See Through

Feeling stuck in your career? In this episode of See Through, Dev and Roger break down the mindset shifts that actually move the needle — finding your differentiator, building consistency over intensity, the confidence-competence connection, and why the biggest decisions of your career are being made in rooms you are not in. No resume tips. No networking hacks. Just honest perspective from two peo...

Who are you when your job is not the answer? In this episode of See Through, Dev and Roger get honest about the identity trap most people do not notice until it is too late — when your career ends, pivots, or stops being enough, and you realize you do not know who you are without it. From Roger stepping away from a 22-year tech career to Dev's funeral moment that reoriented everything, this o...

What do you actually owe your family — and what are you just guilted into? In this episode of See Through, Dev and Roger get honest about family obligation, resentment, and the guilt nobody examines until it boils over. Roger breaks down why obligation isn't the enemy — resentment is — and connects the generations most vocally rejecting family obligation to the highest rates of loneliness eve...

Your body is keeping score even when you are not — and most people do not notice until it is too late. In this episode of See Through, Dev and Roger get real about physical health without the perfection and without the lecture. From holding a sleeping toddler until your shoulder gives out to losing a parent too young to heart disease, they talk about what actually changes your relationship with yo...

AI is already here — the question is whether it is working for you or quietly working against you. In this episode of See Through, Dev and Roger get honest about what AI is actually doing to human confidence, critical thinking, and identity. From the math textbook analogy to Uber's AI pricing model to people using ChatGPT as their therapist, they cover the parts of this conversation most peop...

You are probably paying for things you forgot you subscribed to — and that is exactly what companies are counting on. In this episode of See Through, Dev and Roger break down the subscription economy, why owning nothing has become the new normal, how corporations lobbied against your right to cancel easily, and what it is actually costing you beyond the monthly charge. Plus a round of fake subscri...

Dev makes the case for marriage. Roger questions the contract behind it. On this episode of See Through, the happily-married host and the happily-single dad go head-to-head on one of the most polarizing questions a couple can ask — is marriage still worth it, or are we just following a script nobody updated? They dig into the conversations most couples skip before saying “I do”: how you and your p...

What would you actually do with $10,000 right now — and what does your answer say about you? In this episode of See Through, hosts Dev and Roger get personal about their relationships with money, from sneaker collections and credit card debt to ETFs, day trading, and energy stocks. They break down real strategies for different seasons of life, challenge the get rich quick mentality, and ask the qu...

When things go wrong and your brain goes into panic mode — what do you actually do? In this episode of See Through, hosts Dev and Roger break down the real skill of reframing your thinking in the moment, without the toxic positivity. From shark moments to the performance trap, they get honest about why most people freeze, why confidence is the missing ingredient, and how to practice reframing befo...

On this episode of See Through , hosts Dev and Roger unpack the male loneliness epidemic — and why the real problem isn't feeling alone, it's being unknown, even to the people closest to you. Using the lifeguard analogy and lawn chair conversations, they break down why men suppress instead of share, what it actually takes to show up for the people you love, and why one honest conversatio...

Are you living your life — or just grinding through it? On this episode of See Through , Dev and Roger break down hustle culture, the performance mindset, and why social media makes it worse. They unpack the real difference between grinding and growing, why rest isn't the enemy of progress, and why the happiest people you know probably aren't posting about it. If you've ever felt li...

We judge others by their actions and ourselves by our intentions. That one idea is the foundation of this episode of See Through, and once you hear it, you cannot unsee it. Dev and Roger take on one of the most universally human yet rarely examined behaviors we all quietly engage in every day: judgment. Inspired by the viral social media trend of listening without judging, the two get honest about...

Most of your friendships right now probably fit into one of four categories — and you already know which ones. On this episode of See Through , hosts Dev and Roger get brutally honest about the friendship patterns nobody admits to: the slow drift, the "obligation friend" you only see out of guilt, the one-sided dynamic that's draining you, and the friendship you wish you had but don...

What if the version of yourself you're chasing is actually out of reach, and the real breakthrough is knowing where your ceiling truly is? In this episode of See Through , hosts Dev and Roger break down human capacity, self-awareness, and emotional intelligence through a practical lens: why knowing your limits isn't weakness, it's the clearest sign of real self-awareness. Dev shares...

There are two questions that can unlock more honesty in ten minutes than most conversations get to in years. On this episode of See Through, Dev and Roger sit down with both of them — and neither host walks away unscathed. One question forces you to name the exact age you were at your best. The other asks what you’re actually working toward right now. Before they get there, Dev shares a question A...

What if the only thing standing between you and the life you want is the one thing you refuse to give up? In this episode of See Through, Dev and Roger go deep on one of the most powerful truths in personal growth, career development, and financial success: if you do not sacrifice for what you want, what you want becomes the sacrifice. It is a concept that sounds simple until you are the one being...

What does it really mean to be a present, intentional father in today's world? In this special Father's Day episode of See Through, hosts Dev and Roger get raw and honest about the realities of modern fatherhood — at two completely different stages of the journey. Roger opens up about raising teenagers, the wake-up call that made him reprioritize family over career, and the conscious dec...

Redefining Success On Your Own Terms What if "falling behind" is actually exactly where you're supposed to be? In this episode of See Through, Dev and Roger get real about personal growth, career change, and the messy, nonlinear path to figuring out who you are. Roger opens up about leaving post secondary school to work in the same sawmill as his father, calling it "time on&quo...

Quitting gets a bad reputation, but Dev and Roger are here to change that. In this episode, the two go head-to-head in a candid debate about one of life's most underrated decisions: knowing when to walk away. From burnout and toxic environments to lack of fulfillment and missed opportunities, Roger makes the case for why quitting can be an act of courage, self-respect, and wisdom. But Dev isn...

Most of us are running on autopilot, showing up to jobs that drain us, friendships that feel one-sided, and responsibilities we never actually chose. But what if the shift from obligation to commitment could change everything? In this episode of See Through, Dev and Roger explore one of the most quietly powerful distinctions in personal development: the difference between doing something because y...

What if the single greatest shortcut to personal growth is the one most people never take? In this debut episode of See Through, Dev and Roger explore mentorship, one of the most powerful yet overlooked forces in human development. From Mr. Miyagi's quiet wisdom in The Karate Kid to Yoda's patience in Star Wars and Rafiki's tough love in The Lion King, the mentor-mentee dynamic has...

Welcome to the inaugural episode of “See Through,” a podcast dedicated to shifting your perspective on everyday experiences. Hosts Dev and Roger aim to delve into a wide array of topics, from career and finances to relationships and culture, encouraging listeners to move beyond superficial discussions and challenge their own viewpoints. The show was born out of a desire for deeper connection and a...

Welcome to “See Through,” a podcast dedicated to shifting your perspective on everyday experiences. Hosts Dev and Roger delve into a wide array of topics, from career and finances to relationships and culture, aiming to move beyond superficial discussions. This show is born from a desire for deeper connection and a space where it’s okay to not have all the answers, encouraging listeners to peel ba...