Sexology

Welcome to Episode 448 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by  Dr. Kate Balestrieri , who speaks to me about navigating low desire and reigniting intimacy in long‑term relationships. In this conversation, Kate and I normalize the reality that everyone, including sex therapists, experiences fluctuations in sexual desire. She shares the multifaceted story behind her own temporary...

Welcome to Episode 447 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by  Dr. Patti Britton , who speaks to me about her new memoir Chasing Sex, the life events that shaped her as a pioneer in sex coaching, and how we can all cultivate pleasure and transcendent intimacy at any age. In this heartfelt conversation, Patti traces the winding path from her “little girl named Patti” to the glob...

Welcome to Episode 446 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by  Inka Winter ,  who speaks to me about her journey from surviving a sex cult to pioneering feminist, female-gaze erotica that centers women’s pleasure and authentic consent. Inka Winter is an erotic filmmaker and founder of ForPlay Films, an independent, all-woman porn production company. Spending her formative year...

Welcome to Episode 445 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by  Darshana Avila , who speaks to me about mindful masturbation as a form of self-care and erotic exploration.   In this conversation, Darshana and I dive into why so many of us default to the same quick, goal-oriented masturbation routine and how that habit is wired into our neural pathways. We explore the power...

Welcome to Episode 444 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Lisa Schaefer VP of Marketing at  Promescent , who speaks to me about the biggest trends reshaping sexual-health products and sex-tech innovation.   In the first half of the episode, I dive into three listener questions and unpack why fantasy is perfectly healthy, offer concrete scripts for sharing kinks without...

Welcome to Episode 443 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by  Epiphany Jordan  who speaks to me about  the essential role of nonsexual, nurturing touch in our lives and how it intersects with wellness, relationships, and even trauma recovery.   In this rich and deeply personal conversation, Epiphany shares her journey from studying sacred sexuality to creating structured t...

Welcome to Episode 442 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by  Eleanor O’Brien  who speaks to me about exploring erotic fantasies through creativity, theater, and self-expression.   In this conversation, Eleanor shares how her personal journey with fantasy evolved from taboo-fueled curiosity to embodied empowerment. We explore the fascinating world of erotic storytelling, f...

Welcome to Episode 441 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by  Dr. Alexandra Stockwell who speaks to me about cultivating intimacy in long-term relationships, navigating sexless marriages, and reigniting erotic connection between partners.   In this episode, we explore what truly keeps the spark alive in long-term relationships and why the common advice of compromise may ac...

Welcome to Episode 440 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by  Jeff Abraham,  CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, whose lead product is Promescent. Jeff speaks to me about the deeply misunderstood topic of premature ejaculation (PE) and the emotional, relational, and physiological dimensions behind it. In this enlightening conversation, Jeff and I unpack the complex web of...

Welcome to Episode 439 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm thrilled to have a panel of leading sex therapists and relationship and intimacy experts from around the world. They’ll discuss the most common mistakes people make in the bedroom and how to address them. A big thank you to  Dr. Emily Jamea ,  Ariel Anderssen ,  Dr. Lori Bisbey ,  Catherine Auman ,  Candia Raquel ,  Dr. Stephanie Bathu...

Welcome to Episode 438 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by  Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill , who speak to me about emotional regulation, co-regulation, and their transformative journey in creating a stronger sexual connection through emotional attunement. In this heartfelt episode, Glenn and Phyllis share their personal story of early sexual struggles and emotional disconnec...

Welcome to Episode 437 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by  Brittany Steffen, LMFT, who speaks to me about how couples can navigate and deepen their sexual communication.  In this episode, Brittany and I discuss the kinds of conversations couples should be having but often aren’t, especially when it comes to sex. We talk about the importance of discussing how and when to...

Welcome to Episode 436 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by  Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman , co-founders of the Somatica Institute, who speak to me about sex parties. In this episode, we discuss the evolving landscape of sexual exploration, intentional relationship structures, and how sex parties can be transformative when approached with clear communication, conse...

Welcome to Episode 435 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by  Tia Lynn , a seasoned intimacy coach and host of the Sexy Biz Babe Podcast, who speaks to me about navigating threesomes, one of the most common fantasies among couples - and how to approach them with intention, clarity, and care. In our conversation, we explore the difference between fantasy and desire, and why...

Welcome to Episode 434 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by  Rain DeGrey , who speaks to me about the world of prostate massage and milking - what it is, how it works, and the deeper cultural and psychological barriers we often encounter around anal play, particularly for men. In our conversation, Rain breaks down the differences (and similarities) between prostate massag...

Welcome to Episode 433 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by  Anna Lee,  the CEO and co-founder of  Lioness , who speaks to me about the intersection of pleasure, science, and innovation - and how we can redefine the way we understand and experience orgasms. In this episode, Anna shares her fascinating journey from working in big tech to creating Lioness, a company rooted...

Welcome to Episode 432 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by  William Moore,  who speaks to me about his incredible journey from LGBTQ+ advocacy to pioneering innovations in male enhancement procedures. In this powerful episode, William shares his story of growing up in rural Alabama and eventually becoming a national LGBTQ+ rights advocate, culminating in a landmark U.S. Supr...

Welcome to Episode 431 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by  Susan Bratton  as we explore the fascinating world of sexual biohacking—how we can extend our sexual vitality and pleasure throughout our lives. Susan is an expert in sexual wellness and longevity, and she shares valuable insights on how we can enhance our "sex span" alongside our health span. A lifelon...

Welcome to Episode 430 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by  Lynn Lohide , a professional body piercer and needle play educator. Lynn speaks to me about the fascinating world of needle play - what it is, how it's practiced safely, and the deeper emotional and psychological connections people have with it. In our conversation, Lynn shares how their journey into profes...

Welcome to Episode 429 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by  Ariel Anderssen , who shares her incredible journey from growing up in a strict religious community to becoming a BDSM model and advocate. We explore the origins of kink, whether it’s something we’re born with or develop over time, along with the role of trust, communication, and appreciation in BDSM relationships....

Welcome to Episode 428 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by  Dr. Alexandria Saunders , who speaks to me about the transformative practice of Yoni massage within Tantra. We explore how this sacred technique can deepen intimacy, heal past trauma, and help individuals reconnect with their bodies in a more profound and holistic way. In this episode, Dr. Alexandria shares how her...

Welcome to Episode 427 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by  Catherine Auman , a marriage and family therapist with extensive expertise in Tantra. We look into the fascinating world of Tantra and its role in deepening intimacy, exploring how couples can move beyond routine interactions to cultivate more sensual and spiritual connections. In this episode, Catherine shares her...

Welcome to Episode 426 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by  Pauline Ryeland , an expert in Tantra, intimacy coaching, and libido work. Pauline shares her deep knowledge of Tantra as a way of life, explaining how we can use practices like eye gazing and breathwork to strengthen emotional and physical intimacy with our partners. Pauline Ryeland, Intimacy Whisperer ® has b...

Welcome to Episode 425 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be speaking with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu, co-hosts of the Dateable Podcast , to dive into the complexities of modern dating. We explore how dating has evolved over the years, why many people struggle to transition from endless texting to real dates, and how societal shifts have changed what we look for in a partner. With mor...

Welcome to Episode 424 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be speaking with  Evan Marc Katz , a dating coach with over two decades of experience helping smart, successful women find lasting love. In this episode, we dive deep into the complexities of modern dating, exploring how attraction, chemistry, and long-term compatibility play a role in finding the right partner. Evan Marc Katz be...