Schein On

Evan interviews therapist and author Oona Metz about her book, ‘Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women’, focusing on divorce grief, stigma and shame (including for initiators), isolation, and the value of support groups and community. They question whether “until death do us part” sets unrealistic expectations, discuss equitable partnership and hard premarital conversations, and explore...

Evan opens episode 102 by discussing co-parenting logistics around summer camp during divorce, then introduces the episode’s focus on sleep and relationships with guest Dr. Wendy Troxel, a sleep scientist and clinical psychologist. On the docket, Evan argues most “blindside divorces” reflect long-standing issues, and he frames “pickleball divorce” as a relationship problem, not a sport problem. In...

Guest Dr. Rachel Glik returns to examine family estrangement, social media’s influence, misconceptions parents have, trauma language, reconciliation steps, when reconciliation may be unsafe, grieving “living loss,” healing despite no contact, pain-to-growth reframing, and forgiveness, reacting to quotes from Anne Lamott, Mark Twain, and Leo Tolstoy. Topics 03:51 Whats on the Docket 04:13 Gray Divo...

Evan and Producer Dave celebrate episode 100 of the Schein On podcast, reflecting on the show’s focus on human stories behind divorce and relationships and previewing guest Allison O’Brien. On the docket, they discuss Carl Pavano’s public prenup fight and how divorce litigation can become humiliating and permanent, especially for children. Allison O’Brien, a communication and leadership developmen...

The guest is Robi Schlaff, former director of the Westchester County Office for Women and executive director of the Westchester Family Justice Center, who explains building coordinated domestic violence and child abuse initiatives, including a Domestic Violence High Risk Team and multidisciplinary investigations, and the challenges of implementing policy across agencies and police. She critiques f...

Evan interviews award-winning director Elizabeth Lo about her documentary Mistress Dispeller, following Teacher Wang’s work with a wife, husband, and mistress in China, and explores empathy, cultural “saving face,” legal/ethical challenges, filmmaking style, and the documentary marketplace.   Topics 00:46 Season Intro and Guest Tease 01:17 Producer Banter and Setup 02:40 On the Docket: Shaq Divorc...

Evan delves into the complex world of divorce and relationships, spotlighting how financial dynamics impact these processes. The episode features an insightful discussion with journalist and author Josie Cox, who talks about her article on the rise in divorce rates when women out-earn men and her new book, 'Women Money Power: The Rise and Fall of Economic Equality.' The conversation covers the psy...

A rich conversation with Dr. Pepper Schwartz, an acclaimed sociologist, sexologist, and bestselling author. Dr. Schwartz discusses the importance of communication and intimacy in relationships, debunks myths about sex and aging, and provides practical advice for individuals at different stages of life. The episode concludes with a segment called 'They Said It,' where Dr. Schwartz offers her perspe...

Evan is joined by communication experts Dr. Dennis Becker and Robin Golinski, co-authors of 'Outwitting the Manipulator.' The episode delves into recognizing and responding to manipulation in real-time, particularly within the context of high-conflict divorces and everyday relationships. Topics include common manipulation tactics such as gaslighting and love bombing, managing post-divorce parentin...

Evan dives into the complexities of divorce and addiction with featured guest Erin Khar, author of 'Strung Out'. The episode covers Erin's personal journey through a 15-year heroin addiction, her approach to recovery, and her advice on navigating relationships plagued by substance abuse. The conversation also touches on broader societal issues, such as the stigma around addiction and the flawed fa...

In Episode 93 of The Schein On Podcast, Evan talks to Dr. Tracey Dalgleish, a clinical psychologist and relationship expert, to discuss her latest book, 'You, Your Husband and His Mother.' The conversation delves into the intricacies of the relationship triangle between husbands, their wives, and mother-in-laws. Tracey provides actionable advice for couples aiming to strengthen their marriage whil...

Evan welcomes Dr. Rachel Glik, a relationship specialist and author of 'A Soulful Marriage.' Dr. Glik shares insights on maintaining healthy marriages, the misconceptions about love, and her personal experiences that inspired her book. The episode also includes fun segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It,' where the hosts debate pumpkin spice lattes, reality dating shows, and the...

