Sex Chat for Christian Wives

In this episode, we tackle listener questions, including where Christian wives can find sex tips and techniques, fantasizing during lovemaking, when it's okay to refuse sex, and how to grab hold of an elusive orgasm.  Sponsor J. Parker is hosting an online conference for higher desire wives! It's coming up on April 29, 2023 and features six speakers addressing our common-yet-challenging situation....

We're back at the virtual kitchen table, and today we're talking about our bodies. That is, women's bodies—what real women look like, how we view our bodies, and how we can care for and embrace those bodies that we bring into the marital bedroom. SPONSOR Share the Soap - natural skin care, aromatherapy, and more! Also, the Hot, Holy & Humorous cruise . FROM THE BIBLE For you created my inmost bein...

Today we're talking about your health and health habits and the ways they can affect your sex live. As you know, we're not medical professionals, so we won't be talking about specific health conditions or medical advice. Instead, we'll focus on the kinds of healthy habits that almost every woman can establish in her life and the ways that those habits might affect her body and sex life. Sponsor Ho...

Today, we are discussing sex scheduling. This is a term we throw around in our kitchen table conversations, and yet it's been a while since we devoted a whole episode to this controversial topic. Sponsor Thanks to Share the Soap for sponsoring this episode! Check out their wonderful, natural skin products. Great for gifts or self-care. Also sponsored by the Hot, Holy & Humorous Cruise , coming Oct...

Dr. Juli Slattery, the co-founder of Authentic Intimacy and author of numerous books, joins us at the virtual kitchen table to discuss some topics found in her latest book, God, Sex, and Your Marriage . Sponsor Venus Pearls Vaginal Comfort Suppositories , formulated to relieve vaginal dryness and enhance sexual response. Buy 2 Get 1 with coupon code B2G1 Also sponsored by Married Dance, an online...

When it comes to sexual interest, we tend to talk about which spouse has the higher or lower drive. Whichever you are, it can be helpful to understand where the opposite is coming from. So today, we're going to illuminate what desire is like for the higher drive wife and lower drive wife—recognizing that this can help us better understand our own spouse's perspective and be advocates for one anoth...

About this episode For women, sexual interest tends to be affected by many different factors. Of particular significance is the status of our marital relationship. When things are going great in your overall relationship with your husband, sex can feel like an easy and natural extension of that relationship. And what about when things aren't going so great? It's normal to have ups and downs throug...

Quickie can be used as a noun or adjective to simply mean "something done or made in a hurry." When it comes to lovemaking, quickies are drive-through sex, rather than the full meal or feast we might prefer to have. But quickies in a marriage can serve a positive purpose, and today we talk about when and how to incorporate them into your marriage, as well as when not to. Sponsor LIMITED-TIME OFFER...

About this episode Welcome to our 6 th annual Christmas episode! With Christmas only 6 weeks away, we want to help ease your mental load. So, today we are sharing some gift giving ideas that link to our favorite past episodes. These gifts are in the categories of: Something you want Something you need Something you wear and Something you read ! And of course, the gift ideas we offer are something...

It's hard to believe, but today we're going to start talking about the holidays. By the time we publish this episode, most of us will have started thinking about the upcoming holiday season. What does that have to do with sex? Just this—the six or seven weeks from mid-November until New Year's Day are some of the busiest and most stressful of the year for women. And we know from previous episodes...

About this episode We hear from many wives who say they struggle with giving oral sex. In episode 42 , we looked at the big picture of oral sex and discussed what God has to say, health concerns, and how a couple can work through their disagreement about oral sex. This episode is for wives who are ready to start giving their husbands oral sex or who want to get even better at it. We're going to ge...

For many, sexuality and sexual experience are compartmentalized away from God. Today, we want to invite you to sit with us as we discuss how God is interwoven throughout every area of our lives, including (and most importantly for this podcast) our sexual intimacy with our husbands. Sponsor VISIT THE STORE TO LEARN MORE! From the Bible Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,...

Sexual arousal describes physiological and psychological preparation for a sexual encounter and intercourse. Today, we talk about what it feels like, what gets in the way, and how to enhance your sexual arousal. Sponsor CLICK HERE TO BUY OR LEARN MORE! From the Bible Let him lead me to the banquet hall,     and let his banner over me be love. Strengthen me with raisins,     refresh me with apples,...

Today, Bonny and Gaye share fresh ways of thinking about changes you want to make in your sex life and offer practical tips for taking small, positive steps in that direction. Sponsor CLICK HERE TO BUY OR LEARN MORE! Also sponsored by Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples ! From the Bible Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. 1 Peter...

There are a lot of resources about sex now, some great and some terrible. But often, resources have some important truths, some debatable points, and some myths. Today we want to talk about what really matters—the foundational points we want wives to know about sex. From the Bible What does God have to say about sex?  But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness...

About this episode We understand the struggle wives often have with their body image and how it affects their sexuality. Today we want to revisit this topic to discuss how we can finally embrace our bodies and get comfortable being naked with our husbands. Why is having a positive body image such a challenge for women? What can we do to combat messages that make us feel worse about ourselves? Do w...

About this episode Today we're talking about something that most women are thinking about at this time of year — taking better care of our health. If you're like us, you're probably thinking about getting in shape, eating a healthier diet, getting more sleep, or losing some weight over the next few months. And your reasons, like ours, are probably pretty straightforward — you want to look better....

Today we're talking about higher desire wives. But whether your sexual interest is higher or lower than your husband, you'll benefit from our conversation. Sponsor Learn more HERE . From the Bible What does God have to say about higher desire wives? "The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but...

We've talked a lot on this podcast about being able to discuss sex with your husband. And even have "more than one conversation," which is Gaye's trademark advice. But today, we want to walk through the specifics. Whether it's actually for small changes, an overhaul of your sex life, or something in between, how can you talk to your husband about sex? Sponsor Get your copy of Pillow Talk today! Fr...

When God created women, He gave us an amazing gift—the clitoris! Its only purpose is our sexual pleasure, but many of us don't know too much about this part of our body. In this episode, we're going to help you learn about the wonderful clitoris. Sponsor Learn more about Venus Pearls! From the Bible For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am...

About this episode In summertime, the living is supposed to be easy, but we often find it just as stressful and scheduled as the rest of the year is. In this episode we talk about simplifying your summer in ways that can improve your sex life. From the Bible Better one handful with tranquility than two handfuls with toil and chasing after the wind. Ecclesiastes 4:6 So I commend the enjoyment of li...

About this episode Bonny and Chris answer questions about older kids knowing that their parents are having sex, responding to a husband's struggle with pornography, and discerning what is okay in the bedroom. Sponsor https://b-ltx.com/venus-pearls/ From the Bible Matthew 5:28 - But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. Song of S...

About this episode You probably know from your own marriage, or from observing other marriages, that non-sexual interactions can make or break a marriage. Today, we talk about why this is true and how we can leverage it to benefit our marriages. Sponsors Use coupon code SC10 for 10% off! Click to Learn More This episode was also sponsored in part by Married Dance , a Christian-owned store for mari...

Our listeners have varied experiences, and some may value knowing some basic principles from a physical and emotional perspective. So today, we're getting back to the foundations of sexual intimacy, including what we wish we'd known going into marriage. Sponsor Check out our special offer for women-owned businesses. From the Bible But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindn...

With Bonny out again, we're down one wife today, but we've invited not one but two other wives to join us at today's virtual kitchen table. We're so happy to have Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer, co-authors of The Flirtation Experiment , with us to discuss how flirting with your husband can lead to greater intimacy in marriage and the bedroom. Be sure to check out their book! Sponsor This e...