Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

We’re helping some Scrubbers out with another round of Dear Banya, but we may need some professional assistance. We give advice to someone who changed their mind about having kids, and another who has a crush on a coworker and needs help with their next move! Plus, we talk Love Island and another attempt at “Who Am I”! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Did anything happen this weekend?? Becca shares her experience attending the wedding of the CENTURY! Find out everything that happened inside MSG, all the details leading up to the big night, and we hear the true story of how Tanya found out! Plus… we revisit our songs of summer picks (with varying success).  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We’re celebrating the 4th of July with our favorite traditions, our summer plans, and what we’d put in a time capsule! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We’re back with more Dear Banya, even if we may not have the qualifications to solve these problems. A Scrubber has a question about Becca’s coming out journey which leads to the story of how Tanya became the co-host! Another Scrubber found some questionable texts on her boyfriend’s phone and we try to help with some in-law issues.  Plus… was Tanya caught speeding?? S...

Becca is recovering from the whirlwind of Girls Like Girls opening weekend and she has SO much to share from the premiere week! We get a behind the scenes look at the craziness that goes into making a movie and we find out who had Tanya starstruck at one of the screenings! We HAVE to get into Love Island, because Casa Amor is upon us and things have taken a turn! And we analyze some passive aggres...

It’s another round of Dear Banya! A Scrubber’s husband wants her to quit her job… but also keep their finances separate. Tanya has some thoughts! And another Scrubber came out to their fiancé and didn’t get the best reaction.  Plus, we return to the world of Guess Who! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It’s a BIG week!! Girls Like Girls premiere day, new Olivia Rodrigo album, and the Girls Like Girls SOUNDTRACK! We hear all about Becca’s wild night at the release party, and Tanya shares what life is like being married to a Tik Tok chef.  We break down the excitement of the NBA finals and Tanya has a shocking reaction to Love Island! Plus, what do you do with your partner that do...

It’s time for another round of Dear Banya!  We help a Scrubber who desperately needs to set a boundary with her father,  and another Scrubber who’s starting to resent her friend.  Plus… a new game! Strap in... See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Becca was in the WeHo Pride Parade! We get a full recap of her magical ride on the Girls Like Girls float and she takes an emotional journey back to her 2018 self.  Tanya opens up about sharing her TTC journey and we have some THOUGHTS on Love Island (both USA and UK!). Plus, Ethan Slater and Ariana Grande are splitsville, and Taylor Swift’s alleged wedding venue has inspired a new theo...

We know that Scrubbers are perfectly satisfied with the unqualified advice we give on the podcast, but we thought we’d treat you to someone who actually knows what they’re talking about! Ellen K and licensed therapist Sarah Dash from the Therapy Thursday Podcast are helping out with a round of Dear Banya! Find out what to do if your friend went to your ex’s wedding, we help a Scr...

Becca had a wardrobe malfunction while she was out celebrating Hayley and it leads to some deep research about the rate pleather gets "homogenized”.  Tanya finally got Roby’s anniversary gift and… it wasn’t exactly what she expected. Let’s all spiral together! Plus, new Taylor Swift music, new Ariana Grande, and arugula as a dairy substitute?? See omnystudio.com...

Tanya was boots on the ground for the Survivor 50 finale and she has a FULL report!! But her TV passion isn’t limited to the island competition, because she HAS to talk about Off Campus! Have you watched?? We make our predictions for the 2026 Song of Summer, and Becca feels seen by a millennial texting style lol.  Plus, we try our hand at the “Wow Okay” challenge! See omnyst...

Our favorite fiancé/director is in the O.R.!! Hayley is back to finally tell us everything about her directorial debut “Girls Like Girls” (in theaters June 19th wink wink) Hayley shares her years long journey of bringing the story of Girls Like Girls from song to music video and now a feature film! She takes us through every no, every disappointing call, and we learn how sh...

