Sapphire's Earplay

From gender prounouns to sexual preference, Hollywood seems to make it a trend rather than respect the hardship of coming out Niyyah, (@heauxonthegeaux-IG, @heauxgeaux-Twitter ) returns to discuss the importance of recognizing gender pronouns and understanding what being non-binary is. As mentioned on the show, The Layer is the sex blanket any squirter needs for the Hot Vax Summer! Check it out: g...

We've all heard the golden rule, but when it comes to oral is there a double standard? Sapphire is joined by the talented Mystkue(@penofmystkue-Twitter @Mystkue-IG), a sexuality writer, poet, and over all self-proclaimed 'throat baby'. The ladies air their dirty laundry of selfish lovers, their frustration of women being called out for loving oral, and more! Want more of Mystkue? Check out https:/...

*Content Warning: Episode contains elements of religious guilt, BDSM, and sexuality under a religious lens*  Certified intimacy coach Jasmine Sierra (@thesterileslut-IG) joins Sapphire to discuss how sexuality and spirituality are aligned, including how A24's Saint Maud went from being a thriller to a straight up religious horror film with BDSM elements and more. This is one Eargasm that's su...

Polyamory, (Non) Ethical Monogamy, Hierarchy...all these terms and more get discussed as Phoenix Mandel, a sexuality educator and consultant joins the show. Sapphire experiences a break up in her poly tribe, while Yasmine considers joining the lifestyle. Listen as Phoenix sheds light on navigating healthy PolyAm relationships, breaks down common misconceptions and more!  If you're looking for...

Brian Dwayne (@BrianDwayne-IG) is more than a photographer, he's the creator of BlkTouch (@Blktouch-IG) the hottest platform for Black Erotica since May 2019. From oral stories to beautifully shot visuals, BlkTouch is changing the problematic narrative in porn.  Support and subscribe to BLKTouch at BlkTouch.com 

 *Trigger Warning* This episode reflects on teen suicide, sexual identity, and assault. Dr. Uchenna Umeh aka Dr. Lulu(@AskDoctorLulu -IG @UchennaUmeh9-Twitter, @DrLulu-Clubhouse) is a 30 year pediatrician, mom, and global speaker on youth suicide, especially those in the LGBTQ+ community. Dr. Lulu joins Sapphire for a discussion on raising LGBTQ+ children, healing from sexual trauma, and how she s...

British Summer is here as award-winning sexual health advocate Rukiat (@IamRukiat) joins Sapphire! Find out why she's a warrior against STIgma, low libido, hot vax summer (sex after the covid vaccine), and why you should practice what you preach *ahem Derrick Jaxn* when it comes to being a leader in the sexual health and dating community. As heard during the sexy break 42:14.888 - 43:17.279 unleas...

After an personal attack on Clubhouse, Sapphire speaks her mind on how the Black community needs to do better among each other especially when it comes to dating and sexuality. Sex educator and Abortion Doula, Niyyah Lateef (@HeauxontheGeaux) shares their experience on the app and the toxic behavior of Black men. This episode is not to bash men, this is to reteach and help reflect on what it means...

"Six Foot Publicist" SheRise Ford (@SheRiseEnt-IG) has worked with numerous celebrities, including Master P, 21 Savage, and more, and was recently a producer for Apple's Verzuz with Brandy & Monica. As Sapphire and Yasmine have been battling the constant fight against Instagram over being muted or "shadowbanned," SheRise talks them through using some of her methods to gaining their voices back...

SSSH.com has been making women feel comfortable in their sexuality through their erotica for over 21 years. June Ann is an adult content creator who is the star of the new erotic thriller, Mirror Game, which has already won several awards since its release last September. The ladies of Earplay discuss the film, as well as getting folks in touch with porn from a feminine aspect.

Hickeys are either seen as a mark of shame or a sign of a great time. The ladies discuss the marks left by their lovers and why there's more to the art of love biting than just bruises. This week's Daz'd, Sex'd, Confus'd is a shocking one. A mom's OF page gets her 3 sons expelled while some Americans will give up sex just to be a jetsetter again.

Kinky power couple Blane & Lotus (-@thegreengawddess, @lotus_ropewolf-IG) discuss Black BDSM, being polyamorous and how couples can introduce different styles of kink in their relationships. Joined also by Mr. Suit & Tie aka Benjamin A. LaRiviere (@theoldbenriver-IG) this is one hot, Poly kink show we dare you NOT to want to be roped into... Get in touch with Lotus and Blane: WITHLOTUSANDB...

Shani Hart (@sexstuffwithshani-IG) is a certified sex coach and the creator of The Noir Leaf, a lifechanging CBD and helpful hemp company that shows women how to have sex, and a life, that feels good. Just in time for Valentine's Day, find out why CBD lube should be at your bedside instead of using spit. Plus, the ladies discuss V-Day plans and who's planning on getting roped instead of wine'd and...

