Sex Chat for Christian Wives

About this episode We've heard from many women that their sex life sometimes feels boring. Today, we talk about boredom in the bedroom and what to do about it. Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Venus Pearls, from Burns Logsdon Therapeutics . From the Bible The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. – S...

Have you heard it said that sex is a need? We have too. Quite a few people talk about how a spouse can and should meet their mate's sexual needs. Today we're addressing that underlying assumption: Is sex a need? Sponsor This episode is sponsored by Strong Wives - Bonny Burns' Coaching Site . Also sponsored by Married Dance , a Christian, marriage-focused sex toy store. From the Bible And my God wi...

About this episode In this episode, we're responding to questions from listeners about touching yourself during sex, whether it's okay to have sex just for fun sometimes, and why a young husband might struggle to maintain an erection. Sponsor This episode is sponsored by Strong Wives - Bonny Burns' Coaching Site . From the Bible A cheerful heart is good medicine... ~ Proverbs 17:22a Heal me, Lord,...

When we started podcasting in February 2017, we didn't know whether we'd get through one year, much less five years. But here we are, celebrating this amazing milestone with a bit of reminiscing, some bloopers, and our wishes and hopes for our fabulous listeners!  Sponsor Visit Married Dance Shop From the Bible She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. - Proverbs...

About this episode This is a time of year when a lot of people are talking about taking better care of themselves—things like eating healthier, starting to exercise, getting more sleep, setting goals, or setting boundaries in their lives. But self-care, even though it sounds like a good thing, can be a touchy subject in some Christian circles. Let's talk about self-care and what role—if any—it sho...

We're back! It was an eventful December and early January for us and will share what we have been doing. Today, we're talking about a new sexual you. What does that mean? What does it look like? And how can you achieve it? What does it mean to have a new sexual you? Are we saying just more sex or something else? What would it look like to make goals for improving sexuality? What kinds of goals can...

About this episode We can't leave off the year without providing another wonderful gift guide! We'll link to others in the show notes, but today we're focusing on gifts that speak not only to marital intimacy but specifically our five senses. This idea made us think of the song "Twelve Days of Christmas"! Instead of five golden rings, we're addressing our five golden senses. Sponsor GET THE CARDS!...

What are the best things about sex? We compiled a list of ten and hope it will inspire you to pursue better and deeper intimacy in your marriage. Sponsor Black Friday sale: 13% off store-wide! Visit Married Dance HERE . Also check out Make My Own Soap ! Use coupon code 10off for $10 off the one-pound loaf starter kit. Use coupon code 20off for $20 off the LOAF starter kit. From the Bible What does...

We want you to understand that sex is for you too! This is an idea we discuss frequently in our episodes, but today it is our focus. Why do we even need to have this conversation? Why do so many women struggle with the idea that sex is for them? Is it okay for sex sometimes to be primarily for one spouse? If so, when and how would that work? What can you actually do to make sex for you as well? Sp...

About this episode 1 Thessalonians 5 tells us to rejoice always, pray continually, and give thanks in all circumstances. Today we're going to talk about what this means in relation to sex. How can we pray about sex or during sex? Some wives may think it seems a little weird to be thinking about prayer and sex. Why is that? What does the Bible say about prayer and sex? How can we help ourselves get...

We are down one host with Chris out today, but Gaye, Bonny, and I are here to answer your questions. If you have a question that you'd like us to address, head to our website , click the Ask a Question tab, and shoot us an email. While we cannot respond to all of your questions, we try to cover a lot of ground and answer what we can. Be sure to go back through our older episodes as well to see if...

Today we're going to give you a little update on what's happening with us, talk about what might be happening with you, and then discuss what that might mean for your sex life and your marriage. Sponsor Try discount code 4CW at checkout. From the Bible What does the Bible say about when life is overwhelming? When I said, "My foot is slipping,"   your unfailing love, Lord, supported me. When anxiet...

