Run Your Money Show

In this episode, I talk about 10 things you need to know about boundaries, delve into two of the four types of boundaries, and wrap up with how to stick to your boundaries in dating. Along the way, I even give you a peek into how I’ve set boundaries for myself and my relationship. 6:31 - Ten things you need to know about boundaries as you apply them in your life 22:09 - Quickly touching on the fir...

You’ve done a lot of work and understand how past experiences have shaped your relationship patterns. But are you still meeting lots of emotionally unavailable people on dates or constantly looking for red flags to keep from getting hurt or rejected? If that sounds like you, then you’ll relate to Erin who’s been single for five years. In this episode, I help her discover what lies behind her frust...

What’s stopping you from making the changes you need to find the love you want? During my time coaching in this community, I’ve noticed four obstacles to healing your love life come up over and over. In this episode, I cover these hurdles and discuss why some people choose not to pursue help in getting something they want. In the process, if you’re curious about Love Incubator (enrollment open now...

Usually, the fourth Thursday of the month is reserved for a guest expert interview. But on today’s show, I have a very special guest: a past client of mine, Paige. She was part of my program Love Incubator last year and is no stranger to doing lots of inner work. In this episode, she talks about how the program and our work together helped her finally let go of some past hurts, confidently get bac...

Allison feels nervous. In the past, she’d get physical in a relationship quickly and it’d fizzle out after three months. However, she just started dating someone who seems to be emotionally available, and she wants to set herself up for success. But she’s afraid she’ll mess it up somehow.  On this coaching call, I discuss the so-called dating playbook, physical and emotional intimacy and how the t...

I have lots of opinions about self-love. Even though I believe inner child work (and any kind of self-care) is ultimately about self-love, I’ve also steered away from using the phrase. The way it’s often presented on social media lacks nuance. So I want to dive into it a little bit today and reveal my four-part framework to help you understand what it means to “love yourself” and get a better sens...

Have you gone a loooong time without dating? My caller today has had some less-than-great experiences dating and felt so traumatized over it that she stopped entirely for five or six years! Now, she’s feeling the nudge to start again but has a lot of fear around attracting the same types of relationships (and bad feelings) as before. If that sounds like you too, then you’ll love the insights and k...

You’ve done tons of inner child work and have gone through therapy. You meditate, write your morning pages, and do all kinds of other stuff. And it’s helped you grow in several areas of your life. Your health is good, your career thrives, and your friendships flourish. But you’re still stuck in a rut in your love life. Romance is the one area that hasn’t really improved. So what the hell is going...

Normally, today’s episode would be a coaching call. But I’m changing things up because it’s my book’s birthday! That’s right! You Are Meant for Love has finally arrived and should soon be on your e-reader or doorstep if you pre-ordered it. (Take a look now, because it might already be there!) In this episode, I want to take you behind the scenes and share a little bit more about the book. But I’m...

We’ve all likely dealt with stressing around money at some point. If you’re living under constant money stress, it can keep you up at night. Now, there’s the fear with literally not having enough money in your bank account and you’ve got bills to pay. But that’s not the kind of money stress I mean. What about when the money is in your account and you have a good job or business to keep it flowing,...

I’ve got an exciting announcement to make! I want to let you know about an upcoming, free workshop and open house called How to Do the Work. I’ve never taught it before, but it’s a tangible workshop that’ll help you actually implement the inner work you need to do to change your life. In this very short episode, I briefly talk about the workshop and the open house bonus you receive if you sign up....

You might relate to today’s coaching call with Sarah and her dilemma. She has a pattern of codependency where her feelings are tied up in relationships, specifically whether or not she’s in one or if someone likes her back. While the circumstances of your situation will be different, I ask her a question that I also want you to ask yourself as you listen to this episode. In it, I walk her through...

What’s in store for us in 2022, astrologically speaking? You long-time listeners know I like to have Veronica Perretti on occasionally to give us an astrological update on what we can expect and how it might show up in our personal lives. Within the past couple of years, we’ve been preoccupied with the pandemic, so can we expect any changes with COVID in the next few months? What do we have to loo...

