Ruwando Podcast

Napoleon Hill's term for "channeling sexual energy" is often talked about, but rarely in a way that is practical. In this video I speak on a workable model for how to use "sexual energy" towards well-being and materialization of goals. Referencing: - Freud's sublimation - Jung's Instinct - Wilhelm Reich's muscular armoring and orgastic potential - Mantak Chia's...

Men often fear beauty because it puts us into an involuntary state-- one where we can't easily control our emotions or reactions. But the involuntary state is what makes life worth living... ArousalControlSecrets.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscrib...

Your Hero's Journey is the best story there is. In this episode I speak on how to invest your attention to get the most momentum in the movie that is your life. Ruwando.com/archetype See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

"Reality is a like a woman. She either moves towards you or runs away from you, depending on how you engage with it." 'Synchronicity' is a term coined by psychologist Carl Jung and often misused by spiritual folk. But even as a subjective experience, it is critical in our ability to create our reality. In this live episode we speak on: + Actual Jungian definition of synchronicity +...

“Sex is the poor man’s meditation.” ~ Leslie Selene Leslie Selene is a spiritual medium, meditation teacher, and author. She was introduced to me many years ago as a ‘Witch Doctor’ when I was in a cult... Many things she told me back then finally clicked in my head five years later. We speak about her take on mysticism from different cultures, trauma and spirituality, sex work, and her various ini...

Melanie Curtin is a writer, sex researcher, and the host of the podcast Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships. She shares some of her interesting data points on male-female sexuality, tips for increased intimacy, and the importance of cougars for younger male sexual education... "God bless cougars" said Melanie. (And I agree. :)) You can get $200 off her course at http://www...

One the most common dating goals I hear from guys is "I want to date multiple women who are all okay with it". Even if it's partially ego-driven, it's actually a great goal as it forces you to grow as man. Here's what you need to know. 21 Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetype http://forum.masculineunderground.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information. Adve...

Audio version of this week's video. To watch visit  Youtube. Ruwando.com . Our ability to feel physical pleasure is affected by how we process emotions. When I was a Libido and Relationship Counselor I found one key cause in BOTH individual psychogenic sexual dysfunction (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, anorgasmia) AND when couples can't enjoy sex with each other. Join the Men...

Audio version of last week's video. To watch visit  Youtube. Ruwando.com . Does jelquing work? Kind of, but not in the way you may expect. Here what you really need to know about the quest for enlargement. Learn more about ninja bedroom skills at ArousalControlSecrets.com Join the Men's FB Group:  Forum. MasculineUnderground.com 21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge:  bit.ly/21archetype #ArchetypalM...

We got some seemingly disparate topic requests in the forum.masculineunderground.com this week: finding life direction, psychogenic premature ejaculation, traversing from non-sexual to sexual communication. But they actually have similar principles that are foundational to masculinity: 1:11 Finding your life direction 11:41 psychogenic sexual dysfunctions/ premature ejaculation 20:10 escalating fr...

Summer is my former radio co-host, business partner, and a long time friend. Last time she was on the podcast (Ep. 050) she shared some enlightening perspectives on relationships. Now she’s engaged, so I had her and her fiance on to talk about it in practice. Join the Men's FB Group:  Forum. MasculineUnderground.com 21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge:  bit.ly/21archetype See acast.com/privacy for pri...

My second year in the matriarchal sex cult was much different that the first. (Catch Part 1: https://youtu.be/4Rni2uDd4Wc ) I took some of the tactics I learned as a "party goer" and employed them as a "party thrower". In a sense I became a mini-cult leader. My intentions, as most peoples' were good... but power corrupts. In this video I share a little more of group reality cre...

Audio version of today's video. To watch visit  Youtube. Ruwando.com . Most people misunderstand vulnerability. It is not a set of specific actions or saying a particular thing. Often people aren't actually being vulnerable when they think they are.  If you're watching this, I assume you already understand the benefits of vulnerability. This video will help you become aware of actual v...