Evan concludes the summer with a compelling episode featuring Bela Gandhi, founder of the Smart Dating Academy. They explore themes around modern dating, the impact of online dating, and the process of finding love post-divorce. Bela shares her journey from a career in business to becoming a renowned dating coach, offering invaluable insights on dating logistics, recognizing red flags, and debunki...

Evan interviews Kristin Kenney, CEO and founder of High Gear Advisors. Kristin shares her expertise in career negotiations, crisis resolution, and relationship management, focusing on helping high achievers who resist traditional coaching. The episode covers navigating the divorce process, with Evan and producer Dave discussing their personal experiences. Kristin offers insights on maintaining hea...

Evan returns after a brief hiatus to discuss the intricacies of the divorce process, featuring insights from Haleh Moddasser, CPA and author of 'Great Divorce Silver Linings.' They delve into the realities of late-life divorce, financial independence for women, and how to handle investments post-divorce. The episode also touches on the emotional aspects of divorce, personal growth, and the signifi...

Evan sits down with acclaimed historian Stephanie Coontz to discuss the evolving nature of marriage and family life. Coontz offers deep insights into the shifts in marital norms over the past few decades, highlighting how co-providing, gender roles, and societal expectations have changed. The episode also delves into 'silent divorces' and the complexities of rekindling relationships with ex-spouse...

In episode 87 of the Schein On Podcast, Evan dives into a profound discussion with Dr. Brad Reedy, renowned family therapist and co-founder of Evoke Therapy Programs. The episode explores the importance of understanding oneself, the transformative power of therapy, and how the hero's journey framework can reframe life's challenges, including divorce. Additionally, Evan and producer Dave discuss th...

Evan leads a deep dive into the complexities of sex addiction and human sexuality with clinical psychologist and sex therapist Dr. David Ley. The conversation dispels myths, addresses misconceptions about sex addiction, and explores the nuances of intimacy, relationships, and pornography. The episode also features the lively 'Overrated or Underrated' segment and a discussion on AI's impact on chil...

Featuring renowned life coach and relationship expert Laurie Gerber, the episode delves into handling breakups, dating post-divorce, and the importance of honesty and self-discovery. Highlights include Gerber's advice on the pitfalls of rushing into new relationships, the significance of personal growth, and practical tips for modern dating. The show also covers current events, such as celebrity d...

Evan sits down with Alison Lefkowitz, professor at the New Jersey Institute of Technology and author of 'Strange Bedfellows: Marriage in the Age of Women's Liberation, Politics, and Culture in Modern America'. They discuss the historical and modern challenges of marriage laws, the shifts in gender roles, and how technology is reshaping relationships. The episode also features segments on notable c...

An insightful conversation on the complexities of relationships and divorce featuring Dr. Galena Rhoades, a leading psychologist and research professor at the University of Denver. The episode covers a variety of topics including the science behind what keeps couples together, the importance of commitment and communication, and the controversial topic of infidelity and its recovery process. The po...

Evan welcomes financial advisor and author Jennifer Lee to discuss her book, 'Squeeze the Juice'. The episode dives into the intricacies of making financial resources work efficiently towards achieving life goals, such as affording private school, vacations, or an unrestricted budget for weekend shopping. Jennifer offers insightful advice on navigating major financial transitions like divorce and...

In the inaugural episode of Season 5 of the Schein On Podcast, Evan dives into the complexities of divorce, offering advice on healthy communication, understanding the impact of divorce, co-parenting, and working with legal teams. Evan introduces a new segment called 'Overrated, Underrated' and highlights communications with podcast veterans and newcomers. Special guest Meredith Goldstein, advice...

Episode 80 of the Schein On Podcast spotlights Nikki Tucker, a personal financial strategist and certified divorce financial analyst. Nikki shares her expertise on finance management pre- and post-divorce, emphasizing the importance of prenups, staying organized, and having open financial discussions in relationships. The show also delves into how public figures handle relationship scrutiny, the i...

A thought-provoking discussion on marriage, divorce, and mental health with Dr. Monica Vermani, a Toronto-based clinical psychologist and author of 'A Deeper Wellness.' Evan and Dr. Vermani delve into the complexities of emotional well-being during life transitions such as divorce. The episode features insightful conversation on topics ranging from the importance of tuning into one's authentic tru...