Scott Kiloby’s Podcast - Natural Recovery from Suffering

Scott discusses the otherworldly and extra-dimensional details of his latest e-book which is free if you join his Instagram chat group here: https://www.instagram.com/channel/AbZebuk7cyuIHeCL/

In this episode, Scott speaks to the overlooked reality behind the spiritual search, addressing how the hidden shadow is completely missing from the beginning of most spiritual paths. He explores how contemporary spirituality contains both seekers and "finders—both of whom have missed the true root of suffering. This blind spot inevitably creates toxic trauma bonds between teachers and students, a...

Back by popular demand following the Insider’s View of an Avoidant social media shorts, Scott Kiloby dives deep into how the avoidant attachment style subtly hijacks spirituality. This episode explores the hidden mechanics of spiritual bypassing, showing how the pattern remains completely invisible to those running it because it is driven by deeply buried emotions and unmet childhood needs. If you...

Are you constantly chasing safety, validation, or love from the world around you, only to find yourself still feeling empty, anxious, or in pain? In this episode, Scott Kiloby dives deep into Needism—a profound exploration of how our unmet emotional needs drive adult suffering. Scott answers frequent listener questions about how we can finally meet our own internal needs by properly processing our...

Scott gets down and dirty about his own rage and how not speaking up directly in relationship produces suffering in the lives of rage holders. To start this work for Free, visit repressiontest.com.

In this podcast episode, Scott discusses the anxious attachment style and unmet needs that go with it. Transformation happens when we find safety and love within. The anxious attachment style sabotages itself by looking outside of itself. The process of self compassion and skillfulness ends the suffering for the anxiously attached. But there are a lot of bumps and hurdles along the way. Only the e...

Scott and Dan, the co-developers of KI Emotional Repression Inquiry, are reuniting for an electrifying and groundbreaking podcast episode that you won't want to miss! This time, they’re tackling the provocative topic of dying paradigms, diving deep into how traditional structures are crumbling as individuals engage in transformative somatic work. The concept of existence independent of us is being...

Join my friend ​and co-developer ​⁠​⁠@danmclintock and I for our second podcast on the oversights and dangers of conflation in both the mental health and political paradigms. Join us for our Addiction & Authentic Recovery Workshop Oct 18th at link in bio.

In this episode, Scott explores Barbara Oakley’s concept of Pathological Altruism and dives deep into the world of repression inquiry. Scott explains how many acts of service, often perceived as altruistic, are actually driven by a hidden need to feel safe and gain love or approval. By burying these unconscious motivations along with difficult emotions, we create false identities based on being “g...

Scott shares about owning the covert patterns of manipulation from anger repression. Take Scott’s free test for buried emotions at repressiontest.com. This will place you on the newsletter where you can work with Scott in either a one on one context or six month group course

Join ​⁠Dan Mclintock and myself as we define, point to and deconstruct our tendency as human beings to conflate! Learn more at repressiontest.com (free test for buried emotions)

Scott is taking a break from podcasting for a while as he feels called to explore other endeavors. The work is now accessible for everyone to start for FREE at repressiontest.com. He is focusing on one-on-one mentorship and is in the process of developing a new six-month course titled "Becoming Unbound," which will be released soon. In the future, you might hear a short episode announcing his retu...

In this episode, Scott delves deeper into his Tik Tok series growing in popularity called, "The Insiders' View of an Avoidant." He reflects on his lifelong tendencies to avoid emotional intimacy and how his most recent relationship transformed his perspective. Through this partnership, he discovered the value of secure connections and experienced firsthand what it means to be with someone who also...

Is “super empath” a heightened state of consciousness or just another identity that keeps people safe and gets them love? Scott explores this question. Start this work for free at repressiontest.com. Join Scott’s News Channel for Helpers: https://www.messenger.com/channel/kiloby/AbYi5fJHbUQXx31t/

Scott explains how KI specializes in dissolving self-sabotage. The secret is revealed. Start the work for free: https://repressiontest-meta.lpages.co/repression-test-opt-in-page-website/.

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Scott focuses on the richest treasures of deeply transformative work and the indispensable aspects of the path. He also answers criticisms and questions about the work. To join his jumpstart group starting May 18, visit https://kiloby.com/jumpstart

In this episode, Scott and Toshi talk about how emotional repression can cause you to see, hear, and believe only what feels safe—protecting you from feeling or expressing certain emotions. This can make it difficult to hear or understand work that addresses emotional repression, as the mind filters out anything that might threaten the protective barrier against those emotions. To work with Toshi,...

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Scott shares about Needism, a term he coined to include how emotional repression forces us to try to get our unmet childhood needs met through false means in relationships. What keeps Needism going is our unconsciousness. We don’t discover that we’re driven by these needs, which satisfies one of the core needs for safety from the emotions that we’ve buried. To start this work for free, visit https...

In this podcast episode, Scott explores the common experience of oscillating between “I’ve got it” and “I’ve lost it” on the healing journey. He discusses how seeking intense experiences can trigger survival mechanisms due to unresolved emotions, leading to a cycle of temporary relief followed by suffering. This cycle is a natural part of our evolution for survival. Scott emphasizes that transform...

Scott shares the many ways the pleasure pain cycle confuses us on a spiritual path.

Scott shares about the cycles of suffering that come from hurt and sadness repression with a special focus on the shame/rage response. The key to ending suffering for hurt and sadness repressor is hidden in plain view. To start this work for free, visit https://repressiontest-meta.lpages.co/repression-test-opt-in-page-website/

Scott paves a clear path to Freedom by making obvious the mechanism that demands suffering. To start this work for free, visit https://repressiontest-meta.lpages.co/repression-test-opt-in-page-website/

In this episode, Scott uncovers the often-overlooked self-sabotage associated with the anxious attachment style. He discusses how individuals with this attachment style struggle to process their emotions independently, which hinders their personal growth. People report having difficulty doing this work on their own when they have this attachment style. This emotional repression not only affects th...