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Hello Family!! This is episode 12 of Tots Eclectic Season 2 in which we focused on the matters of the heart. Today in this episode we are answering the question "Are You Ready? Are you ready for a relationship, for courtship, for marriage? going back to the origin story we discover that God did 3 things for Adam ( for a man), he gave him WORK ( To tend the Garden), WISDOM ( To be able to name...

Hello Family, This is the 2nd part of our discussion on the Marriage Seasons. This is episode 11 of Tots Eclectic Season 2 with our focus on Matters of the Heart which we tagged: SHMILY - See How Much I Love You. In this episode we continue our discussions about 2 major Marriage Seasons: (1) Good Times & (2) Bad Times. Take a listen to this & share with your network if it's valuable. W...

Hello Family, In this episode we spoke about another one of Dr. Gary Chapman's book which was discussed on Joyce Meyers podcast. Dr. Chapman spoke about the 4 seasons of Marriage ( just like the 4 seasons of Summer, Autumn, Spring & Fall). In this episode, I broke it down into 2 major seasons ( Raining Season & Dry Season) considering that I live in the Tropic & our seasons are 2 n...

In this episode we continue our discussion about the 5 love languages & what the expectation are for each of them. I reiterated on some of the points made in the last episode & also talked about the marriage as a BOX, an empty box that needs to be filled by both parties with what both parties wants to see & enjoy in the marriage. Maintaining a solid marriage is great work that pays off...

Hello SHMILY Family!! This is episode 8 of our second season of Tots Eclectic & we started to talk about the 5 Love Languages. I got to know about this concept from Dr. Gary Chapman as he spoke on a Joyce Meyer Podcast. Dr. Chapman spoke about the need to fill the LOVE TANK of your partner by speaking their LOVE LANGUAGE. There are 5 of these LOVE LANGUAGE & we touched on each one in this...

Hello SHMILY Family!! This is Tots Eclectic Season 2 Ep7 & in this episode, I answered the question about Team Formation & how to select a Partner. Selecting a partner to go on Life's journey is a very important & fundamental activity & the best way to go about it is to go back to the ORIGIN to see how got a Help-meet for Adam. So we took a journey back to the beginning in the...

Hello SHMILY Family!! This is Ep6 of Tots Eclectic Season 2. In this episode I talked about Team Dynamics in a Couple or Marriage Relationship. Just like in any life endeavor you cant achieve greatness alone, the scripture says "It's not good for Man ( Mankind) to be alone. So in this relationship, there are essentially 2 people, Then Man & the Woman ( then later on the kids come into...

Happy New Year SHMILY Family!! In this 5th Episode ( the 1st for the year 2025), we continue our discussion on the MISSION & VISSION topic as we define what a Vision is & what a shared Vision is for a couple. I also mentioned the need of constant communication as the Life-Blood of every relationship. Take a listen to this episode, share with your network if it's valuable & ask ques...

This is Episode 4 of Tots Eclectic Season 2 & our focus is on The Mission & Vision. It is also Christmas Day & It's amazing to celebrate the most wonderful time of the year with family & friends as we create memories that will last for a full year. My thoughts were about getting clarity about the essence of our relationships, why are we together? What is our mission & vision as...

In this episode, we go back to the Origin. There is the Law of First Mention that states that if you want to know & understand anything, so check the 1st time it was used or mentioned. So we go back to the Original creation story & how God was the originator of Marriage. God made provisions for everything Mankind will need before creating them. He also gave Man ( Adam) a Job first before c...

In this episode, I ask the question about what makes you Tick? What tickles your fancy as an individual? This is another layer on top of what was discussed last week "Getting to know You". You must know what makes you tick as a person, what are your likes & dislikes. What fills or depletes your love tank? There is a recommendation to conduct a SWOT Analysis ( Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportuniti...