About this episode We are going to discuss practical ways to help you discover fun and playfulness between you and your husband. We talk a lot about being lighthearted during sexual intimacy, and today we want to spark your creativity. What are some obstacles you can think of that would hinder playfulness in a married couple's sexual relationship? What would you say to a friend who sees playfulnes...

About this episode Today's episode has a tantalizing title, but what we're really talking about are positions that work especially well for a wife, ones that don't work, and positions might give you a better opportunity to orgasm. Let's revisit some basic concepts first and discuss why sexual positioning matters. What are some of the more comfortable or pleasurable sex positions for the wife? Now...

Today, we discuss a question that a reader submitted recently: How far is too far? How much do I compromise? I know I'm not perfect. I know I could have showed up more in the bedroom and have said as much. But I do try. It's hard as a woman, wife and now mother of 2. He says I don't listen and no one ever listens. So, he demands I do things I do not like. At times, it's not so bad. I can't handle...

About this episode Today we're talking about feeling comfortable in your body. This is a struggle for so many women, and it affects every area of our lives—inside and outside the bedroom. So, ladies, when we say "getting comfortable with your body," what does that mean? And why is it so hard to do? What are some of ways that body discomfort shows up in women's lives? And, of course, feeling uncomf...

What do we do in our beds besides sex? Sleep, of course! Today we're going to talk about the relationship between sex and sleep. A recent study of over 3,400 women noted that those "who did not routinely get restful slumber were nearly twice as likely to report sexual problems, such as lack of desire or arousal." While researchers don't know which came first—poor sleep or sex problems—their study...

Today we are exploring the term "sexual self." Your sexual self is an unfolding aspect of who you are, woven into the fabric of your being. What is identity and how would it relate to a sense of a wife's sexual self? Or in other words, how does your sexual self fit into the whole of who you are as a woman? What affects how comfortable you are with accessing this part of yourself? How do we integra...

About this episode Today we're going to talk about what prioritizing sex means, what it doesn't mean, what gets in the way of it, and what it might look like in the lives and marriages of busy women. What does it mean to prioritize sex? And is that the phrase you think we should use, or should it be something broader – like prioritize sex and intimacy? And why is it important? Or is it important?...

For many years, there were very few resources for Christians who wanted to learn how to have a healthy sex life. Now Christians can find more and more books, courses, and videos to help them. It's great to have choices, but sometimes it's hard to know whether or not a particular resource is good. Today we're joined by Phylicia Masonheimer . She encourages women to discern God's truth and live out...

About this episode The marriage relationship overall can impact a wife's sexual interest. Having a good marriage with intimacy in many areas can make it easier to want and enjoy sex. In this episode, we're going to talk about things you can do in the area of nonsexual intimacy that can have a positive impact on your sex life. Sponsor Click here to learn more about Revival AI's investment opportuni...

In this episode, we answer a few of your questions. "What are other ways to relax and enjoy my husband guilt free?" "I don't like feeling like it's just sex.... Do I have a block? Was I wrong to be upset? How do I get myself [past] feeling like it's cold and not love?" "I was hoping you could share some wisdom of what it's like moving in with your husband for the first time… what to expect…how to...

Take the Survey As mentioned in the episode, Chris Taylor of Honeycomb & Spice is doing a survey on chronic illness and sex. We'd appreciate you taking the survey, so that she can address this subject well. Click the link: https://tinyurl.com/chronic-survey Or scan the QR code: About the Episode How often should a married couple have sex? You might think this would be an easy question to answer, b...

titivate (v). – to make a person or thing neater or more attractive (Merriam-Webster). To titivate is to make small enhancing changes or to make oneself look attractive. For some women, titivation is a daily habit. For others of us, it takes intention to remember to do it now and then. Let's start by talking about why wives might titivate in the first place. What are some reasons we might let titi...

There are a lot of resources about sex now, some great and some terrible. But often, resources have some important truths, some debatable points, and some myths. Today we want to talk about what really matters—the foundational points we want wives to know about sex. Sponsor Click here to visit our sponsor ( affiliate link ). From the Bible But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearan...