Self-Represented in Family Court

862.800.7850 One of the phrases litigants overuse  in Family Court is: "High Conflict. "Someone disagrees with you? They’re high conflict. Someone enforces a boundary? They're high conflict. Someone refuses to give you what you want? They're high conflict. But what if they're not? In this episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, Tracey Bee challenges one of the most mi...

862.800.7850 Having a lawyer does not automatically mean your case is moving forward. In fact, one of the biggest frustrations people experience in Family Court is wondering whether their attorney is actually solving problems, or simply managing conflict while the legal bills continue to grow. In this episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, Tracey Bee breaks down the critical difference betwe...

862.800.7850 Litigation Panic is real. And it affects far more people than most ot us realize. In high-conflict Family Court cases, even highly capable, emotionally regulated, intelligent people can start second-guessing themselves, making impulsive decisions, and losing the strategic thinking skills they normally rely on in every other area of life. In this episode of Self-Represented in Family C...

862.800.7850 Delays in Family Court can be discouraging. The continuances. The canceled hearings. The months of silence. The feeling that your case is going nowhere while your life stays stuck. Here's something to acknowledge: Not every delay is accidental. In high-conflict divorce and custody cases, delays are  strategic sometimes.. In this episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, Tracey...

862.800.7850 Most people think hybrid legal representation is the “best of both worlds” and guarantees better results in their divorce or custody case.  You represent yourself, but still use a lawyer for guidance, strategy, filings, or specific court appearances. Sounds like the perfect setup, right? ⮞More control. ⮞Less money. ⮞ Professional support when you need it. Hybrid legal representation w...

862.800.7850 One of the biggest decisions you’ll make in your case? Do you represent yourself…or hire a lawyer? It’s not as simple as most think.  Because switching between pro se and lawyer can completely change: ✔️ How your case moves; ✔️ How the court responds to you; ✔️ How the other side interacts with you; ✔️ And the outcome you’re working toward. In this episode of Self-Represented in Famil...

862.800.7850 AI tools are everywhere right now, especially in Family Court.  ✔️Helping you organize your case. ✔️Prepare  your documents. ✔️Even “build” your legal argument. And for someone going through Family Court…that can feel like exactly what you need. But unfortunately not everything that helps you feel prepared actually helps your case. In fact, some tools can quietly damage your credibili...

862.800.7850 Family Court would be easier if every situation had a clear answer. An identifiable rule to follow. A direction on which motion to file. A fair judge to decide. But that’s not how it works, not in Family Court.  In reality, some of the most important moments in your case happen in what’s called the gray area. The gray area are the situations where the law isn’t clear, the court order...

862.800.7850 More people are asking for alimony right now than ever before. And it makes sense, based on: Economic uncertainty. Job instability. Rising costs. Financial dependence after divorce. But here’s what you probably don't realize: Just because you need alimony… doesn’t mean you’ll actually get it. In this episode of Self-Represented in Family Court , Tracey Bee breaks down one of the...

862.800.7850 Season 3 Episode 14 Most people think hiring a lawyer means they can step back and let the professional handle everything… I meant to say EVERYTHING. But that’s not how strong cases are built. In this episode of Self-Represented in Family Court , Tracey Bee breaks down something rarely discussed, that is,  the different types of clients lawyers work with and how your behavior as a cli...

862.800.7850 Settling your case can feel like the fastest path to having the peace you once enjoyed. Less stress. Less conflict. Less time in court. And sometimes… settling is absolutely the right move. But settling just to end the stress without understanding what you're giving up can create new problems later down the road. In this episode of Self-Represented in Family Court , Tracey Bee di...

862.800.7850 In this episode of Self-Represented in Family Court , Tracey Bee goes deep on one of the most misunderstood and frustrating dynamics in divorce: Financial abuse. And the same patterns from the marriage begin to play out inside the divorce process,  making it more expensive, more stressful, and more difficult to navigate. But here’s where most people go wrong: They expect the court to...

862.800.7850 Can You Keep the House? | Family Court Strategy In this episode of Self-Represented in Family Court , Tracey Bee addresses one of the most emotionally motivated (and often misunderstood) questions in divorce and custody cases: “Can I keep the house?” In this episode, Tracey walks through the strategic considerations behind keeping the marital home, including why wanting the house and...

862.800.7850 In this episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, Tracey Bee dives into one of the most overlooked elements of family court strategy: timing. Most litigants focus on what to file, what evidence to present, or what arguments to make. But the truth is, when you make your move can be just as important as what move you make. Timing influences leverage. If you’ve ever wondered whether y...

862.800.7850 In this episode of “Self-Represented in Family Court,” Tracey Bee breaks down a reality most litigants don’t realize until it’s too late: Family Court is overloaded, overworked and overwhelmed…no matter where the court is. Judges just don’t have the time to give the necessary attention to every case so they have to employ “systems” to help them.  Judges often tend to classify or label...

862.800.7850 You are not prepared for Family Court. You might be ready, but you are NOT prepared, at least most of you aren’t. You might have gathered all the proof you can, gotten familiar with the laws, might have even hired the best lawyer for the job. But NONE of these things actually prepare you the way you need to be prepared for the bewildering experience of Family Court. Well, It's ti...

862.800.7850 In this episode of “Self-Represented in Family Court”, Tracey Bee breaks down a common (and frustrating) reality: your case can lose traction even when you have “strong evidence.” Why? Because in Family Court, outcomes often hinge less on how much you have, and more on how you position and present your case, how you manage timing, and whether your narrative matches what the court can...

862.800.7850 This time of year I usually take a break to decompress.  So right now I am working on clearing my mind while at the same time gearing up for 2026. I am still working though so if you need to schedule a strategy session, need help preparing for court or want me to assist with trial preparation, feel free to reach out to me at www. TheDivorceSolutionist.com. Happy Holidays Take care, Su...

862.800.7850 Most people think the more evidence you bring to court, the better.  But in family court? That approach can destroy your credibility. In this episode, Tracey explains why judges ignore evidence, how opposing counsel gets it thrown out, and how to present your case strategically so your key proof actually gets seen. A must-listen for anyone gathering screenshots, texts, videos, or emai...

862.800.7850 Ever walked out of a courtroom thinking, “What just happened in there?” You told the truth. You stayed calm. You presented your evidence — and somehow, the judge still didn’t get it. If that sounds like you, this episode is your reality check — and your roadmap out. In this episode, Tracey Bee, breaks down one of her most important strategies: reframing . Because in family court, it’s...

862.800.7850 Tracey Bee breaks down how to turn court rulings, whether wins, losses, or partial decisions, into strategic data points you can actually use to finally move your case forward. She explains how to read between the lines of your judge’s orders, spot behavioral patterns, and use those clues to predict future outcomes and strategically plot your next move. Learn how to identify what your...

862.800.7850 Tracey Bee breaks down civil vs. criminal restraining orders as it relates to Family Court issues.  She also goes into things like why requests get denied, and how to build a stronger application if you’re self‑represented or working with counsel.  Learn what judges need to see, how to present testimony, what evidence matters, and options if an order is denied  And if you're in n...

862.800.7850 Most litigants lose in Family Court for reasons they never even see coming. In this episode, I’m breaking down the hidden blind spots that can quietly sabotage your case—even when you think it’s airtight. Whether you’re representing yourself, stuck between attorneys, or even working with that so-called “bulldog” lawyer, these blind spots show up. We’re going to talk about tunnel visio...

862.800.7850  Welcome back to Self-Represented in Family Court ! In this Season 3 opener, Tracey Bee (your host, former family law attorney, mediator, and strategist) sets the stage for the most empowering season yet. After a summer of building new tools, connecting with advocates, and expanding her nonprofit, Tracey is ready to dive into fresh conversations on empowerment, strategy, technology, a...

862.800.7850 In this insightful episode your host, Tracey Bee, founder of The Divorce Solutionist, former family law attorney, and your go-to pro se strategist — pulls back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood tools in the family court system: mediation .  Though often seen as a peaceful alternative to litigation, mediation is not a guaranteed fix especially for self-represented litigants....