Saying Yes Again: Helping midlife singles and couples rewrite their love story.

By midlife, women know exactly what they want — and what they don't. After raising kids, building careers, and learning hard lessons, women are entering relationships with more clarity, empowerment, and confidence than ever before. In this episode, Dr. Lisa shares the five traits she wanted in Tony — and what she believes most women are looking for in midlife love. Tony chimes in with his honest (...

What do men really want from women once they hit midlife? The answers may surprise you. Spoiler: it's not about looks or grand gestures — it's about peace, safety, and partnership. In this episode, Tony opens up about the five traits he craved after divorce, and Dr. Lisa breaks down why these traits create healthy, lasting relationships. Together, they share personal stories and practical insights...

In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony, a midlife couple who found love after divorce, discuss how prioritizing health and vitality strengthens relationships, especially in midlife. They share personal routines—like walking, exercising, and making healthy smoothies—and highlight the importance of regular checkups, nutrition, sleep, and mental wellness. The conversation also cover...

In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony explore body confidence after 50, discussing the challenges of aging, societal pressures, and redefining what it means to feel sexy. They share personal stories, practical tips like dancing and dressing for your current body, and encourage listeners to celebrate both physical and non-physical qualities. With warmth and humor, they invite the...

In this episode of the "Saying Yes Again" podcast, hosts Dr. Lisa and Toni, a midlife couple who found love after divorce, tackle the negative self-talk that often follows heartbreak. Through rapid-fire reframes, they challenge beliefs like "I'm too old," "I have too much baggage," and "There are no good men left," encouraging listeners to adopt empowering perspectives. Sharing personal stories an...

In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony share their journey as a midlife couple who found love after divorce by dating outside their comfort zones. They discuss overcoming differences in background, profession, and culture, emphasizing the importance of shared values like spirituality and family. Using personal stories and celebrity examples, they encourage listeners to be open-mi...

In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony delve into the challenges of vulnerability when dating after 50, particularly following heartbreak or divorce. They share personal stories and practical advice on overcoming fear, recognizing red and green flags, and building trust through small steps. Drawing on Dr. Lisa's background, they discuss the science behind emotional openness and o...

In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony explore the guilt many feel when finding happiness after divorce. Challenging societal expectations that equate visible suffering with caring, they encourage listeners to embrace joy without apology. Drawing on personal experiences and public figures like Cardi B and Teyana Taylor, the hosts discuss setting boundaries, celebrating small wins...

In this episode, Dr. Lisa and Tony discuss the concept of non-negotiables in relationships, emphasizing their importance in dating and partnerships. They explore personal criteria for finding the right partner, share their own non-negotiables, and highlight the significance of flexibility in relationships. The conversation aims to provide insights and advice for listeners navigating their own dati...

In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony explore the emotional and practical journey of changing one's name after divorce and remarriage, especially for women over 50. Dr. Lisa shares her personal experience of reclaiming her maiden name while embracing her new identity with Tony. The hosts discuss societal expectations, the impact on family and professional life, and offer practic...

In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony explore the challenges and opportunities of rebuilding your identity after 50, especially following the end of a long-term relationship. Drawing from their personal experiences and public examples, they discuss the loss of roles, community, and routine, and share practical advice for rediscovering passions, expanding social circles, and embr...

In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," hosts Dr. Lisa and Tony explore emotional healing and self-discovery after divorce. They discuss recognizing emotional baggage, breaking unhealthy relationship patterns, and the importance of forgiveness—both of others and oneself. Through personal stories and practical advice, they highlight the value of self-awareness, open communication, and patience in bu...

In the first episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony share their personal journeys of finding love after divorce in midlife. They discuss the challenges, fears, and emotional hurdles of dating again, emphasizing the importance of healing, self-discovery, and realistic expectations. Through candid conversation and their own love story, they offer hope and encouragement to listeners navigat...

You thought the chapter had closed. But life—and love—had other plans. Welcome to Saying Yes Again , the podcast for anyone who's been through heartbreak, divorce, or loss and is brave enough to believe in love one more time. Hosted by Dr. Lisa and Tony Goudy, this show shares their own story of finding love again in midlife, after divorce and doubt. Through candid conversations and honest reflect...