SAVAGE MIND PODCAST

IN THIS LIFE THERE ARE GIVERS AND TAKERS ....PEOPLE WHO GIVE JUST BECAUSE IT'S WHO THEY ARE. GIVERS AREN'T THE WEAK PEOPLE, "TAKERS" ARE THE WEAK, UNDISCIPLINED,EMOTIONAL , CONSUMERS!!! THEY CONSUME ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING IN THEIR PATH ,IF THEY REALIZE IT OR NOT!!! WE HAVE TO PUT A STOP TO THEM....BEFORE THEN TURN INTO FULL BLOWN NARCISSISTS!!! THEN IT'S OFTEN TOO LATE!!!

We enable our loved one's and we consider it no one else's business. When in fact it is other people's business. Do we expect other people, family members to pick up and do the same thing when we longer want to do it? Why is their problem? They didn't ask for it...IT'S EVERYONE'S FUCKING BUSINESS AND EVERYONE THAT CONTRIBUTES FAULT!!

Do we even know what happiness is? Do we know or acknowledge if we are sincerely unhappy? As a SOCIETY we are in a constant pursuit of MORE!! BIGGER, BETTER, ATTENTION, VALIDATION, APPROVAL. UNHAPPY PEOPLE ARE CONVINCED IT'S A PERSON .THE NEXT RELATIONSHIP (NEW) MORE $$ TO GET MORE MATERIAL OBJECTS.....CONSTANT COMPARISON =UNHAPPINESS!!

Why do we have the people in our life we do? What VALUE do they add? What value do we add to them? What do they /we bring to the table? Are we connected by guilt, persuasion, INFLUENCED, BLOOD, marriage, COWORKERS, childhood?

We seem to love the story of the people that let their life go to TOTAL SHIT,the underdog,the ONE'S who really FUCK it up!!! OVER the past few years i have been wondering why we don't pursue, seek, reach out to the one's that NEVER ALLOWED THEMSELVES TO GET TO THAT POINT!!!

Was thinking about the men i have known throughout my life. Some still to this day are the exact same way!!! HAVEN'T EVOLVED NOT ONE BIT!! They hand everything over to the women in their life, because they don't want have to FUCK with it or think!! They are willing to put up with whatever it is so because they are too lazy, COMPLACENT, and comfortable to be uncomfortable temporarily so their life...

IN THE PROCESS OF TRYING TO SAVE OUR CHILDREN/LOVED ONE'S FROM THE SHIT WE ATE ,THE HARDSHIPS WE WENT THROUGH .THE ADVERSITY, THE TRAGEDIES...WE ARE RUINING THEM!!! THEY ARE GAINING NO EXPERIENCES, TOOLS IN THIS "GIVE IT TO ME NOW" I DESERVE IT SOCIETY!!

We say SUPPORT one another, especially OUR close friends and family( loved one's) but these PEOPLE ARE OFTEN THE VERY PEOPLE THAT SUPPORT LESS THAN ANYONE...IF AT ALL!!

PEOPLE, friends, family that go "GHOST" and ghost us!! Who they are, why they do it? Is out of character for them? Is it consistent with who they are ? Do they do it regularly? Look at their habits, who they spend time with and what they spend time doing? What kind of RELATIONSHIPS do they have? All PROOF is in their history and daily life!!

Why we think this way, what drives it, why we don't make the necessary changes? What are we going to do about it with the time we have left? 8 days a month, 96 days a year!!

When we don't hold our loved one's accountable it's because we will do whatever it takes to keep them in our lives!! This leads to a very UNDISCIPLINED,WEAK , ENABLED SOCIETY....AND KEEPS MULTIPLYING OVER AND OVER !!

PART 1) of our life's BIGGEST REGRETS and this is only the tip of the iceberg .This touches base on the first 5 and we will dive deeper in other podcasts!!

Who they are,how it bleeds GENERATION to GENERATION. How we do fix it? Why don't we deal with it? Why do we identify these people as other people besides our own FAMILY? IT STARTS WITH THE ELDERS!!!!THE INCONVENIENT TRUTH!!

What roles father's play in their children's life. What should be expected as this VALUABLE, EARNED title!!! We give undeserving credit to so many who have NOT EARNED IT and NOT ENOUGH TO SO MANY MORE...AND HAS BEEN THIS WAY FOR FAR TOO LONG!!

What we are taught at a very young age what to believe, follow, practice and implement in our daily life!!!! Do we believe what we say we are? Do we live it? Have we CHALLENGED our belief system? Our PARENTS/ELDERS? IF NOT WHY?

My experiences, perspective on being a white Male over 40 with adult children, Hispanic step children .Both Hispanic and white grandchildren. Growing up as the MINORITY in my neighborhood and the MENTALITY behind all of it !!!

Why the PEOPLE that hate are ALWAYS the closest to us. What is their motive? What are the characteristics? THEY ARE NEVER STRANGERS!!!

We not only accept mediocrity, it is also encouraged!!! It seems to be our favorite pastime....we live our entire lives often NEVER DEVELOPING into the advanced, supreme, elevated VERSION of OURSELVES....BECAUSE we care more about what's easy and being accepted!!

Just a little information on my relationship with my mother and missing her with her being gone almost 2 years now ...more on mother's and the role they play positive or negative in their children's life . HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY LADIES!!

What traveling means to me. Where I have been , where i still want to go, where are we going when we have the opportunity? How important is traveling to you? Would you travel full time if you could? BEACHE IS MY BLOOD...IT'S WHERE MY MIND ALWAYS STAYS!!! HOW ABOUT ALL OF YOU?

WHAT WE REALLY FEAR IS ONE ANOTHER!!! WE FEAR IS OUR WEAKNESS, OUR ENEMY SITTING NEXT TO US, OUR NEIGHBORS. THAT WE ARE SOFT,WE RAISED SOFT CHILDREN, WE SOLD OUT A LONG TIME AGO.....NOW WE ARE PAYING THE PRICE!!!

WE HAVE CRIPPLED/ENABLED OURSELVES AS SOCIETY!! WILL WE LEARN OUR LESSON?? WILL WE START APPRECIATING ONE ANOTHER AS HUMANS AFTER THIS?? WILL PEOPLE COME BEFORE MATERIAL OBJECTS AND MONEY? WHEN WILL YOU SAVAGE THE FUCK UP, IF YOU HAVEN'T?? YOU BETTER START!!

Our first time in Orlando,Florida as well as first time at podfest. What i took away from the event, what i missed,what i could have did without...THE PEOPLE, THE NETWORKING AND THE CITY !!#ORLANDOFLORIDA #podfest2020 #networking #support #SAVAGEMINDPODCAST #SMD #SAVAGEMINDESIGNS #SHELEADSPODCAST #SAVAGELIFESTYLE #besomebodypodcast @nappiandjay #savagethefuckup

How the benefits of running and training is not only crucial when it comes to self discipline. The SOLITUDE is a choice!! How i control my anxiety, keep depression away,structure,balance and keep my thoughts and life more organized ~savage mind~