Shady and Safe

Welcome back to Shady and Safe where we keep it a little shady but always safe. This episode is all about real life, taking a break, and what happens when you actually step away and live in the moment. We get into cruise stories, the reality of those all inclusive drink packages, and how a trip can turn into nothing but bar to room to bar real quick. From doing absolutely no activities to fully co...

Welcome back to Shady and Safe. This episode we are joined by special guest Chef Pablo for a real and unfiltered conversation you do not want to miss. We get into his experience on Chasing Orlando, what it felt like seeing himself portrayed as the villain, and how reality TV editing can completely change the story. Pablo opens up about going through depression after the show and how he found his w...

Welcome back to Shady and Safe where we keep it a little shady but always safe. This episode gets real from the jump as we dive into celibacy, sexual energy, and what it really means to protect your peace in today’s dating world. We break down red flags that people love to ignore like lying on dating apps, catfishing, and why authenticity matters more than ever. The conversation gets even deeper a...

This episode gets real as we talk about the messy realities of friendship, dating, and navigating life as Black queer men. Topics we get into: • Why people hate when friends fall out and make up • The unspoken rules of Black queer culture • Ghosting — toxic behavior or just modern dating? • Would you defend a friend who is loud and wrong? • Should friends split the bill or just take turns paying?...

This week on Shady & Safe , we talk about the conversation that sparked drama after the podcast dropped. From dating people raised on survival vs love to trauma bonding, reality TV culture, and the chaos of internet beef, the conversation gets real, messy, and honest. As always, we keep it shady… but safe.

This week on Shady & Safe , we sit down with Orlando nightlife personality and Chasing Orlando cast member BeeBaby Lindo . We talk reality TV drama, life behind the scenes of the nightlife industry, sobriety, and what really happened during the chaos of season two. From producer drama and missing money allegations to friendships falling apart on camera, BeeBaby opens up about the truth behind...

This episode of Shady & Safe starts off with real life and ends up going everywhere. We talk about celebrating birthdays, dealing with loss after a family funeral, and the emotions that come with balancing life, work, and relationships. From there the conversation gets messy in the best way as we dive into dating, ghosting, burner accounts, and what happens when exes randomly pop back into you...

In Episode 6, we get into a real conversation about hookup etiquette specifically, whether you should shower at a hookup’s house or not. We break down the opinions, the unspoken rules, and why this topic always sparks debate.

In this episode, we reflect on recent conversations, personal growth, and what it means to keep pushing forward. We also take a moment to acknowledge DeLaRenta Carter sharing the loss of his mother and send love during this time.

Y’all had questions, comments, and opinions so we sat down and addressed them. From relationship takes to internet conversations that got spicy, nothing was off limits. Let’s talk about it.

Two friends of 10+ years talking about dating and life. Plus a $150 Valentines Day Giveaway for our supporters.

Two friends of 10+ years keeping it real. Shady when needed, and safe when necessary.

Welcome to the first episode of Shady & Safe! In this episode, we take a trip down memory lane as we reflect on our journey growing up in a small town, how music shaped our lives, and the twists and turns that led to us losing touch.