Saying Yes Again: Helping midlife singles and couples rewrite their love story.

Join us as Constance and William Del Toro share their incredible love story, which blossomed from a chance meeting at the airport into a thriving marriage. Discover how faith, timing, and boldness can create a fairy tale in midlife. Takeaways Be open to love at any age and trust divine timing Honest communication and setting clear intentions are key Self-healing and shadow work prepare you for lov...

This episode dives deep into the reality of starting over in love after divorce, highlighting how fear, trust, and self-awareness play pivotal roles in second chances at love. Dr. Lisa and Tony Goudy share their personal journey, insights on overcoming inner obstacles, and practical advice on saying yes to love again. 00:00 - Introduction: Love, fear, and second chances 02:23 - The concept of a 'l...

This episode explores how overanalyzing text messages can hinder dating, especially in midlife. Dr. Lisa and Tony share insights on overcoming fears, building trust, and embracing uncertainty to foster genuine connections. Chapters 00:00 The Texting Dilemma in Dating 02:57 Understanding Assumptions and Reactions 05:45 The Impact of Communication Styles 08:54 Overanalyzing Text Messages 11:43 The R...

In this insightful conversation, Dr. Lisa and Tony explore the complex relationship between independence, vulnerability, and emotional connection post-divorce. They discuss how societal norms and personal fears influence our ability to form meaningful relationships and offers guidance on balancing independence with emotional openness. T akeaways Pretending not to need love can keep people stuck an...

This episode explores the emotional challenges of dating after divorce, emphasizing the importance of authenticity, experience over performance, and reducing pressure to foster genuine connections. Dr. Lisa and Tony shares personal insights and practical advice for navigating modern dating with confidence and self-love. Key  topics The impact of social media on relationship expectations The import...

Dr. Lisa and Tony Exploring the emotional barriers and defensive dating habits of singles over 40 post-divorce, and how fear and trust impact new relationships. Takeaways Fear of vulnerability often drives emotional detachment in dating. Many singles over 40 wear armor to protect themselves from hurt. Healing involves trusting oneself and learning to manage fear. Defensive dating can prevent deep...

This episode tackles the emotionally charged topic of prioritizing your spouse versus your children in blended families and remarriages. Hosted by Dr. Lisa Herbert and Tony, it explores how to build a strong foundation, maintain healthy boundaries, and model love and respect for children and partners alike. Action  items: Prioritize your marriage to build a stable family foundation Create regular...

In this episode, Tony and Dr. Lisa share their candid experiences and insights on blending lives later in life. They discuss the complexities of merging personalities, pasts, and family dynamics, offering practical advice and heartfelt stories for those navigating similar journeys. Key Topics The emotional and logistical challenges of blending families after age 40 The importance of understanding...

In this episode, Tony and Dr. Lisa explore why even the best, most consistent people often struggle to accept love. They uncover the emotional blocks that prevent many from opening their hearts and share practical insights to foster vulnerability and healing. Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to the episode and the topic of love and vulnerability 00:14 - Celebrating life and love milestones in Arub...

Tony and Dr. Lisa explore why good, committed people often find themselves alone despite their qualities and morals. This episode dives into the complexities of compatibility, timing, and self-awareness in the pursuit of love. Timestamps: 00:37 - Introducing the question: Why or are good people alone? 0:56 - Defining what makes someone "good" and why that doesn't guarantee relationship success 1:5...

In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony explore the often-overlooked struggles men face in midlife dating. They discuss how emotional wounds from divorce, financial setbacks, and societal expectations leave many good men feeling exhausted and cautious about new relationships. The hosts emphasize the importance of clear communication, mutual support, and creating intentional spaces...

In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony explore why successful, emotionally intelligent singles over 40 often struggle to find each other. They discuss how established routines, protective attitudes toward personal peace, and past heartbreaks can make meeting new partners challenging. The hosts emphasize the importance of intentional socializing, mindset shifts, and openness to po...