Leave your inhibitions at the door as Licensed Professional Counselor, Sex Educator, Life Coach, Author, and Motivational Speaker, Meka Nicole Alford(@MekaNicoleAlford-IG) joins the ladies. Meka is the creative founder of In-To-Mate Counseling Services and the burlesque experience 'Sex and Sensuality'. Listen as you get a taste of ATL's hottest show unlike any other burlesque, and how it helps the...

*Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions on abortions and pregnancy loss** January 22nd marked the 48th anniversary of the controversial Roe V. Wade decision. With that on our minds, the 'Sexual Intellectual' Nimi (@Simisexx_-IG) joins the ladies to discuss making the decision to have an abortion and disclosing one to your partner. anniversary of the controversial Roe V. Wade decision. 

Looking for ways to spice up the bedroom and elevate your skills? Cannabis and sex expert Antuanette Gomez (¡AntuanetteG-IG) joins the ladies to talk about the best strains and debunk myths around sex and cannabis use. Want more Antuanette? Visit https://www.antuanettegomez.com/ to learn more about intimacy coaching and building your own cannabis empire! As heard before the show, Earplay has teame...

The ghosts of Sapphire's and Yasmine's past come to light as they reflect on the times when their hookups chose to kept them a secret. Listen as they go through their 'ho diaries' and discuss why, in some cases, they're still kept a secret.  As heard before Daz'd Sex'd Confus'd[32:24.141- 33:20.261], Earplay has teamed up with Kloud5 CBD by Nelly! Earbuds get 10% OFF product using the co...

Get to know two of Sapphire's polyamorous lovers and be reintroduced to David from Storytime pod and Michelle! With us now a year into quarantine, Sapphire had her first virtual threesome with David and Michelle! Find out to stay sexy even while social distancing and how love your body while talking dirty. THIS IS OUR LAST SHOW OF 2020! Happy HO-lidays and see you in 2021!!  As heard before D...

World Aids Day was on December 1st, but your ladies, with the help of Dr. Drai (@DrDraiOBGYN-IG) of Momentum Intimacy (@magnifymomentum-IG), discuss the importance of knowing how HIV/AIDs affects the Black community, why COVID has taken the spotlight away from HIV awareness, as well as  the use of barriers like dental dams.  As heard before Daz'd Sex'd Confus'd[46:16.872 - 46:58.051],&nb...

Why do relationships fail when a partner works too much? Get the bag together!! Sapphire and Yas are joined by Rel ( @unrulyg3ntleman-IG) for a conversation on money, trust and investing your time in your love lives.  As heard before Daz'd Sex'd Confus'd [38:10 -39:07], Earplay has teamed up with Kloud5 CBD by Nelly! Earbuds get 10% OFF product using the code 'K5SAPPHIRE' upon checkout! Visit http...

Fathlete football player Opal McClain joins in the discussion of discrimination as well as the sexualization of curvy women. Listen as the ladies chat about their body preferences when it comes to dating/sex, dealing with body shaming via friends and how social media has a discrimination against women who are curvier. Get ready for heavy yet very important Daz'd Sex'd Confus'd News discussion abou...

Sapphire is joined by special guests and female writers Hayley(@HayleyDigz) and Emmy Morgan (@MsEmmyMorgan) to discuss promiscuity and its societal standards. Sapphire shares how her promiscuous past has defined her being Poly.  Hayley tells her story of embracing yet battling her newfound sexuality during quarantine, while Emmy delves into her journey of celibacy as a Transwoman. ...

Age is just a number right? WRONG!! Joined by fellow podcaster, Lex(@just_lex_619-IG) of the show "You Wasn't Outside" (@grownfolkspodcastnetwork-IG), the ladies discuss how age really does have an effect when involving sex and dating.   Did you know Earplay's on IG finally?!? Follow-@SapphiresEarplay ! 

*APOLOGIES FOR TECHNICAL SOUND ERROR FROM 0:24.812 - 1:08.886* Step aside 50 Shades and Fabio, there's a new form of Erotica making women quiver with delight! Meet Maddie and Sarah of the audio erotic company &Jane (@hearjane-IG), a new way to explore erotica through real stories by real women.  Curious on how to submit your own content? Be sure to sign up at andjane.com!  Don't forget to get us t...

Sukihana from Love & Hip Hop Miami thinks women need to tax men for their sex etc...and the ladies aren't mad at it! In fact listen as they breakdown the worth of their vaginas and more! Also tune in for an explosive edition of 'Daz'd Sex'd Confus'd' centering on Drake/SZA, Trump getting the 'Rona...