Sapphire's Earplay

Erin Acevedo(@ErinAcevedopsychic-IG) is a psychic, reiki healer and tarot reader. Did you know that sex goes beyond the art of climax and to a spiritual level depending on who the partner(s) are? Or that you can see aura colors during intercourse? In this special episode to kick off "Vulvember" with Sapphire, Erin's going to take your sex life to a higher level.  As heard, Sapphire FINALLY ha...

Momatrician Dr. Lulu (@AskDoctorLulu-IG) returns to close out the October with Sapphire to discuss the concept of "coming out." October 11th was National Coming Out Day, listen as they discuss the various reactions one may face when coming out or, as recent terms go, "being invited in," the downsides of not having parental/community support, and of course being able to live free and OUT LOUD. Want...

October is not just a month full of spooky and witchy things but also a month of awareness.  Rachael Z. is known on Instagram as @Lewd. And. Loud is a breast cancer survivor and sex coach! Rachael shares her journey which began in 2015 and breaks down the stigma behind the sexualization of breasts, the various surgeries one may face upon diagnosis and of course LIFE AFTER BREASTS!  

Meet Olive(@thetattedcatlady-IG) and Austin(@turndownforwatts) of Polyamory Dating Advice(@Polyamorydatingadvice-IG, PolyamoryDA-Twitter)  From lessons in compersion vs. jealousy, breakups to time management; Sapphire, Olive, and Austin share their experiences to shed light upon the misconceptions and assumptions of being Polyamorous.  There's also a special BONUS interview with director...

It's the return of the Eargasms! Meet Nita of Luxemeo(@Luxemeo-IG, ¡Luxemeoco-Twitter), a Black owned luxury pleasure online shop! Sapphire and Nita discuss how Earbuds can overcome their anxieties about using toys in the bedroom either alone or with partners, how you don't need to feel replaced when enhancing your pleasure, and more!  Want your cuffs and dice 20% use code QUEENTANA   an...

It's the final Eargasm of the summer!!! Sapphire will be taking a break until October 3rd! *I know tragic* In this episode, Sapphire brings back Mr. Suit & Tie, aka Benjamin LaRiviere (@TheOldBenRiver-IG, OldBenRiver-Twitter) to share some news...THEY'RE MOVING IN TOGETHER! Find out what made them decide to take the plunge, how they're navigating their Polyamorous lifestyle under one roof, and why...

Sapphire is joined by Marisa Rosa Grant(@marisadaddy-IG,  @StrappedTO-Twitter) a queer icon who creates spaces for Black Queer and Trans folks. Marisa discusses their journey in drag, as well as the importance of Drag Culture, and offers advice for those curious about strapping up. Want more of Marisa? Visit: https://www.marisarosagrant.com

From Cannabis reform to freedom of speech in Hip Hop, San Diegan activist and author Armand King (@mr.armand_king-IG, @MrArmandKing-Twitter) joins Sapphire in a heated conversation over how 'free' we really are.  Want more of Armand? Check out: armandking.com and pavinggreatfutures.org 

An Eargasm you won't soon forget or regret inviting inbetween your ears...

Physician assistant by day, women's health educator by night, Jordan D'Nelle (@jordandnelle-IG) joins Sapphire for a discussion all about VAGINAS! From self love and masturbation to caring and tasting, these ladies will open your mind like the flower below...Get ready for an Eargasm your ears and vagina may get wet to intellectually.  Want more Jordan? Visit: Jordannelle.com Manifest. Jordandnelle...

It's the first ever listener takeover with Earbud Snowie (@Snowie_Switch - IG). Snowie's a Poly, BIPOC, and badass mom who found her way to the lifestyle of BDSM to help heal from trauma. With an appearance of Suit & Tie (@TheOldBenRiver-IG), Sapphire leads a discussion on BDSM in the wake of trauma, negotiating play, and more! 

From Red Table Talk to now the Earplay airwaves, author and sex-positive content creator Gabrielle Alexa(@gabalexa-ig, Twitter) shares her truth on being Polyamorous and a leader for the community. From dating Polyamorous folks before even becoming Poly herself, to now being one of the most recognized faces for the Polyam community, this is one Eargasm you won't soon forget.  Want more of Gabriell...

From toxic monogamy to the Sexual Revolution surrounding Trans Folx, Ryan Andrews (@RyanSelfCareUniversity), a Trauma-Informed Life Coach and transmasculine leader, shares his knowledge and experience.  Make sure to catch up with Ryan's podcast Self-Care University  on https://anchor.fm/selfcareuni and Spotify! 

