Set Apart + Called Podcast

Trigger Warning: This episode contains real, paraphrased stories of narcissistic abuse, emotional abuse, physical violence, and trauma. Please listen at your own pace and skip any sections that feel overwhelming. Every survivor has a moment when everything clicks — the moment you finally see the narcissist clearly and realize you can’t stay another day. In this episode, we break down the final str...

Freedom after narcissistic abuse doesn’t start with peace — it starts with loneliness. In this episode, we talk about what healing really looks like after leaving a narcissist: the silence, the doubt, the grief, and the rediscovery of who you are when no one else shows up but God. This is for anyone who’s ever felt unseen, disbelieved, or told to “just get over it.” Because silence protects the ab...

In this episode of Set Apart and Called , we talk about what happens when survivors of narcissistic abuse finally reclaim their voice and how truth becomes the weapon that breaks spiritual and emotional bondage.

Evil doesn’t always look like a monster, sometimes it wears a smile. In this episode, we’re breaking down the spiritual anatomy of darkness: how pride, greed, and control open doors to the enemy. From the political to the personal, from global corruption to intimate betrayal, this is what it looks like when people give evil full access. This isn’t about fear — it’s about discernment. Because when...

This episode of Set Apart + Called goes beyond survival — it’s about power, patience, and peace. When you finally stop reacting to the narcissist’s tactics, you take back your authority. You learn that silence isn’t weakness — it’s wisdom. And peace? That’s your new power. In “The Lioness Doesn’t Concern Herself With the Narcissist,” we talk about emotional neutrality, divine restraint, and the qu...

This episode describes the quiet years that weren't wasted; to remind you that what felt like loss, was really and the harvest is already here and it's bringing peace, purpose and restoration. The wilderness wasn't punishment.

What happens when the first person who was supposed to love you becomes the one who wounds you most? In this episode, I open up about my relationship with my mother; the blurred boundaries, the absence, the grief, and the healing. This isn’t about blame, it’s about breaking generational patterns, learning what real love looks like, and finally setting yourself free

When your worth is buried under pain, love starts to look like survival. You don’t choose partners who meet your needs, you choose the ones who mirror your wounds. In this episode, we unpack how broken self-worth shapes attraction, and how healing changes what and who you’re drawn to. 🎧 Follow Set Apart + Called for new episodes every Tuesday and Thursday.

When the narcissist can’t control you directly, they recruit others to do it for them. This episode exposes one of the most cunning manipulation tactics: triangulation — the quiet campaign to confuse, isolate, and destroy through gossip, half-truths, and “concerned” enablers. 🎧 Set Apart + Called is a podcast about healing from narcissistic abuse through faith, truth, and spiritual authority. New...

On the outside, everything looked perfect: a growing family, a husband chasing his career, a life that seemed stable. But behind the picture, there was quiet devastation. In this episode, I open up about one of the most painful seasons of my marriage, when “on-call weekends” turned into nights of silence, unanswered calls, and hidden messages. I share the moments that finally revealed the truth, a...

This episode uncovers how early abandonment and emotional neglect create a spiritual and emotional vacuum — one that makes counterfeit love feel like the real thing. It’s not about blame. It’s about clarity. Because when you finally understand the wound, you stop chasing the people who reopen it. If you’ve ever felt unchosen, unseen, or unworthy — this one’s for you. You’re not broken. You’re beco...

They twist the truth, attack your character, and somehow make you the villain for exposing the abuse. It’s not confusion—it’s DARVO: Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. In this episode of Set Apart + Called, we expose one of the narcissist’s most insidious defense tactics—how they rewrite reality, weaponize empathy, and use calmness as control. You’ll learn how to recognize the pattern, pro...

They all act the same. Different names, different faces—but the same script. In this episode, I’m exposing the narcissist’s playbook: the lies that become their life, the cheating that feels like second nature, and the illusion they build to keep control. We’ll break down: Why they lie so easily it feels like breathing Why infidelity is strategy, not “mistake” How they create a kingdom of self tha...

Sweet words, careful apologies and promises to change; but the cycle is the same: idealize, devalue, withdraw and repeat. This episode names the pattern, shows how trauma-bonding works, and gives practical ways to break free and guard your peace, even if you still live under the same roof.

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There's a wound behind the control. A rage behind the charm and too often, a mother wound. In this episode, we expose the hidden root of narcissistic abuse in men who hate women they can't dominate...and dehumanize the rest. From unresolved maternal trauma to emotional immaturity disguised as masculinity, this episode peels back the psychological and spiritual layers of the mother wound - and how...

When you leave a controlling relationship, the story doesn’t end—it gets rewritten. In this episode I unpack the narcissist’s most disorienting tactic: the rewrite. I share anonymized messages and a personal scene of sudden accusations that shattered moments of calm, showing how false confessions and public image-control flip the narrative and make you doubt your own memory. Through scripture (Luk...

Some people are drawn to you for what you carry , not for who you are. In this episode we break down how narcissists feed on the very qualities that make you radiant: your joy, influence, and spiritual authority, while draining you dry. I share the subtle signs: the unexplained fatigue, the ruined celebrations, the silent treatments, and the double life that no one else sees. We also peel back the...

Welcome to the very first episode of Set Apart and Called - a podcast that exposes narcissistic abuse through a spiritual lens. In this episode, you'll hear how spiritual warfare, abuse, and divine assignment collided in my life..and how God used it all to help those who are going through narcissistic abuse and therefore spiritual warfare. You'll also get a glimpse into how this podcast will work:...