Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective

November 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Wife becoming less adventurous How long before porn memories fade? What counts as premature ejaculation? Is getting a vasectomy a sin? Husband isn't acting like a believer Is it okay to talk about sex? Are we going too far? Sex f...

What is feeling naughty? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Here's the question I'm answering: Hi Jay, Just a general question, what is the feeling of "feeling naughty"? And I guess there are other questions attached, is it sin? Are we describing something that’s simply "different" as "naughty" as maybe we don’t have another reference point in our vocabulary? There’s no grea...

The Limon by Minna - Product Review. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Get $50 off the Limon by by clicking here and using the coupon code UIBLACKFRIDAY. This month our most popular resource is Our Intimacy Advent Calendar - a fun way to inject some intimacy into the holiday season. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned during the po...

Is premature orgasm a thing for women? How do you last longer? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. The question we're answering today is: Hi Jay, I have a question for you / your podcast. So my husband and I have been married for about 8 months now. It seems like every time he gives me oral sex, I end up orgasming within just a few minutes. Now, as great as orgasming is, I fe...

September 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Wanting your wife to have sex with other men How to handle a spouse who doesn't want to have sex What is healthy sexuality for single people? Does God intend for you to be a virgin if you don't get married? Dealing with the loss...

August 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Snoopy wife caught husband Is orgasming the same as cumming? Is OMGYes okay? Ejaculate colour and consistency Encouraging senior sex Wife won’t “finish” oral sex Wife searched for porn Birth control for Christians Wife’s smell What...

July 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: How do I hide my BDSM toys when I live at home with my parents? Does God value boys more than girls based on Leviticus 12:2-5? How do you handle the hormones from PCOS when you have a low-drive husband? Is it okay to fantasize about...

June 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: How to improve a boring sex life Why only ED during sex? Meds for Premature Ejaculation Risky public sex Should I talk to my doctor if I have ED? Fantasizing about premarital sex Turned on by my wife urinating Wife with no interest i...

May 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: How we look at sex Why we have refractory periods Whether or not it’s common for a husband to have to ask his wife if she had an orgasm A husband who is secretly purchasing toys A widow who wants to know what happened to her husband w...

April 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Friends touching me inappropriately Postpartum recovery from the husband’s perspective Husband is anxious about sex Not attracted to my husband anymore Husband doesn’t like oral sex How to get over husband’s porn use Narcissistic hu...

Is a sexual activity wrong if it was learned from a sinful source? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. The question we're answering today is: My wife and I have a very active sex life. We enjoy a nice variety of activities and positions. Our frequency is definitely on the higher side, so I really have no complaints. We have used porn, either separately or together, for much o...

March 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Is any part of porn ok? Is it unreasonable to expect sex after oral? Are humans meant to be non-monogamous? Is it okay to teach kids to masturbate safely? Wife doesn't enjoy sex but says she wants to be promiscuous This month our mo...

Are sexual fantasies okay for Christians? Does it matter what the fantasy is? If it's only in your mind, does that make it okay? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. The question we're answering today is: My wife and I have had a reasonably active sex life for most of our relationship. There have been ups and downs of course, but for the most part, we really have no complaints...

February 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Semi-public sex Squirting Low drive wife Fell asleep during sex Wife doesn't like physical contact What is pornographic Poophole loophole This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up...

I’m preaching this weekend in my home church, and so, I thought I’d share my sermon, both because I feel bad that I haven’t been working as much on getting podcast episodes out because of it, and because I thought it might be a good way to practice it, do some final editing and figure out how long it would be. So, the audio is a recording of me reading through it, and if you prefer text, you can f...