From gender prounouns to sexual preference, Hollywood seems to make it a trend rather than respect the hardship of coming out Niyyah, (@heauxonthegeaux-IG, @heauxgeaux-Twitter ) returns to discuss the importance of recognizing gender pronouns and understanding what being non-binary is. As mentioned on the show, The Layer is the sex blanket any squirter needs for the Hot Vax Summer! Check it out: g...

We've all heard the golden rule, but when it comes to oral is there a double standard? Sapphire is joined by the talented Mystkue(@penofmystkue-Twitter @Mystkue-IG), a sexuality writer, poet, and over all self-proclaimed 'throat baby'. The ladies air their dirty laundry of selfish lovers, their frustration of women being called out for loving oral, and more! Want more of Mystkue? Check out https:/...

*Content Warning: Episode contains elements of religious guilt, BDSM, and sexuality under a religious lens*  Certified intimacy coach Jasmine Sierra (@thesterileslut-IG) joins Sapphire to discuss how sexuality and spirituality are aligned, including how A24's Saint Maud went from being a thriller to a straight up religious horror film with BDSM elements and more. This is one Eargasm that's su...

Polyamory, (Non) Ethical Monogamy, Hierarchy...all these terms and more get discussed as Phoenix Mandel, a sexuality educator and consultant joins the show. Sapphire experiences a break up in her poly tribe, while Yasmine considers joining the lifestyle. Listen as Phoenix sheds light on navigating healthy PolyAm relationships, breaks down common misconceptions and more!  If you're looking for...

Brian Dwayne (@BrianDwayne-IG) is more than a photographer, he's the creator of BlkTouch (@Blktouch-IG) the hottest platform for Black Erotica since May 2019. From oral stories to beautifully shot visuals, BlkTouch is changing the problematic narrative in porn.  Support and subscribe to BLKTouch at BlkTouch.com 

 *Trigger Warning* This episode reflects on teen suicide, sexual identity, and assault. Dr. Uchenna Umeh aka Dr. Lulu(@AskDoctorLulu -IG @UchennaUmeh9-Twitter, @DrLulu-Clubhouse) is a 30 year pediatrician, mom, and global speaker on youth suicide, especially those in the LGBTQ+ community. Dr. Lulu joins Sapphire for a discussion on raising LGBTQ+ children, healing from sexual trauma, and how she s...

British Summer is here as award-winning sexual health advocate Rukiat (@IamRukiat) joins Sapphire! Find out why she's a warrior against STIgma, low libido, hot vax summer (sex after the covid vaccine), and why you should practice what you preach *ahem Derrick Jaxn* when it comes to being a leader in the sexual health and dating community. As heard during the sexy break 42:14.888 - 43:17.279 unleas...

After an personal attack on Clubhouse, Sapphire speaks her mind on how the Black community needs to do better among each other especially when it comes to dating and sexuality. Sex educator and Abortion Doula, Niyyah Lateef (@HeauxontheGeaux) shares their experience on the app and the toxic behavior of Black men. This episode is not to bash men, this is to reteach and help reflect on what it means...

"Six Foot Publicist" SheRise Ford (@SheRiseEnt-IG) has worked with numerous celebrities, including Master P, 21 Savage, and more, and was recently a producer for Apple's Verzuz with Brandy & Monica. As Sapphire and Yasmine have been battling the constant fight against Instagram over being muted or "shadowbanned," SheRise talks them through using some of her methods to gaining their voices back. If...

SSSH.com has been making women feel comfortable in their sexuality through their erotica for over 21 years. June Ann is an adult content creator who is the star of the new erotic thriller, Mirror Game, which has already won several awards since its release last September. The ladies of Earplay discuss the film, as well as getting folks in touch with porn from a feminine aspect.

Hickeys are either seen as a mark of shame or a sign of a great time. The ladies discuss the marks left by their lovers and why there's more to the art of love biting than just bruises. This week's Daz'd, Sex'd, Confus'd is a shocking one. A mom's OF page gets her 3 sons expelled while some Americans will give up sex just to be a jetsetter again.

Kinky power couple Blane & Lotus (-@thegreengawddess, @lotus_ropewolf-IG) discuss Black BDSM, being polyamorous and how couples can introduce different styles of kink in their relationships. Joined also by Mr. Suit & Tie aka Benjamin A. LaRiviere (@theoldbenriver-IG) this is one hot, Poly kink show we dare you NOT to want to be roped into... Get in touch with Lotus and Blane: WITHLOTUSANDBLANE@GMA...