Second Time Around

Before we ever turned on the microphones, Karen and I met Joel and Sarah by chance during a night out for dinner. What started as a simple conversation quickly revealed a story that felt perfect for Second Time Around . In this episode, Joel and Sarah share their journey of finding love again, navigating the challenges of blending families, and building a relationship grounded in authenticity, com...

In this episode, we sit down with Francis and Karin as they open up about the real, unpolished work of starting over after divorce and blending two families. They take us through the unexpected turns, the moments that stretched them, and the decisions they had to make to protect their own well-being along the way. Karin shares the losses that reshaped her, the joy that surprised her, and how love...

In this episode of Second Time Around with Ken and Karen , we’re joined by a special guest, Francis, for an honest and insightful conversation about how couples can navigate disagreements without falling into the same old destructive patterns. Together, we explore how practicing respectful communication — and learning to show up, own up, and follow up — can help transform conflict into connection....

In this heartfelt episode, Ken and Karen continue the intimate and organic dialogue that defines their "Second Time Around" series. They delve into the art of prioritizing their relationship as a stabilizing force during conflicts. Listeners will gain insights into recognizing how resentment can act as fertile ground for weeds in a relationship and learn practical ways to stay aware and conscious...

Ever wonder why you respond the way you do to your spouse or partner?  Are you left shaking your head after a failed relationship because you repeat the same cycle of behaviors? If so, you’re not alone! Join Ken and Karen as they take a look at the evolving science of Attachment, sharing timely guidance and valuable insights on how to recognize patterns in our present relationships and providing g...

Welcome back to another enlightening episode of "Ken and Karen’s Second Time Around." In today's discussion titled "Shoulder to Shoulder; It’s not all about me," Ken and Karen delve deep into the essence of mutuality within a healthy relationship. They emphasize the importance of being other-centered and encourage listeners to maintain their individuality without losing the...

In this captivating episode of "Deep and Wild," Ken and Karen lead a profound exploration of the importance of understanding oneself and the significance of being a grounded individual as you dive into the depths of a relationship. They discuss several vital characteristics that define the grounded self and illustrate how these traits influence the dynamics of relationships. Join them as...

In this eye-opening episode, Ken and Karen delve into the complex layers of communication, shedding light on how your personal history shapes your perception of yourself and your partner. They discuss the lasting impact of childhood development and programming, offering valuable insights for recognizing and addressing reactivity and defensiveness. Join them as they provide practical strategies to...

In this episode of "Second Time Around," hosts Karen and Ken are joined by the insightful Jason to explore the intriguing world of relationships and love. They kick things off by delving into the latest statistics on infidelity, particularly on social media giant Facebook. Jason then opens up about his personal journey, sharing heartfelt experiences of navigating dating and rediscovering...

Join us as we explore the intricacies of navigating life with adult children in blended families. From fostering strong connections to embracing new roles, we uncover the unique challenges and triumphs of parenting in this new phase. Discover practical insights and heartfelt stories that shed light on the transformative journey of guiding your grown-up progeny. Whether you're a parent in a ble...

In this episode, join us as we dive into the exhilarating realm of second relationships and the journey of rediscovering passion. Ken and Karen take center stage as we explore the dynamics of intimacy and delve into the uncharted territory of sex in their second marriage. From reigniting desire to navigating new boundaries, we candidly discuss the challenges, triumphs, and transformative experienc...

Join us in this episode as we do a deep dive into the shared experiences of Ken and Karen in their second marriage. Discover the unique insights, challenges, and triumphs they've encountered along their journey of love and commitment. From blending families to creating a harmonious home, we explore the remarkable moments that have shaped their path together. Prepare to be inspired by their sto...

Join Ken and Karen as they take you on their journey trough Karen's first born daughter's wedding and describe their unexpected connections.

Meet Jeremy and Erin who join Karen and Ken from Philadelphia in this episode to discuss how faith, trauma, and co-parenting shapes their #SecondTimeAround. Though their stories are quite different, each comes with it’s own unique and valuable lessons.

In part 2 of the special holiday episode, Karen and Ken sit down post-holidays to debrief. They talk about managing expectations with 11 adult children, blending old traditions, and embracing the new decade in their #SecondTimeAround.

In this special holiday episode, Karen and Ken discuss the tension, stress, drama, and excitement that surround the holidays when it’s your #SecondTimeAround. They talk traditions, holiday traumas, and the challenges of communicating in a blended family.

Meet RJ Hebner, the professional dog trainer whose philosophy is, “The way to be with dogs is the way to be in life.” In this episode you’ll learn what dogs reacting to trauma can teach us about our human experience, and how RJ applies these lessons to his #SecondTimeAround story. TLDR; Meditation bowls, trauma, dog training, open relationships.

Meet your hosts, Karen and Ken. Ken with 30+ years experience as a licensed clinical therapist and now relationship coach, along with his wife Karen, a relationship coach and survivor of a nearly 30 year abusive marriage, take listeners on a journey through their #SecondTimeAround story!