Scott Kiloby’s Podcast - Natural Recovery from Suffering

Gymnastics. He made it to the Olympics got second place. He had buried Anger and was mad at his dad, his coaches, his bosses, and the teacher, who finally showed him through inquiry that he has buried Anger, and that was the perfectionism.

In this podcast episode, Scott explores Sam, a codependent therapist with buried anger who enters relationships with women who have narcissistic tendencies due to their inability to show empathy. He disconnects from them due to his avoidant nature and then teaches others to maintain repression by labeling less empathetic people as narcissists, reinforcing a narcissism shadow. To work with Scott, v...

In this podcast, Scott explains that addiction feels as essential as water or air because it helps the system feel safe and loved by keeping buried emotions hidden. The cycle of addiction continues because the need for safety and love stems from these suppressed emotions. Traditional recovery programs and Eastern practices often fail to address this, allowing both addiction and suffering to persis...

Scott is in rare form, clarifying the difference between before and after emotional repression with regard to the timeless human experience of telling others to fu*k off. To work with Scott directly, visit https://kiloby.com/scott

Scott humorously notes that you'll never find an angry monk or a vulnerable dictator. What we reject is often within us. By embracing all qualities that create separation, we find freedom and authenticity, instead of being trapped in dualistic mirrors. Listen to this light-hearted, impactful talk on true freedom. If you are interested in working with Scott, come talk to him for free: https://kilob...

Our main habit of unconsciously seeking safety and love is like gravity - it always wins - until we make the unconscious conscious. Listen as Scott explains why some people develop a regular KI practice that ends suffering and brings authenticity and others don’t. The answer lies below the surface. To speak to Scott about the 90-day program he mentions in this episode, visit https://kiloby.com/sco...

Scott explores why it’s difficult for some people to even get started with repression inquiry while others seem to create a regular practice very easily and receive all the benefits thereof. Listen as Scott gives insight as to the main habit of suffering which is the unconscious need to stay safe and get love and how just a few small changes can interrupt that habit and create a skillful regular h...

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Want to manifest success, love, good health, or freedom? The unconscious seeks only safety and love thereby thwarting our efforts. Your unrealized potential is waiting for you in the one place you l’re afraid to look. Scott shares the solution. To work with Scott directly, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.

Scott points to how both our suffering and our efforts to alleviate it often come from the same hidden source. Discover his solution to this seemingly insurmountable doublebind! To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/Scott.

Scott discusses how the fundamental need to know ourselves as awareness and to allow it all doesn’t get met and we don’t want it to be met because we’re driven by an unconscious need to stay safe and get love. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott

Find the missing key to freedom but also why sabotage is just safer, frankly. Work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott

Scott shares the future of K.I. and how unmet needs become unconscious demands. We create our own suffering. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott

Scott confesses how he needed love and approval as a teacher coming from anger repression, and how that now informs his teaching. Unless teachers and helpers help people process buried motions, they enable people on an avoidant spiritual path. Scott has woken up from this slumber to help others see how their unmet needs create unconscious demands on others. We create our own suffering. Scott expla...

Scott apologies for taking down the episode “The Future of K.I.” There were technical issues with that recording. He has replaced that with this episode and the episode called “Buying and Selling Safety on the Avoidant Spiritual Path.” All of this points to the future of K.I. To work with Scott l, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.

Scott gives us an addition to this week’s earlier podcast release “How Unmet Needs Become Unconscious Demands on Others” about the future of K.I. Here, Scott focuses on how the seeking of safety and love on the spiritual path guarantees a sabotage. To work with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.

Scott takes us to the next step in understanding how we create our own suffering. In this episode, Scott focuses on the three signs of an avoidant spiritual path, as well as how our unmet needs from childhood, when unexpressed, become unconscious demands on others. Visit Scott’s new site to see the services he is currently offering: https://kiloby.com/scott

Scott shares an honest open letter to all of his past lovers - owning his part and sharing what drove him in those relationships. Listen to this unique five minute podcast special episode to see what life after clearing relationship trauma looks like for Scott. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/introduct...

Scott explains in this short podcast episode how unconscious, unmet needs from childhood are connected to buried emotions and how those needs, especially when unexpressed, become unconscious demands on others. Scott continues to lay out a roadmap for catching yourself on an avoidant spiritual path and discovering that ignoring unmet needs is like arguing in favor of more suffering. To learn 3D rep...

Scott shares his personal transformation from being a very sensitive, introverted, and disconnected kid/adult to authenticity via emotional repression inquiry. Listen for unique insights around where our sensitivity really comes from and why some of us have to hide it. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/i...

Like so many in spirituality, Scott was very sensitive growing up. In this 30 min episode, he explains his personal discovery of the link between his anger repression and his highly empathic nature. As always with repression, things are not at all as they appear at the surface. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kil...

Scott picks up the brick at both ends of the emotional repression spectrum and the covert and overt agendas in teachers and helpers. When we are teaching or helping, we have to be concerned first with getting the log out of our own eye and processing any unconsciousness that drives us. If we fail to do that, we enable the continuation of the very suffering we seek to alleviate in others. To learn...

Scott shares a radical awakening path which departs significantly from what he would have called “radical” ten years ago. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/introduction-to-nrfs-course/. Here’s our seven day Mentorship Discovery Kit: https://kiloby.com/mentorship-discovery-kit/.

Scott shows listeners how to take everyday visible suffering like depression, addiction, pain, and resistance and see its connection to buried emotions. To learn KI repression inquiry on your own, here's our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/introduction-to-nrfs-course/. Here's ourseven day Mentorship Discovery Kit: https://kiloby.com/mentorship-discovery-ki...

As an addition to the release of his podcast episode “Sick Good Boy,” Scott gives us his top ten list of great things about boundaries in relationship after a lifetime of anger or other emotional repression. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/introduction-to-nrfs-course/. Here’s our seven day Mentorship D...