Room For Us

WELCOME TO QUEER BOOK CLUB! In this episode, I dive deep into Atmosphere by Taylor Jenkins Reid, covering the major themes, the beautiful queer love story, and all the details that make this book so compelling. Plus, I share who I’d cast if Atmosphere were ever adapted into a movie. Warning: this episode contains major spoilers ! I suggest you read the book, and then come back to this episode. Let...

Meet Steph and Stephanie! Wives, creators, and comedians Steph Squared TV join me to talk about ALL the things. We get into their coming out journeys, their experience making content as a married couple, and the hilarious story of how they first got together. This episode is all heart and humour and it was such a pleasure to meet these two. Make sure to follow Steph Squared TV across all their soc...

In this episode, I talk about why I think I might have OCD. This is a self-diagnosis based on years of patterns, thoughts, and behaviors I didn’t have words for — until recently. For a long time, I silently struggled with mental rumination, until it began to affect my daily life in a real and overwhelming way. While I’m now on the path toward finding therapy, I wanted to share my story for anyone...

I’m so excited to introduce you to my guests, Sam and Ali — aka The Wealthy Gays . They’re newlyweds navigating their finances together for the first time, and in this episode we dig into what financial freedom really looks like for queer couples. We also get into how building wealth is a personal journey, and it looks different for each of us. We talk about setting goals that reflect your own val...

Graduate school. Get a job. Buy a house. Get married. Have kids. Society handed us a script — but Gen Z and Millennials? We’re are rewriting the whole thing. And the queer community? We’ve been off-script from the start. In this episode, I’m diving into love, timelines, starting over in your 30s, and why breaking societal norms is so much more common compared to past generations. Advertising Inqui...

Welcome Ann Russo—an LGBTQ+ mental health advocate, educator, and founder of AMR Therapy, which has supported over 1,500 clients in the past four years. With over 20 years of experience in mental health, Ann brings a blend of professional training and lived experience to the table. She holds a Master’s in Theology and has made it her mission to bridge the gap between faith, identity, trauma, and h...

This week, I sat down with the hilarious and radiant Jas (@yafavegirljas) — a content creator known for her iconic dance videos, bold fashion, and the comedic breakfast series that has won over the hearts of so many people. Jas opens up about growing up in a South Sudanese and Ugandan immigrant household and how those roots shaped her creativity, confidence, and connection to community. She reflec...

This week’s episode was inspired by a DM I received from a listener who opened up about feeling behind in life when it comes to romantic relationships and their career. Their vulnerability really stuck with me, because it’s such a common feeling, and one I know all too well. When I was coming to terms with my sexuality, I truly felt like I was on a different timeline than everyone around me — like...

In this week’s episode, I sit down with the brilliant Rebecca Salazar—queer poet, editor, and author of the powerful poetry collection Antibody . We talk about writing through queerness, survival, and the radical act of speaking truth through poetry. Rebecca opens up about the emotional landscapes that shaped Antibody , how they navigate vulnerability as both a writer and a person, and why queer v...

Meet Sade Cole — a queer Nigerian artist, former celebrity stylist, and now a full-time sculptor based in California. From styling icons like Ciara and Wizkid to creating minimalist 3D sculptures that explore identity and heritage, Sade’s journey is nothing short of inspiring. We talk about what it means to be queer and Nigerian, how she’s navigated visibility and vulnerability across cultures, an...

WELCOME Rivkah Reyes! I sat down with Riv— queer nonbinary actor, musician, and absolute badass. We talked about everything from School of Rock nostalgia to their queer identity, sobriety, mental health, and creative evolution 🎸💫 Plus, we get the scoop on their upcoming single Big League Chew dropping 5/12. Make sure to stream Riv's music on all available streaming platforms. Follow Rivkah b...

How we feeling friends?! On this episode, I break down 22 ways we can all have a transformative year that can create lasting change. If you’re ready to pivot out of old patterns and step into alignment, I think you'll like this one! Inspired by Brianna Wiest’s The Pivot Year, this episode is a guide to self-reflection, acceptance, and growth. Change isn't something to fear—it's somethi...

