Sapphire's Earplay

After an personal attack on Clubhouse, Sapphire speaks her mind on how the Black community needs to do better among each other especially when it comes to dating and sexuality. Sex educator and Abortion Doula, Niyyah Lateef (@HeauxontheGeaux) shares their experience on the app and the toxic behavior of Black men. This episode is not to bash men, this is to reteach and help reflect on what it means...

"Six Foot Publicist" SheRise Ford (@SheRiseEnt-IG) has worked with numerous celebrities, including Master P, 21 Savage, and more, and was recently a producer for Apple's Verzuz with Brandy & Monica. As Sapphire and Yasmine have been battling the constant fight against Instagram over being muted or "shadowbanned," SheRise talks them through using some of her methods to gaining their voices back...

SSSH.com has been making women feel comfortable in their sexuality through their erotica for over 21 years. June Ann is an adult content creator who is the star of the new erotic thriller, Mirror Game, which has already won several awards since its release last September. The ladies of Earplay discuss the film, as well as getting folks in touch with porn from a feminine aspect.

Hickeys are either seen as a mark of shame or a sign of a great time. The ladies discuss the marks left by their lovers and why there's more to the art of love biting than just bruises. This week's Daz'd, Sex'd, Confus'd is a shocking one. A mom's OF page gets her 3 sons expelled while some Americans will give up sex just to be a jetsetter again.

Kinky power couple Blane & Lotus (-@thegreengawddess, @lotus_ropewolf-IG) discuss Black BDSM, being polyamorous and how couples can introduce different styles of kink in their relationships. Joined also by Mr. Suit & Tie aka Benjamin A. LaRiviere (@theoldbenriver-IG) this is one hot, Poly kink show we dare you NOT to want to be roped into... Get in touch with Lotus and Blane: WITHLOTUSANDB...

Shani Hart (@sexstuffwithshani-IG) is a certified sex coach and the creator of The Noir Leaf, a lifechanging CBD and helpful hemp company that shows women how to have sex, and a life, that feels good. Just in time for Valentine's Day, find out why CBD lube should be at your bedside instead of using spit. Plus, the ladies discuss V-Day plans and who's planning on getting roped instead of wine'd and...

Leave your inhibitions at the door as Licensed Professional Counselor, Sex Educator, Life Coach, Author, and Motivational Speaker, Meka Nicole Alford(@MekaNicoleAlford-IG) joins the ladies. Meka is the creative founder of In-To-Mate Counseling Services and the burlesque experience 'Sex and Sensuality'. Listen as you get a taste of ATL's hottest show unlike any other burlesque, and how it helps the...

*Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions on abortions and pregnancy loss** January 22nd marked the 48th anniversary of the controversial Roe V. Wade decision. With that on our minds, the 'Sexual Intellectual' Nimi (@Simisexx_-IG) joins the ladies to discuss making the decision to have an abortion and disclosing one to your partner. anniversary of the controversial Roe V. Wade decision. 

Looking for ways to spice up the bedroom and elevate your skills? Cannabis and sex expert Antuanette Gomez (¡AntuanetteG-IG) joins the ladies to talk about the best strains and debunk myths around sex and cannabis use. Want more Antuanette? Visit https://www.antuanettegomez.com/ to learn more about intimacy coaching and building your own cannabis empire! As heard before the show, Earplay has teame...

The ghosts of Sapphire's and Yasmine's past come to light as they reflect on the times when their hookups chose to kept them a secret. Listen as they go through their 'ho diaries' and discuss why, in some cases, they're still kept a secret.  As heard before Daz'd Sex'd Confus'd[32:24.141- 33:20.261], Earplay has teamed up with Kloud5 CBD by Nelly! Earbuds get 10% OFF product using the co...

Get to know two of Sapphire's polyamorous lovers and be reintroduced to David from Storytime pod and Michelle! With us now a year into quarantine, Sapphire had her first virtual threesome with David and Michelle! Find out to stay sexy even while social distancing and how love your body while talking dirty. THIS IS OUR LAST SHOW OF 2020! Happy HO-lidays and see you in 2021!!  As heard before D...

World Aids Day was on December 1st, but your ladies, with the help of Dr. Drai (@DrDraiOBGYN-IG) of Momentum Intimacy (@magnifymomentum-IG), discuss the importance of knowing how HIV/AIDs affects the Black community, why COVID has taken the spotlight away from HIV awareness, as well as  the use of barriers like dental dams.  As heard before Daz'd Sex'd Confus'd[46:16.872 - 46:58.051],&nb...