Solla Pizzuto teaches about healing and sexuality from both Taoist and Tantric perspectives. She coordinates the Meeting of the Masters retreat in Chiang Mai, Thailand (which is what had me move to Thailand 2 yrs ago.) She and I speak on Taoist and Tantric practices, “dark room enlightenment”, and male sexual performance. You can find out more about the retreat at the link below. (P.S. I’ll be aro...

I was in a matriarchal sex cult for two years in my early 20's. The journey turned out to be one of the most meaningful experiences of my life, teaching me a foundational knowledge of the psyche that I couldn't have gotten in any normal school. This is Part 1 of what I think will be two parts. I speak about my first year in the cult, my background that led me to seek this adventure, and so...

Audio version of today's video. To watch visit  Youtube. Ruwando.com . Most people misunderstand masculine vulnerability. Men need to be vulnerable, but not in the same way as women. The main difference has to with challenges, winning, and failure.  Understanding this is the key for men to grow and become better men. This video shares tips for men, obviously. But if you're a woman who date...

Karen Lorre teaches meditation and coaches people to healing through pleasure. She speaks with me on how to alchemize bad emotions, how materialization really works, and shares some anecdotes about Hugh Hefner during her time as a Playboy playmate. She is the author of Chronic Pleasure, I book I’ve been using to introduce healing and ease into my life. The print goes on sale later this year, but f...

Audio version of today's video. To watch visit  Youtube. Ruwando.com . Abundance and Generosity are not the same thing. Abundance, despite all the vagueries the 'Law of Attraction' promotes, there is a procedure by which you can change how you relate to material resources. Brittnee Bond and I share about in abundance retreat we put on in Thailand. Charity by Collective: TheNeighborFund...

Olive Persimmon is the author of The Coitus Chronicles: My Quest for Sex, Love, and Orgasms , where she documents her wild adventures in trying to get her mojo back. I’m in the book (though my name has been changed so I wouldn’t sue her). OlivePersimmon.com #Dating #Psychology #WritersLife #Sexuality #Coitus #ChroniclesCelibacy #OlivePersimmon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out informat...

Audio version of today's video. To watch visit  Youtube. Ruwando.com . I made a bad move with some cops recently... I was being too "masculine". There's a time and place to be Top Dog. There's many times where guys can take a practical tip from the ladies. We dig into how to practically deploy your anima (feminine-side) in the 21 Day Masculine Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21arch...

Jacqueline Buckingham is an actress and entrepreneur, among other things. She’s the creator and star of The Box with Jacqueline on Amazon Prime (season 2 coming soon). She was also in Half Baked. She’s also driving an important movement involving vulvas and free speech. We talk censorship, masculinity/femininity, issues within feminism, butt munching and more. JacquelineBuckingham.com HugePussySto...

Weekly Q&A in http://forum.masculineunderground.com 2:49 Jordan Peterson and Camille Paglia misunderstanding Feminine Conflict 5:10 Subjective vs Objective Reality perception 11:47 What Patriarchy actually is  Agriculture's effect on sexual specialization 17:37 What men need to in conflict with the feminine reality Limbic dominance/ Setting the emotional reality Difference between offering...

Audio version of today's video. To watch visit  Youtube. Ruwando.com When you date someone, you're also dating their archetypes. Carl Jung coined the term "Quaternio" for the 6 archetypal relationships that exist when two people get together.  Here I break down how you relate to the unconscious parts of your partners. Join the Men's FB Group: Forum. MasculineUnderground.com 21...

Brianda is the host of Super Trip Talk, a podcast on the Gotham Podcast Studio network. We talk psychedelics, mental health, dating, sexuality, and spiritual semi-paranormal stuff. This is kind of Part 1 of a two part convo. (Part 2 is on her show.) SuperTripTalk.com #Psychedelics #Psychology #NewYork #MentalHealth #Sexuality #Dating See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information. Adver...

Recording of Live call in the Masculine Underground FB Group [forum.masculineunderground.com] The Joker Movie shook me quite a bit. Many people don't understand masculine depression/low status outcastment. The movie embodied it in a way more real than I was expecting. Most people don't understand masculine depression and vulnerability. That's why so many of the messages to men come off...