Sex Talk with Lou

Madeleine Castellanos M.D. Psychiatrist www.reclaimyoursexuality.com When I had Dr. Castellanos on 3 weeks ago I knew I had to have her back to address the growing impact of medications on people's sex lives. People, we have a real problem of the lack of transparency of drugs impact on your bodies, our ability to fall in love, and this impact wave hasn't even crested yet. #1 Question I ask parents...

Once a month I like to look at some of the more prominent sex stories in any media. I go from Glamour magazine articles - adult star James Deen's awareness of what adult films are for and that the actors are more professional than many think, the things a $200,000 matchmaker will tell you NOT to do if you want to meet someone, dating concierge Laurie Davis of eflirtexpert.com suggestions.  My thou...

Valerie Ramsey - Author of Creating What's Next Gracefully. Valerie began a mid-life corporate career at 53, started modeling at 63, and became a published author and speaker at 68. This is a woman on a mission with a message. We'll discuss How your relationship and sexuality are tied to all areas of your life and the changes one experiences in a long term marriage. What part is Gracefully in life...

As a Certified Sex Educator I am ALWAYS looking for experts in various fields who can deliver great solid easily understandable information about sexuality...in ALL areas. New York City based Dr. Castellanos hits that mark. www.reclaimyoursexuality.com We'll discuss among various subjects; Sexual fantasies, What WOULD a penis tell a Woman?, Trends she sees in her practice, Impact of stress on sex,...

This week I discussed GREAT LOVER Behavior, Attitudes and Techniques from my book, The Great Lover Playbook. I also cover suggestions at the end on how to choose sex toys. After this week's casting of Dakota Johnson and Charlie Hunnam sparked more conversations @ Fifty Shades of Grey, in an upcoming show I will share How To Get The Most Out of Fifty Shades of Grey, in positions, in toys, in food,...

This is my week to talk about what I see in the news, what makes me crazy, great manual techniques women and men, info interchangeable depending on your body. Seduction meals. Starting with a gf of mine who is heading back into dating, last week's guest, Fiona Fine of Goddessconnections.com had some great advice, Date Like a Man. FYI - Miley Cyrus wasn't twerking on the VMA stage, suggestive and a...

My guest is the entreprenuerial Fiona Fine who is the founder of two female-centric personal fact finding online magazines. Howtoputthefunbackintodating.com and, WomenWhoRunIt.com. Born of her own search for pleasure and passion when she ended a long term marriage that had neither Fiona first created GODESSCONNECTIONS.COM How To Put The Fun Back Into Dating: Bringing Joy Back Into Your Lovelife! a...

I am thrilled to have my dear friend and colleague Dr. Mark Schoen of @SexSmartFilms.com on this week's #SexTalkWithLou. As a top sex educator for over 30 years Mark has created one of the best go-to resources for sex education films. His user friendly massive collection is used by educational professionals, therapists and Joe and Jane Q Public. And I mean ALL types of films. We'll discuss What ar...

Imagine a man saying “ED is the BEST thing that has ever happened to my intimate life!” Tonight's show is a very different practical message for any man or their partner who has dealt with or is dealing with Impotency. Given the epidemic of impotency men and their partners are experiencing from life and stress, injuries, surgeries, medical treatments and medications Michael Russer's upcoming book...

Karla Scott, Director of Sales for Eldorado Trading Company will give us an insider's view of the world of selling sex toys to retailers across the country. This will be a VERY fun conversation!!!! Karla and I will talk about how she creates and tailors Eldorado's marketing of adult novelties to their national and international retailers. She is the boots on the ground AKA sales reconnaissance for...

Starting with Sex in The News, I mean really could there be more??? One of my favorite guests, Dian Wiley, Ph. D., sex therapist based in Seattle and I will look at two of the most common and toughest sexual issue categories: 1) Cheating and 2) Boredom. Pay attention while two seasoned sexuality experts give their best ideas, solutions and possible options for people and couples to use and conside...

Seriously there is sooo much about sex and its impact in the news from Elliott Spitzer, 'trust me with your purse strings' plea to Rick Perry's attack on Senator Wendy Davis to Weiner's run for NYC mayor. Truly for the return to politics dudes I see it as a run for money. I see that Spitzer, Sanford and Weiner have run out of money and having been on the political money train want back on. Know wh...