Can what you eat really help ease your mind? In this episode, I dig into the science behind how certain foods and beverages can affect your mental health — especially when it comes to anxiety. I’ll walk you through 9 research-backed foods that have been shown to ease anxious feelings, shout-out the Mediterranean diet (for good reason!), and even unpack why a traditional Indian diet can be so nouri...

After four years of podcasting, it felt like the right time for a reintroduction. In this episode, I’m sharing a little bit more about my background, how I came to terms with my queerness and the intentions I'm carrying into this next chapter. Think of this as a cozy chat over coffee. Always remember to slow down and be present xo Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & O...

Ah love bombing and breadcrumbing - two common terms we hear a LOT but what does it really mean? Is this something you've experienced in your romantic relationships or even friendships? I did some research for this episode and talk about the toxic tactics of love bombing and breadcrumbing which are two forms of emotional manipulation that can leave us feeling confused. I talk about how these b...

In this episode, I sit down with Caitlin Galway, the brilliant queer, non-binary author of A Song for Wildcats . We dive into the inspiration behind their short stories, the power of queer storytelling, and what it means to write characters that challenge conventions. From themes of rebellion to the beauty of various settings, Caitlin shares their journey as a writer and the stories that shaped th...

You ever have a totally normal day, and then out of nowhere, your brain hits you with the worst possible scenario? Same. My anxiety loves to serve up intrusive thoughts, especially when it comes to my loved ones and my cats. What if something bad happens? It’s exhausting, but I know I’m not alone. In this episode, I’m unpacking how anxiety shows up as fear and exploring ways we can combat it. Do y...

My personality trait is loving Britney Spears- IYKYK. This episode is all about the incredible journey of the Princess of Pop. From her early life in Kentwood, Louisiana to her rise to superstardom, and most importantly, her inspiring journey to reclaim her life after a 13-year conservatorship. I hope this episode fills you with a little extra strength, fearlessness, and motivation - just like Bri...

Hi Girl on Girlies! This week, we’re diving into the psychology of desire with Danielle Harel, Ph. D., and Celeste Hirschman, M.A. - intimacy experts, authors, and co-founders of the Somatica® Institute. We’re talking about what really shapes our turn-ons, how to navigate sexual incompatibility, and why embracing our desires (without shame) leads to deeper, more fulfilling connections. Get ready f...

Trying to control how others see us is exhausting - especially in tight-knit queer communities, where it can feel like everyone knows everyone. In this episode, I dive into what happens when we finally let go - of control, of expectations, and of the need to manage how people perceive us. From social media unfollows to the bigger lessons in releasing control, this is all about finding peace in let...

Let's talk about the queen herself: MOTHER MONSTER. That's right - I am dedicating an entire episode to one of my favourite artists, Lady Gaga. From her dance hits to Oscar-worthy ballads, Lady Gaga has cemented herself as a once-in-a-generation icon. But beyond the fame and the fashion, she’s also been a beacon for the queer community, a champion for survivors, and a trailblazer in pop cu...

Ever wondered how your personality type plays a role in your romantic relationships? In this episode, let's dive into the world of Enneagrams and explore the dynamics of all nine types. From understanding your partner’s motivations to navigating differences, I break down how each type interacts in love, with a special focus on how my partner and I connect through our top Enneagram types. Adver...

Before there was Pride, there was Stonewall. In this mini episode, we're diving into LGBTQ+ history and exploring the significance of the 1969 Stonewall Uprising. I discuss how this pivotal moment ignited the modern LGBTQ+ rights movement and highlight two key figures who were instrumental in the fight for equality: Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.c...

In light of recent harmful comments denying the existence of gender diversity, I want to take this moment to celebrate the truth: gender is expansive, beautiful, and diverse. Trans and non-binary people have always been here, contributing so much to history, culture, and our communities. Let’s continue to honour and uplift these truths and stand together against narratives that seek to erase them....

Signs I was Gay: Featuring some heartwarming listener stories. Plus, I share a sweet story about my elementary school crush (let's call her Ash). Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy