealth of pastoral experience to unpack why so many men, even within the church, struggle with distraction and sin. Tog...

In this transformative episode of Shame(less) , host Ken Freire sits down with Drew Boa, founder of the Husband Material Academy and Podcast, to discuss the connection between sexual fantasies, childhood wounds, and addiction recovery. Drew shares his personal journey of breaking free from porn addiction, explains the importance of understanding triggers and fantasies, and offers practical advice...

In this compelling episode, Ken Freire sits down with Steve Treichler (aka Trike), senior pastor of Hope Community Church in the Twin Cities, Minnesota. Together, they explore the origin of shame through Genesis chapters 1-3 and how understanding this foundational narrative transforms our understanding of sin, shame, and redemption. Highlights: The Framework of Scripture : Creation, Fall, Redempti...

In this vulnerable and transformative episode, host Ken Freire sits down with Shawn Bonneteau, a Christian coach and advocate for men’s healing, to discuss overcoming erectile dysfunction (ED) without medication. Shawn shares his personal journey, from the shame-filled struggles rooted in childhood wounds and pornography addiction to finding freedom. Together, they dive into the psychological and...

In this episode, Ken Freire sits down with Michael Zepeda, a former professional DJ who shares his journey of escaping the nightlife scene's many temptations to find freedom and purpose in Christ.  Michael opens up about the pressures of the DJ life, where substances, lust, and ego dominated, and how a key turning point—and his faith—led him out of darkness.  Together, Ken and Michael di...

In this episode of the Shame(less) podcast , Ken sits down with Trevor Winsor, to uncover the transformative power of vulnerability in overcoming shame. Trevor shares his personal story of recovery, revealing how secrecy keeps men trapped in cycles of shame and addiction—and how true freedom is found through honest, authentic relationships. Together, we discuss why both therapy and community are e...

In this episode we will do a deep dive into the: 1. 5 character traits you need to look for in a counselor 2. What types of questions you should ask when looking for a counselor 3. The organizations that you can look for a good counselor. Organizations You Can Check Out (in alphabetical order) : Association of Biblical Counselors (ABC) Association of Certified Biblical Counselors (ACBC) Biblical C...