Sadie's Divorced and Happy

What gift has divorce given you?   Freedom? Peace? An increased Libido? Get ready to be inspired by today’s dazzling episode as my guest, engaging Life Coach, Meagan Norris, and I discuss “The Gift of Divorce.” Plus, our listeners share in what ways divorce has been a gift to them. This episode has even more presents in store for you today including a holiday note from my sidek...

What does “having it all” mean after divorce? What does “all” mean to YOU? Living in a nice house? Working at a job that pays you a lot of money? Having as much sex as you want? (Nothing wrong with finding gratification in a baguette from time-to-time!)  This week’s guest, Happytude Life Coach, Patricia Wall, shares how redefining happiness, discovering purpose and finding cont...

What’s a must-have after divorce?  That’s easy: Your ULTIMATE Divorce Party! Who better to create extra playful, out-of-the-box themes for your delicious affair than my two returning guests: dashing comedians, Ron Lamprecht and David Rey Martinez. This dynamic duo from Season 3 is back on the podcast to serve up sweet ‘n salty helpings of laughter on today's flavorful episode, “Your Ultimate...

What’s better than a romantic partner this holiday season? A Safe “D” connection (or two)!  In this week’s episode, my guy bestie, Brian, and I share the many benefits of building meaningful platonic connections with the opposite gender.   Unlike dating, there are no silly games and sharing “all the things” doesn’t scare your Safe “D” away!  Sounds amazing, right?  Ta...

This week’s theme is about being “croissant-curious.” Ah, oui…the French—so open, so non-judgmental, known for the menage a trois... and delicious baguettes. Have you (like me) indulged in hard “baguettes” of every shape, size, and hue and find yourself wondering “hmmm…is THIS it? Is this all I can expect in the way of intimacy and vulnerable connection?” Because these deliciously firm baguet...

Can astrology empower your future after divorce? My glittery guest, astrology guide, author and style coach, Nicole Richmond, passionately says "Yes!" In today's tantalizing episode, she explains the star power of the "Big 3" (your sun, moon and rising signs) and how they provide a unique road map to rediscovery AND influence relationships, love and sex after divorce. Nicole ALSO shares her other-...

Seeking a cuffing season companion who’ll creatively and safely explore your innermost desires?  I’ve invited a very special playmate to today’s episode, and no it’s not your average “maintenance man,” it’s a SPICY DADDY! My guest, a Sensual Professional Dom, Daddy Heff, explains the rules and expectations within Dom/Sub relationships so your cuffing season can be extra delicious, respec...

How the heck do people DO this thing called "dating" when the meaning of "in a relationship" is ever-changing? This week's podcast addresses the question " WTF is a relationship? (Especially after Divorce?) " and features a fabulous returning guest, relationship expert and dating coach, Jennifer Hurvitz! Host of the award winning podcast, "Doing Relationships Right," Jennifer's approach to da...

Have you made any post-divorce commitments to yourself?  Well today is the PERFECT day to start! Raise a glass with me and my guests, Juanyetta and Marcus, as we play a fun game celebrating my 100th episode. It's called "The New I Do," and we'll be toasting to tasty new post-divorce ideas relating to time management, stress, happiness, dating, and yes...sex!  Laugh along with us, and fin...

Do feel like a bad-ass, modern day super hero, soaring into your new life after divorce?    It’s true.  Getting to the other side of divorce feels amazing!  You have a new-found zest for life that's indescribable.   So how do you take all this enthusiasm and truly change your life for the better?  My guest, keynote speaker, life coach, author and Hellraiser, Andrea Ow...

What stupid shit have you done after divorce? Come on. We’ve ALL done it!  Sure, it can be awkward in the moment, but it's sure FUNNY to talk about after the fact. Today my hilarious guest, award-winning comedian and divorced dad, J Bliss, and I share laughs as we swap stories on some of our not so fine moments after divorce. There’s even a “Top 5 - Stupid Shit After Divorce” l...

After a 9-month hiatus, I'm kicking off Season 4 with uncensored confessions, playful surprises and a very exciting announcement in this tasty morsel of an episode. Could this mean the "Burning Questions" segment of the podcast gets even hotter this season? Does my sidekick, Mic (my podcast microphone and the best listener I've ever known), spill the tea on what it's really like to work with me? I...