This is a start of a new Season of Tots Eclectic, however we are switching things up as we dedicate this season to matters of the Heart. This 2nd Season will be strictly called SHMILY - See How Much I Love You & we will be focusing on Love, Relationships, Marriage & all that concerns the Heart. In this First Episode, we start with the most important person - YOU. You must know yourself, un...

In this episode I sat down with our 7th Guest Mr. Olusola Pete Omotosho a Project Manager Expert & Agile Coach as we looked at Agile Project Management Methodology & the role it plays in our daily lives. You will be surprised how much of the Agile Project Management principles we use in our day to day activities. We highlighted the fact that project management methodologies are a great too...

This is our final episode of Season 1 & we are super excited to get to this major milestone. In this final episode I spoke about the need for Mentorship based on a question I saw on X ( formerly Twitter). Answering that question & thinking about how to give back gave birth to this Mentorship program & I am super blessed to have a team around me to make this a reality. We are going to t...

In this episode, I shared my thoughts about Leading Teams using the expression I heard from someone ( Most Likely John C Maxwell) that says "Before you ask for a Hand, touch the Heart" I have been leading teams & delivering projects for close to 2 decades now, been a certified PMP for 15 years & this principle is true in my experience of leading multi-cultural teams consisting of...

This episode 10 was published on the 16th of August 2024. My thoughts are centered around the saying "Your Association determines your Allocation.

In this episode, I spoke about a recent event that happened to me while driving a friend's car with another person in the car who was learning how to drive. I gave this learner an opportunity to drive the car for a short distance just to help her practice, but there was a need to make a U-turn before she could start the journey. Unfortunately, she panicked & we had a little accident as we...

Welcome to the month of August!! This is the 8th month of the year 2024 & its the 8th Episode of Tots Eclectic. My tots today centers around AI ( not Artificial Intelligence) but Almighty Intelligent One - The creator of the heavens & the earth!! Have you thought about the level of intelligence required to make our world, solar system, our galaxy & all the other great things that are out there. Sp...

In this 7th Episode of our 1st Season on Tots Eclectic I spoke about the need to exercise Authority, as Authority is useless if not exercised. Have you been in a situation where the traffic warden or Robot stops to function? What usually happens is that there will be chaos as drivers do anything they want. But the moment a traffic warden or anyone for that matter steps up to control traffic, thing...

This was Episode 6 of Achiever's Zone with the HR Evangelist & Corporate Culture Guru Mr. Yemi Faseun ( Popularly called YF). In this episode, which was almost 4 years to the date of our last episode in Season 1 episode 4 recorded in June 2020, we took a look back at our predictions 4 years ago when we talked about "The Future of Work" & we were accurate in our predictions ab...

In this episode I spoke about Time & Race. We all have our time wound for us by God & there is a race set before us. Just like elite athletes, the likes of Usain Bolt, Tobi Amusan, etc. All of them have regimented programs they follow, we also need to do the same in our lives & career. Your seed time maybe someone else's harvest time. Don't use another person's time to run...

In this episode I spoke about a book by Mr. Alastair Campbell tat I saw at a book stand while flying through Dubai (DBX) airport titled "Winners & what they do to succeed" I couldn't resist to flip through it & I saw that it was a compilation of successful peoole across multiple areas of life & the common thread that makea them successful. There were essentially 3 things that Winners have. They ha...

In this 5th episode I had an amazing session with one of ou favorite guests - Mrs. Oluwadamilola (Dammy) Omotosho who is a Human Nutrition Specialist as we discussed the topic: Staying Fit & healthy in 2024. We looked at how what we eat has a direct impact on our health & gave tips on what to do for those between the age of 40-50 to stay fit & healthy. It was an energetic session. Plea...

In this 4th episode I had about an hour long session discussing the topic: Q1 2024 Review: Tracking your Goals Unfortunately, our initially planned & advertised guest for this episode couldn't make it due to circumstances beyond her control, o I had to step in as the host of the show & give my insights into goal setting & tracking. Using principles from Michael Hyatt & Zig Zigl...