Sex in the News - the last two weeks has had a range of hugely impactful reports and articles on sexuality in the media. I will be reviewing a number of them and calling certain people and attitudes on the proverbial carpet. Micheal Douplas's I got oral cancer from cunnilingus, or really???? There is an association of HPV (Human Papilloma Virus) 16 with oral and throat cancers however to say it is...

So you think you want to teach human sexuality? Well then pay close attention as tonight my guest Megan Andelloux and I will share the inside track on how to make a living lecturing worldwide about healthy human sexuality. Megan's philosophy is sexuality can be spoken about and following the Hippocratic Oath answer the questions about sex and above all "Do No Harm" ohmegan.com, Creator of Study Se...

As we approach Memorial Day I was reflecting on the service our military gives this country. I've also coordinated panels on sexuality and disability for the Coalition to Support America's Heroes (CSAH). I've seen how severly injured soldiers injuries impact these service personnel's sex lives, marriages and family relationships. Given how powerful the media's messages are I looked at, "So what re...

Lissa Rankin M.D. has a huge mission - Helping to Heal the Healers - sharing Mind Over Medicine - Scientific Proof We Can Heal Ourselves' ground breaking collection of information and scientific facts to the people we go to for health care - M.D.s, physicians, all healthcare providers. Putting back into their minds and hands information that will make them be the healers they went into healthcare...

Each Monday morning, Rick Davis who coordinates my social media, and I look at what is my weekly Theme. This week was Seeking / Searching. Then I started looking at all the people and events in my field that have Inspired me because people often ask me "What inspired you to work in sexuality?' Answer - the people who told me how my work had impacted them and their relationships. I am so so inspire...

An article earlier this week about the former poster boy for Reparative Therapy Ex-gay Leader John Paulk reversing his stand on this therapy spurred me to ask my terrific colleague Dr. Winston Wilde to shine a light on Reparative Therapy. Especially in light of a California Bill SB-1172 Sexual Orientation Change efforts. This bill was signed by Gov. Brown September 30, 2012 and point 865.1 specifi...

Two world class sexuality experts dish on male sexuality and trends. Join me and my guest Dr. Trina Read this Wednesday, April 17th and you'll get to be a fly on the wall and if you've got your own questions call in/online and you'll get our undivided attention. Dr. Trina and I will look at male sexuality? Specifically to debunk some of the myths about it: (1) The myths of impotence (2) The revolu...

About The Killer Wore Leather: Cormac “Mack” Steel, Mr Global Leather, has been murdered at this year’s BDSM/fetish weekend in New York City. He was found dead on the floor of his Manhattan suite wearing only a pair of frilly, yellow panties. And the suspects who could have killed him number in the thousands. Detective Rebecca Feldblum has worked murder cases before, but none quite so exotic as th...

Tonight I'm going to use a powerful Success Series that I have used with terrific results in my life and use it as a template for increasing the Success in People's Sex lives. I know only too well that a person's behavior is often the same in the boardroom as in the bedroom. The simplicity of these ideas and suggestions belies how powerfully they can change your life, attract the love and success...

Around Valentine's Day I have seen many long term relationships come apart, seems people take a closer look at their relationship and if it is really supporting them. In the last week I had 2 people one end a relationship after 37 years the other 22 years. In speaking with these people they have MANY questions about online dating. My twin sister Dede and I will discuss examples of good, funny, 'yo...

We have tons of material, research and awareness about the Female G Spot and finally the Male G Spot is getting its spotlight. The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure - finally a plain speaking, solid sex education book for Prostate Pleasure. As two top Sex Educators, Charlie Glickman PhD and Aislinn Emirzian have put together an easy reading book on a subject that is equal parts prostate health a...

My guest is a long time colleague and friend. Dr. Chris Kraft and I are currently on the Leadership Council for Program in Human Sexuality at U of Minnesota. Chris is a licensed psychologist and AASECT certified sex therapist specially trained to achieve pragmatic and solution-oriented results for couples and individuals. His goal is to improve each person's happiness as it relates to their sexual...

I am so excited to welcome a star peer in our field - Carol Queen. Her creds follow and they are impressive but it is her personality that is even better. A mentor, a teacher, a researcher and a museum founder all in the arena of sexuality. An award-winning author, activist and sex educator with a PhD in sexology, Dr. Carol Queen has been a part of Good Vibrations since 1990. She currently serves...