This week's episode of Sadie's Divorced and Happy is the FINAL episode of Season 3, and I've decided to go solo! I'm excited to wrap up this season of THE COMEBACK with sweet and spicy tales of podcasts past. I'll be sharing feisty and funny moments along with my my personal epiphanies and thoughts about my journey from being newly divorced to the honeymoon stage to my personal comeback after divo...

Tired of doing it all?  Are you overwhelmed and over-worked? How about trying a different path this holiday season and… Just. Do. Nothing.  Turn off the noise, sit in silence and just be.  On today’s episode, “The Art of Doing Nothing,” divorce coach, Heidi Bee, and mental wellness expert, Dr. Tiffany Bellamy, suggest you not RUSH but instead REST through the holidays and your...

Do you have something in your life that makes you feel powerful and confident?  Well, today’s guest, certified S Factor pole dancing instructor and owner of Sweet Spot Life, Samantha (Sam) Fisher, feels that way when she dances…and you can too! Sixteen years ago, Sam first discovered that pole dancing positively impacted how she viewed her body and shifted her perceptions about her...

It is time to turn your post-divorce attitude to gratitude and appreciate the day when anger over your divorce turned into thankfulness for what you gained on the other side.   My guest today on “Thank You Divorce – Again” is Laura Friedman Williams. We have so much in common with me that I fondly call her “my sister from another mister.”   Laura is the fabulous author of “ Ava...

Have you experienced a Foodie Call? Do you even know what one is?  Listen in as my guests, Life Coach for Divorce Recovery and author, Daren Douglas, and podcast co-host of "Divorce Doesn't Suck," Daniel Herrold, dish about foodie calls and all things dating.  From who pays on a first date, to would they date women who make more money and expert her to always pay, to how they vet a woman...

Do you need to get over yourself?  Today's guest, Susan Guthrie, a top divorce attorney, sure did!  She confesses how taking a hard look at her imperfections and surrendering her need to be perfect and to love herself just as she is, finally allowed her to live a happy life.   Susan champions ways to be secure with your imperfections so you can thrive and enjoy authentic r...

Have you considered polyamory or open relationships since divorce?  Coming from a background of only knowing monogamy in their first marriages, today's guests, intimacy guides, Andre Lazarus and Susannah Rose, committed to opening their relationship.  Their choice led them to experiencing the deepest connection and intimacy they’ve ever had. Get into the “hot seat” with us today as we de...

Julia Roberts struggled with it in the movie  Stepmom.  And we all know Cinderella had no fairytale relationship with her stepmother.  What is all this bad rap about?  Luckily, we have my positively parental guests, co-parenting coach, Tamar Burris, and author, and divorce-parenting expert, Christina McGhee, to debunk the stigma and negative images around step-parenting. ...

Can casual dating lead to your comeback? Dating expert and this week’s guest, Jade Bianca, divulges the key to unlocking post-divorce dating success; whether you're seeking a long-term partner...or not! In today’s spicy episode, Jade shares why it’s important for you to take indulge in a “selfish season” to casually date (nope, this doesn’t give you license to be an a$$hole.) And believe it or not...

Do you know what’s missing from your Comeback Toolbox? A Divorced Dad Hack!  My two guests, comedians, David Rey Martinez & Ron Lamprecht are representing the Big Apple (NYC) and the Mini-Apple (Minneapolis.) These divorced dads share 'out of the box' resources and creative strategies in today’s episode, “Divorced Dad Hacks!”  Trust me, after hearing today’s episode you’ll never...

Has divorce led you to a more authentic life? This week’s guest, author Candace Walsh, shares how dating women after leaving a heterosexual marriage, meant she was finally able to “breath" and feel comfortable in her own skin. Coming out for Candace led to a deeply intimate connection to her new wife, Laura. It also pushed her to live more creatively, moving her out of the “little space” she had b...

Is it possible to have a happy ending to a flawed fairytale of a love story? After my guest, Violette De Ayala’s 20-year marriage to her husband, Stephen, ended in divorce, she invested time and energy into someone special - - herself.  Violette’s personal transformation rekindled a second trip down the aisle with Stephen, and this time their three children were in attendance! Her comeback st...

How do you determine when it’s time to  quit  or time to  commit  to a relationship? Why is it harder to keep a commitment to pursuing your own happiness, and easier to stay stuck in something that doesn't bring you joy? In today’s episode, “Quitters and Committers,” Exit and Relationship Strategist Tonya Carter invites you to reframe the definition of "quitting" and what it me...