Secluded Thoughts

Your job/career takes up a significant portion of your time and life. Are you doing something you enjoy? Are you brave enough to pursue the things you really want to do? Or are you going to stay in a position you hate and be the person who always complains about how they hate their job? Or will you spend 5,10,15+ years at a position you hate to please other people or because you're afraid of t...

When I adopted this mindset it changed my life, and I'm sure it'll change yours too. I'm sure you have your idea of what your life is supposed to look like and where you're supposed to be in life right now and the things you're supposed to have. And if your reality doesn't live up to your vision you take it out on yourself. You think you're falling behind in life becaus...

Sis, isolating yourself from everyone and everything to "heal" is fake news. You're not healing, you're just avoiding your triggers. How will you know if you're healed or not unless you get triggered and respond to it differently? Let's talk about it. This is a clip from Episode 38 - Who were you before the world told you who you should be? GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP...

Now sis... how many times are you going to ask God for a sign about that man and then act blind and deaf when you get it??? Let this be the last sign that helps you get it together. This is a clip from Episode 40 - Stop ignoring your intuition   GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts You...

This episode will change your life. I learned something from a 5 minute snippet in a motivational speech that is literally about to change my life and I'm sharing it with you so it changes yours too. We've all heard people say things like "what are you intentions?" or "be intentional about your day" but what does that really mean? The way I heard it explained in this motiva...

An oak tree will never become an oak tree if it's in a plant pot all its life - the same goes for you. If you stay where you are you'll never become who you're supposed to be. This is a clip from Episode 32 - Your environment will always win   GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedtho...

Just because you started down one path doesn't mean you're OBLIGATED to keep going down that path. It's okay if you want a change. It's okay to do something completely different. This is a clip from Episode 31 - Don't put yourself in a box   GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@seclu...

Don't make your healing optional because you're seeing people who have more than you who clearly didn't make theirs a priority. Just because you've seen people who are very financially successful with character flaws doesn't mean you should neglect working on your own character and focusing on your healing. Your happiness, personal life and the quality of your relationships dep...

Are you envious of other people? Are you even aware of it? Cause that might be the reason your desires aren't manifesting and you may not even realize it. This is a clip from Episode 35 - This is why you think you're behind in life   GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube:...

Don't allow people to change you and make you put up walls to prevent yourself from getting disappointed again. One disappointment isn't worth changing the fact that you have a good heart. Deal with the person and don't take it personal. This is a clip from Episode 49 - To everyone who is constantly disappointed and to those who do the disappointing   GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP2...

You may not have it in you to say your affirmations or believe in your biggest dreams right now because you're going through a tough time. Maybe you're going through one of those seasons where life has sent some tough challenges your way or you've been working at your dreams for a long time but you're not seeing any results. Either one of these situations can make giving up look ve...

It was never about the job. You are the problem. Your bad habits are the problem. Stop waiting to FEEL like doing thing, just do it. Let's talk about it. This is a clip from Episode 42 - Stop waiting to feel like it.. just DO IT   GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https:...

So despite praying to God for 100 signs and him sending you 1000 confirming that he wasn't the one and you ignoring him... do you STILL think the other person is 100% to blame for the fact that you got hurt? This is a clip from Episode 30 - Why nothing is going your way   GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.ti...

How you view this season in your life will effect how long you stay in it as well as the outcome.  Topics covered in this episode: Being planted but thinking you’re buried Not thinking there’s a light at the end of the tunnel How people think you’re “lucky” when you achieve your goals  Reflecting on other times in your life when you’ve been planted Being envious of what other people have Leave a c...

Imagine having a problem and emotionally unloading on someone, getting their advice and then not taking it.... and bringing the problem back to them over and over. Draining, right? So why do you keep allowing it to happen to you? This is a clip from Episode 36 - Stop sacrificing yourself for people who don't want your help   GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/jou...

If you look at your trial and error phase as a failure you're creating unnecessary unhappiness in your life. Here's a better perspective that'll help. This is a clip from Episode 31 - Don't put yourself in a box   GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www...

Are you living with regrets right now? Things you wish you would've done some time ago or something that's been on your mind for a while but you're too scared to take the leap of faith? Let's talk about it in this episode. Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/e5Kl2Xc4DSI Mentioned: EP #72 - It's Time To Put Yourself First GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://sec...

The little things you're doing to be comfortable or have convenience are creating bad habits in your life and throwing you off track. Do you even realize it? This is a clip from Episode 42 - Stop waiting to feel like it... just DO IT   GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: h...

There's something you've been doing a lot that you think has no impact on your confidence but it's literally KILLING IT. It's eroding any ounce of belief you have in yourself and you don't even know it. Let's talk about your why your confidence is trash and why it's hard for you to believe in yourself when you want to do new things. This is a clip from Episode 49 - To e...

Are you posting because you genuinely want to share your life and memories with others or because you need to let people know you're not boring or you're enjoying your life? Why do we feel the need to post things just to prove a point to people? Why do we have such a need for social media validation? And what are you going to do about it? Leave a comment on Youtube:  https://youtu.be/YLi3Q...

No matter how much discipline and self control you think you have NEVER underestimate your ability to give into peer pressure. This is a clip from Episode 32 - Your environment will always win   GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodc...

Enough of going on about how people did you wrong. When are you going to admit that you had a part in letting it happen? This is a clip from Episode 30 - Why nothing is going your way   GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast Insta...

Life has its ups and downs. One minute you're flourishing & thriving and the next minute you're convinced that God has beef with you. In my experience we go through 3 phases in our life - the ups, downs, and in betweens. Let's talk about the purpose of each phase and how to navigate it. Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/96LRoZHRJi0 MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Suicide epis...

Here's some PRACTICAL advice on what to do if you have no idea what you're passionate about or what you want to do with your life. This is a clip from Episode 31 - Don't put yourself in a box   GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedT...

You need to know what success looks like for you so you can stop worrying about what other people are accomplishing in their own race. This is a clip from Episode 35 - This is why you think you're behind in life GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c...