We intertwine money and love in so many ways. There’s a really good chance you relate to one the same way you do to the other. I’ve seen it in myself and my clients, like living together and having to figure out how to pay the bills. But that’s just the practical side of it. We interconnect money and love on energetic, emotional, and even spiritual levels too. In this episode, caller Brooke’s feel...

So many dates yet no real, rock-solid relationship in sight? What you need is a no-nonsense approach to dating and relationships that’s entertainingly funny, heartbreaking, and soulful... and that works! My book, You Are Meant for Love , fits the bill and is available for pre-order right now! To give you a taste, in this episode I share a little of the backstory behind why I wrote it, how it came...

Long-time listeners might get a sense of déjà vu with today’s show. This is a coaching call from 2019 but a very popular, timely, and super relatable one. That’s because what my guest Andree-Anne and I discuss is something a lot of women, including myself, have experienced. If you tend to get wrapped up emotionally (and physically) with new partners long before any real connection gets made, you’r...

When people ask me about strategies for online dating, it’s difficult to answer. There’s usually another, deeper question underneath the initial one like, “Why am I not attracting this person?” or “Why is this happening to me online?” However, I have found that online dating tends to be a microcosm of whatever pattern you’re playing out. So in this episode, I dig into some methods to help you reth...

I’ve talked a lot about body image on this podcast. But I’ve never had an expert in the subject on the show... until now. And with the holiday cheer accompanied by the challenge of cookies, cakes, and other food and wine everywhere, I think now’s the perfect time for this conversation. My guest Jenna Free has a ton of knowledge about eating disorders and body dysmorphia and acceptance. So I had to...

Lots of people have a hate-hate relationship with online dating and believe it’s responsible for their love life woes. But online dating isn’t inherently good or bad. It’s just a neutral space, like a bar or the workplace. I find that people likely manifest their online dating experience based on their larger relationship pattern which brings me to my caller today, Erin. She’s frustrated because s...

I’m about to say something controversial, even seemingly contradictory. I love manifesting, but the law of attraction is crap. And I love talking crap about it because it grinds my gears how much harm it does.  For too long, it’s been used as a force of manipulation across the personal development, wellness, and MLM industries and can actually lead to more frustration in your love life. So in this...

Romantic comedies, dramas, novels, soap operas... we access so many things where we see the idea of having a soulmate come into play. And as soon as “the one” appears, the relationship just clicks and everything is perfect. Or is it? How do you find the balance between passion and having a healthy relationship, if one of those criteria is lacking? Today’s caller has a history of being in toxic rel...

We’re in that tricky time of the year for people who are single. News feeds and conversations are littered with talk of parties and other engagements for couples. People come out of the woodwork with the cute holiday activities they do together. I’ve been there. I know it can be tough! Despite this not being a Thanksgiving-themed episode, specifically, I still wanted to have a conversation with Mo...

Imagine doing the inner work to overcome the need for other people’s approval to feel worthy, only to find yourself constantly attracting that kind of person as a potential romantic partner. Are you doomed to repeat the pattern, or do you believe you have the power to disrupt it? In the past, Tasleem felt like the anxiously attached, needy partner in relationships. Even though she did the work to...

Today’s show touches on a pretty sensitive topic. Do you put a lot of pressure on yourself when dating because you desperately want to start a family? Or find potential partners for such a purpose who may not be the right fit? I believe that doing so can actually make dating a lot trickier. In this episode, I reveal why and talk about what I went through when dating and trying to have a child. I h...

What does outsourcing your worthiness look like? Many people outsource their worthiness when they think they’ll gain acceptance, love, and confidence in themselves only after they reach a certain weight... or make a certain amount of money... or live in a certain kind of house or neighborhood... or have a relationship, period. Now, those things can make you feel good about yourself, but it becomes...