Saturnian Sex Magick Podcast

Being kind to each other and showing gratitude to your partner isn’t a kink or vanilla thing, it’s a human one. But because our identities in D/s can be very clearly defined, we can fall into a trap of taking our partner for granted. Submissives and Dominants alike should show and receive gratitude for what we bring to a relationship. Today we talk about ways we can show gratitude within BDSM.

Kink shaming is criticizing and degrading someone for their desire/need for a kink. It can also come across as shaming if you criticize the kink without directing it at a specific person. Today we talk about kink shaming and fetishizing someone as an object. We also talk about some ways you can be falsely accused of kink shaming.

Establishing your kinks and limits is a very important part of this lifestyle. It should be done before vetting a potential play partner, or entering a dynamic. Today we talk about and define kinks vs. fetishes, and discuss soft and hard limits.

It's always a good time for looking inwardly and working what is inside us. In pagan circles they call this "Shadow work" because the inward parts of us are veiled in mystery. Today I'm giving a review for a book I found helpful for digging deep inside to figure why I have my kinks and fetishes, and instead of trying to fix them, learning to love and accept them. Get your copy of "Existential Kink...

For those in limited power exchange relationships such as D/s or those who aren't into S&M kinks, there are often benefits to correcting behavior and punishing broken rules through non-physical discipline. Here are some ideas for punishing your submissive without being physical or giving them spankings.

One of the most common complaints we get from submissives who are in marriages or relationships that are moving from vanilla to a power exchange relationship is this one: "I want to be Dommed and my husband/wife isn't doing what I need!" Today we talk about ways to ease the frustration of transitioning an already established relationship into a BDSM dynamic.

It might seem awkward to be talking about New Year's Resolutions months before the end of the year, but goals you actually want to meet take time to plan. Today's podcast gives you some ideas for resolutions you might want to make within BDSM and we talk about how you can take actionable steps to succeed in your resolutions.

Couples in the cuckold/hotwife lifestyle often say that their levels of connection, intimacy, and communication became better after they started experimenting with this fetish. While this fetish can be a positive thing in your life, it can also potentially cause a lot of tension and heartache too. Today we talk about cucking and many of its related kinks and what you need to consider before cuckin...

While it’s your job as a Dominant and a partner to protect and encourage your sub, when it comes to the scene, the rules of reality no longer apply. When a sub asks, or begs, you to hurt them, or choke them, or pull their hair, then the best choice you can make is to give them the pleasure they desire in that scene. Today we talk about ways you can safely cultivate your Dominant identity within a...

Having a partner with whom we can communicate freely and easily is a fundamental piece of the puzzle when it comes to achieving genuine closeness. Yet, even the most communicative of couples can struggle when it comes to finding an adaptive way to give each other feedback. These four principles make the biggest difference when it comes to achieving communication where both people feel seen, heard,...

There may be no such thing as the perfect partner, but an ideal partner can be found in someone who has developed themselves in certain ways that go beyond the surface. While we each seek out a specific set of qualities that is uniquely meaningful to us alone, there are certain psychological characteristics both you and your partner can aim for that make the flame stronger, more passionate and mor...

Today's episode looks at something that was written on FetLife about Bratting and Brat Taming as an opinion article. We draw from what the article describes and translate it for you using traditional BDSM meanings. 

Begging is something that many people include in their BDSM relationship. To each person, it is used for different reasons and causes different reactions. Begging affects those involved on both a physical level and a mental one. Today we talk about how to use begging within your play and within power exchange relationship.

Primal Piggy shares a quick, informal word about how you can become a Supporter of BDSM United Podcast. Many people have asked us to do Interviews on the podcast and we think that's a great idea! We simply need one small upgrade to our equipment in order to do so. We are looking for 12 supporters to contribute a one-time gift of $10. https://anchor.fm/bdsmunited/support or CashApp $PrimalPiggy

BDSM? What is this? Today's podcast assumes you know nothing about our culture and lifestyle and is a first step toward understanding BDSM. We give both a definition and define the common words we use.

There are a ton of different types of predators within the BDSM lifestyle. This is why we push for everyone to educate themselves (before getting involved with a partner), communicate about everything (asking questions) and trust your gut. Today we talk about safety and introduce you to a type of predator called a Collector. 

Pain is an intense physical sensation. It has evolved as a warning – the body’s way of telling you that you are in danger or something is wrong. That burns, this is broken, that is cut: you’d better do something about it, and fast! Today we look at the liberating and enriching experience of S&M play.

We often say that BDSM isn't always about sex. Asexual kinksters are sometimes an example of this. There are folks on the asexuality spectrum who enjoy diverse expressions of sex and kink with folks of every gender and orientation across the whole sexuality spectrum. Today we look at ways we can make the entire BDSM lifestyle more welcoming to asexuals.

This Sex Magick working is an oath that is used by those wishing to enter into a spiritual service-oriented D/s relationship. It could also be used as a Dominant's collaring ceremony for their submissive.

Today's Sex Magick working is A Surrender Ceremony that empowers partners to practice the Master/slave relationship for their agreed-upon time, to be erotically creative, and to push their limits in the Yoga of Dominance and submission.

Today's Sex Magick podcast includes two workings you can do with energy manipulation. First we discuss a needle play working, followed by an energy leash you can form to tie a partner's astral body to yourself.

Today's Sex Magick podcast is a ritual for energy manipulation using a whip or flogger. We discuss how to charge the tool with your intention and the effects it will have on one's astral body.

Today's Sex Magick podcast teaches you how to charge ropes or restraints with specific energies. We also include a common folk spell called the Nine-Knot Spell.

Like any magical or spiritual tools, BDSM tools can be and should be, if you are using them in ritual, charged with energy and intent. Today's Sex Magick podcast includes a Cane Invocation, Knife Blessing, Gag Invocation, Fire Play Invocation, Flogger Invocation, and Lubricant Blessing Invocation.

Today's Sex Magick ritual is a BDSM ceremony before going up on flesh hooks. One individual has to be the Challenger and take on the priestly role. Ideally, it should not be whoever is doing the actual piercing, because both parties need unbroken concentration. The Seeker stands naked before the Challenger and the instruments of pain.