Why do relationships fail when a partner works too much? Get the bag together!! Sapphire and Yas are joined by Rel ( @unrulyg3ntleman-IG) for a conversation on money, trust and investing your time in your love lives.  As heard before Daz'd Sex'd Confus'd [38:10 -39:07], Earplay has teamed up with Kloud5 CBD by Nelly! Earbuds get 10% OFF product using the code 'K5SAPPHIRE' upon checkout! Visit http...

Fathlete football player Opal McClain joins in the discussion of discrimination as well as the sexualization of curvy women. Listen as the ladies chat about their body preferences when it comes to dating/sex, dealing with body shaming via friends and how social media has a discrimination against women who are curvier. Get ready for heavy yet very important Daz'd Sex'd Confus'd News discussion abou...

Sapphire is joined by special guests and female writers Hayley(@HayleyDigz) and Emmy Morgan (@MsEmmyMorgan) to discuss promiscuity and its societal standards. Sapphire shares how her promiscuous past has defined her being Poly.  Hayley tells her story of embracing yet battling her newfound sexuality during quarantine, while Emmy delves into her journey of celibacy as a Transwoman. ...

Age is just a number right? WRONG!! Joined by fellow podcaster, Lex(@just_lex_619-IG) of the show "You Wasn't Outside" (@grownfolkspodcastnetwork-IG), the ladies discuss how age really does have an effect when involving sex and dating.   Did you know Earplay's on IG finally?!? Follow-@SapphiresEarplay ! 

*APOLOGIES FOR TECHNICAL SOUND ERROR FROM 0:24.812 - 1:08.886* Step aside 50 Shades and Fabio, there's a new form of Erotica making women quiver with delight! Meet Maddie and Sarah of the audio erotic company &Jane (@hearjane-IG), a new way to explore erotica through real stories by real women.  Curious on how to submit your own content? Be sure to sign up at andjane.com!  Don't forget to get us t...

Sukihana from Love & Hip Hop Miami thinks women need to tax men for their sex etc...and the ladies aren't mad at it! In fact listen as they breakdown the worth of their vaginas and more! Also tune in for an explosive edition of 'Daz'd Sex'd Confus'd' centering on Drake/SZA, Trump getting the 'Rona...

Sapphire's break from her social media platforms really has her seeing the world in a new, disturbing way. The ladies discuss why projecting insecurities on social media is damaging especially when assuming something innocent is more than what it is. Be sure to follow our show's NEW IG! @SapphiresEarplay 

Professional shit talker and friend of the show Ms. Taraye(@JayTaraye-IG) joins the ladies in a hilarious discussion surrounding down low men(possibly in the adult industry), fellatio skills, rating men according to their race and more! Don't mind the nature sounds of Queens, they wanted their 2 cents about giving head!! 

Adult performer and Bisexual icon, Wolf Hudson(@wolfhudsonofficial-IG, @wolfhudsonisbi-Twitter) joins the ladies for a chat on masculinity and bisexuality. Why is is hot for women to be bisexual but the minute a man says he's bi, his orientation is up for debate? Also find out how pubes, a disturbing makeout sesh, Covid sex and a celeb's sexuality made this week's Daz'd,Sex'd & Confus'd News (38 m...

If you're mature to have sex, then you should be mature about sexual disclosure, right?!? The ladies are joined by social activist, storyteller and model Devin Elise(@lovealwaysdev-ig) to discuss disclosure and the dangerous effect of victim blaming when it comes to sexual health. Want more of Devin? Visit devinelisewilson.com to book a session and hear more about her tv pilot, 'Duck I Have Heroes...

Author, blogger and transwoman Emmy Morgan(@msemmymorgan-IG, Twitter) joins the ladies of Earplay to discuss the never ending dissatisfaction with LGBTQ+ visibility in media especially as Disney announces a new show involving a Latinx bisexual teen witch. Also they discuss the problematic disbelieving of Black women who have been victimized at the hands of Black men. 

Sexually fueled lyrics have been around since the music made a deal with the devil, so why are people getting frustrated again over lyrics? The ladies discuss the double standards and walk you through some lyrics women made cringy through the years. Don't forget to stick around for a Daz'd, Sex'd & Confus'd news 

Someone gave Sapphire a backhanded compliment while Yas had to drop hints on how to initiate sex without expectation. The ladies also discuss the pettiness of the internet's reaction to Cardi B and Megan The Stallion's WAP.