In this episode, attorney Laurie Thomas Williams shares vital insights on protecting your wealth and legacy no matter where you are in life but especially after rebuilding your life following divorce or a second marriage. Learn practical steps, common pitfalls, and how to plan intentionally for peace of mind and financial security. Timestamps:  00:00 - Welcome and episode overview: Protecting what...

In this episode of the Saying Yes Again podcast, hosts Dr. Lisa Herbert and Tony welcome April Nowlin, a certified relationship coach, speaker, and author. The conversation delves into April's personal journey through heartbreak and divorce, which ultimately led her to help others navigate their own relationship challenges. You can connect with April here   and on all social media ‪ @aprilnowlin

This conversation explores the journey of finding love after 40, emphasizing that it's never too late to seek meaningful relationships. Dr. Lisa and Tony discuss the mindset shifts necessary for those over 40, the historical context of relationships, and the advantages of maturity in dating. Key themes include emotional availability, the importance of knowing oneself, and the transition from chasi...

In this episode, Dr. Lisa and Tony reflect on the journey of the podcast throughout 2025, expressing gratitude for the growth and community engagement. The conversation explores key themes such as healing from emotional baggage, defining non-negotiables in relationships, and the importance of flexibility in love. They celebrate the impact of their podcast on listeners and emphasize the need to spr...

In this conversation, Dr. Lisa Herbert and Tony discuss the myth that women must choose between a successful career and a fulfilling love life. They explore societal expectations, the double standards faced by women, and the real conflict of energy and availability in relationships. The discussion highlights the importance of making intentional choices, cultivating emotional maturity, and forming...

In this episode of 'Saying Yes Again,' Dr. Lisa and Tony explore the challenges faced by strong women in love and relationships. They discuss the concept of the 'soft life' as a counter to hustle culture, emphasizing the importance of emotional ease, vulnerability, and choosing peace. The conversation delves into practical steps for embracing a softer life, the significance of connection in modern...

In this episode of Saying Yes Again, we explore the challenges high-achieving women face in the dating world, discussing loneliness, emotional safety, and the invisible load they carry. We delve deep into the identity conflicts that arise when transitioning from professional success to personal relationships, emphasizing the need for vulnerability and communication. Also, highlighting the importan...

In episode 18 of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony record their first uncut, unscripted conversation about dating and relationships in midlife. They discuss the challenges of a small dating pool for women, ways people meet potential partners, and the importance of honesty about intentions. Sharing their own journey from divorce to love, they emphasize the importance of healing, growth, and sta...

In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony, a midlife couple who found love after divorce, share five practical tips for dating on a budget during tough economic times. They discuss enjoying nature, cooking together at home, attending free or low-cost events, hosting game nights, and planning dream dates for the future. The episode is filled with personal stories, humor, and creative...

In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and her partner Tony discuss the unique challenges professional women face in dating and relationships. They debunk myths about financial expectations, emphasizing the importance of emotional support, authenticity, and understanding each other's need for space. The conversation highlights how career-driven women can balance independence with vulnerab...

In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," hosts Dr. Lisa and Tony discuss the challenges and rewards of dating professional, powerful women. They explore why some men feel intimidated by women in leadership roles, examining issues such as ego, power dynamics, and societal expectations. Drawing from their own relationship, they emphasize the importance of support, communication, flexibility, and mutua...

💡 Falling in love is easy. Staying in love — that's the daily choice that makes relationships thrive. In this episode of Saying Yes Again, Dr. Lisa and Tony dive into what it really means to "say yes again" — not just once at the altar, but every single day. With warmth, humor, and honesty, they unpack the small, practical choices that keep love alive: patience, grace, communication, and laughter...

After divorce, grief, or major life upheaval, it's easy to believe your heart is too broken to ever love again. But what if those very cracks are what prepare you for a deeper, more meaningful love? In this episode of Saying Yes Again, Dr. Lisa and Tony explore how heartbreak doesn't have to be the end of your love story. They share how grief can refine us — giving us greater empathy, clearer prio...