Self success

We all encounter situations that force us to use what we have to lighten the moments. We also encounter situations that force us to make it worst. We have the ability to choose how we want them to look like. I'd like to share with you some good habits you can start having, if you haven't already. Or use and foster them in unpleasant situations you find yourself and others around you in. Li...

Self reflection can help you get back in the right direction. Sometimes you have to take a step back to be able to move a few steps forward and self reflect can help you do that. It takes looking into yourself to become the person you want to be. And it can help with your continued success in your self succession. Here are the few tips that helped me and I would like to share them with you. And pe...

Everyone has grief, especially from the ones we lose and love dearest to our hearts. I'll give you some tips of mine and perhaps you can tell me some of yours. Grief doesn't have to be as painful as we always think it would be. We can turn it around and make it a gift, a peace, an understanding, and most of all, a forgiveness - that can overcome our deepest regrets.

Self success has many definitions and someone else's definition does not have to be yours. It comes in many shapes and forms. But how do you find your own definition of self success? There is a way and that way is to look inside of yourself.

Exposure/explore can help define who you are as a person. It's an act of getting your feet wet so you can discover what you like or not like about certain subjects and things. Exposing yourself through self interest studies or just plain curiosity can align you with what success for yourself looks like. It has the capability to narrow down your wide curiosity so you can focus on the things tha...

Support can play a huge role in one of the most important relationships you can have, as well as all relationships around you. It comes in many different forms and effects people in more positive ways than not. Support your partner and they will begin to support you. Support your friends, family/relatives, colleagues and what have you, and you'll find yourself surrounded by more of them. This...

Desperate makes u most vulnerable. While being vulnerable can be a good thing sometimes, desperation can make you put what’s most important on the line and have you suffer possible long term or total loss. Make sure you think about how dire your situation is before taking the next step because once you do something, you can't turn back. Some may say sometimes there may be a second chance, and ther...

Investing in yourself is the biggest thing you can ever do.  Depending on what type of lifestyle you want, education can be of utmost help. It can help you get paid more, it can make you more marketable when you apply for jobs. Having a higher education can help you stand out and set you apart from others who have less education, especially if you lack the experience in the field you apply fo...

Hold onto family if you can. Family can be a foundation we all cannot avoid and that can really shape how you will become or who you are right now. Family can really help you in ways that will serve a purpose for what you plan to do in life; work-wise, relationship-wise.  Grandparents can be the starting point that leads to where you discover what's most precious to you, what's precious to on...

Learn how to manage your money so it won’t cause issues with relationships or stress and worry for yourself. Spend your money wisely and modestly and still get what you want. Saving is part of great money management but if it's in a savings account generating interest below rising inflation rates, your money is depreciating.  Learn how to make money work for you instead of depending on earnin...

Communication can be extremely hard but it's important to do enough of it to maintain and strengthen the bond between you and your mate. Make sure you do your part, otherwise, don't have expectations. Strong communication at home can translate into a successful marriage, a successful career, a successful parenthood for you and your kid(s), and a successful life. Life is hard. If you can do lighten...

There's all types of friends. Good friends, bad friends, friends that are your family, true friends, and untrue friends. Make yourself count by valuing yourself before determining who's worth your time, emotion, and trust.  If it ain't fixed, it's broken. It doesn't mean you have to break yourself to fix someone else's issues. 'You can't make a bad movie good' is what my film professor said....

What is your heritage?  Can it be something you're proud of? Can it make you stronger? Will it help with no shame? Would it help with judgement from others that can potentially hurt you? Being interested in your heritage, culture, traditions can help you bring so much passion that success comes easy. It can help you escape your everyday life to focus on what you're actually passionate about.&...

Having expectations can strain relationships with everyone and everything else around you, leaving a sour taste in your mouth each time. Not everyone likes being disappointed every time. There's positive aspects as well as negative aspects in having expectations, just be realistic about it and meet yourself in the middle. Does common sense really exist? Isn’t everyone at different levels? Don't se...

What do you find yourself doing or feeling when you find your partner's schedule now conflicts with yours? How do you deal with it?  A few ways. Focus on your goals, strengthen your relationship with others, and do activities you can enjoy either by yourself or with others. It can be a blessing in disguise.

Ownership comes with three things. Responsibility in your work, home, and hobbies. Acceptance that you're no longer ashamed of certain things that may have happened in your life. You're no longer beating yourself up over things you can't change. Accepting the past is owning who you have become and without your past, you wouldn't be where you are today. Finally, recognition. Recognition helps you u...

You never have to renew it. There’s no recurring fee. It’s with you for life You can make the most out of it. What can u say to kids about diplomas? It can be one of ur most powerful assets.

I think one of the most important moments spent are times with family because they mold you into what you can become. That's why I believe conversations at the dinner table with family is not something we all may appreciate in the moments but reflecting back can be fond memories that we wish to carry on when we create our own families.  It helps with learnings, when u share what u learned, u...

For the sake of your mental health, recognizing that there may be an issue on the rise, taking the time to reschedule can help you over the long term. Do what you have to do to get what you want to get and know when the balance needs to be made. Do what's best for your household, your career, and your self gratification.

what does it mean to be independent? why be independent? -liberating -increase confidence in facing fears -increase self esteem, makes you feel better about yourself -no one has to worry about you -helps you develop knowledge that can be passed down to others. Cons about being dependent: -Always need someone there beside you. As you grow older, you’ll notice not everyone has the time in the world...

It's important to give yourself credit and recognize that you deserve more.  Reflect, recognize, and transcend. 

Many things can happen when you ask questions. You become more resourceful, great questions lead you to great answers, curiousity builds character, you build references, you know more things as you research the questions you ask. Bad questions lead to death, you don’t grow, and life gets boring. What can questions do for you? 

Something we don't actually take the time to think about can cost us some sort of discomfort in our lives. Isn't it worth the time to do something that's a win/win/win for yourself? 

Motivation pushes you to do things you don’t want to do and motivation pushes you to do things because you enjoy doing it. It's hard to keep motivated but when you find a ritual or make something a habit where it becomes second nature, it can really reprogram your subconcious mind and help you through things you never would have thought you could get over.

Being resourceful can have such great benefits and can cause greater impacts in your life. Scientists use this technique all of the time. Steve Jobs was someone who used this technique over and over. This is how entreprenuers get their title. They use their knowledge to combine the resources they have, to invent things we all need or want. If you know how to be resourceful, you can find anyway to...