It’s another round of Dear Banya, with some (almost)(not quite)(far from) expert advice! We help a single mom looking to step out of her comfort zone and make a connection with her new neighbor, we collectively lose our minds at lack of Mother’s Day posting, and we get into the hard hitting topic of our most used Emojis! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tanya had the house to herself this weekend and she’s JUST NOW obsessed with the new Noah Kahan. Find out her top tracks and if Becca ever pressed play on the new Meghan Trainor! Becca and Tanya share their reactions to the first few Harry Styles shows, and we get into the news of Alex Cooper becoming “Call Her Mommy”. Plus, love for the new Kacey Musgraves music, and Tanya has a...

Giulinana Rancic is the ultimate Modern Woman and an ICON from E! Red Carpets, and she’s made it to the O.R. with her husband Bill Rancic to share everything about their relationship and their new podcast! Bill and Giuliana aim to find the answers to the questions that keep us up at night, from adult ADHD to “why is my **** green?” Plus, Giuliana shares some memories from her fav...

Tanya's mindset was totally changed this weekend when Roby surprised her with a deeply meaningful breakfast in bed. But we HAVE to hear about Becca's night out with Hayley at the Gold Gala!  We debrief about hanging with Stephen Colletti and James Lafferty and take a second to celebrate our favorite unproblematic TV men.  Plus, Becca has a reformed opinion on men in flip flops while Tany...

One Tree Hill, Laguna Beach, The Traitors, TAYLOR SWIFT. Somehow, Stephen Colletti and James Lafferty’s web connects them all! Becca and Tanya hang out with two of our favorite guys from OTH and hear all about their new show Everyone is Doing Great! Stephen spills what he really thought about Rob Rausch on the latest season of Traitors, and Tanya has a crucial admission to share with James t...

Becca is back from F1 in Miami and now understands the need for speed! We hear all about her weekend on the track with F1 superfan Hayley Kiyoko and what it was like getting behind the wheel. It’s Met Gala Monday and the rules are weird! We break down the bizarre guidelines for the biggest night in fashion and try to imagine what it would feel like to raw dog the Met Gala. Plus, Becca presen...

Tanya had an awkward moment at the movies while Becca was captivated by an over-the-top Bachelorette trip! But in between, we’re helping some Scrubbers with a round of Dear Banya! What do you do if your mother in law is too ​ affectionate with your kids? And how do you handle a spouse with strong opinions on your hairstyle? Plus… a Dear Banya first when we hear from a similar scenario...

BREAKING NEWS! Harry Styles is engaged!! Becca and Tanya share what they really think his whirlwind relationship with Zoë Kravitz, and we get a look at how Roby feels about Tanya’s “friend” tying the knot.  Tanya confronts Becca about a denied FaceTime call, which begs the question… does anyone like being ambushed on FaceTime??  Plus, we revisit the Alix vs...

Tanya has to write a speech because she’s accepting a very special award! Becca is involved too, but might not know what’s expected of her yet.  And we try to help some Scrubbers with another round of Dear Banya! What do you do when your partner is sharing intimate details about your relationship? And how do you handle the WFH vs In-Office dilemma?? Plus, another round of the Birt...

BLAZE IT UP! Becca is back from HayleyChella and has so many backstage stories to share!  Tanya had a run-in with a Love Island superstar and exercised a surprising amount of restraint. And we dive into Tanya’s IG live with the Biebs, and what it means when Tanya texts “can I tell you something?” Plus, we break down a list of what some consider to be the “bare minimum&...

Becca and Tanya are back with another round of Dear Banya! What do you do if your friend wants to name her kids the same name as yours?? A Scrubbers asks Becca and Tanya about their relationship with faith, and another needs some advice on how to make a destination wedding extra special! Plus, we dig deep into Tanya's notes app and uncover some Roby secrets from the past!     See omnystu...

Tanya tried a social media detox…and it was unsuccessful. But how can you try to stay off social media on Coachella weekend??  We dive into all the Coachella content and things get tense when Becca and Tanya are split on Justin Bieber’s performance! Are you a Belieber? Or is it giving lazy?  Plus, a full breakdown on the lore of ‘lix and ‘lex.   See omnystud...