Rhythm of Love - The Podcast

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We're breaking down the 6 Phases of Marriage — and trust us, you'll want to know which one you're in! We also get into a fun debate about birthday celebration styles, because, like most things, we feel differently about them. And of course, we drop our Song of the Week to keep your love life soundtrack going strong. Tune in, enjoy the ride, and as always, let's keep love in rhythm!...

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Clarence and Yalonda break down the difference between price and value—from designer heels to dream cars to wedding bells. Find out why they skipped the big wedding bill at first and saved the splurge for their 15th anniversary. Sometimes the best investments aren’t about money at all. Streamer Social: https://quedupentertainment.com/streamer-social-2025/ *Use "DJCSharp" as a discount co...

Parenting tactic #523 - Sometimes we gotta manufacture challenges for our kids to learn certain lessons when they're young and under our protection as opposed to allowing them to face these obstacles for the first time once they are out on their own, and the stakes are much higher. Email: contactcylent@gmail.com | Web: cylentertainment.com | LinkTree: linktr.ee/contactcylent

For a lot of our marriage, we were basically joined at the hip. Grocery shopping was a full family event. If one of us was showering, the other was holding the towel. Yalonda even had Clarence watching Lifetime movies and he had her watching basketball and scifi. But over the years (okay, decades), things shifted a bit. Not in a dramatic, “we’re growing apart” kind of way—but in a healthy, quietly...

We say "nipple" a lot in this episode! Email: contactcylent@gmail.com | Web: cylentertainment.com | LinkTree: linktr.ee/contactcylent

Is it okay for a man to cry at the movie theater or to express that he was hurt by what a loved one said to him? What does it mean when a guy is told to man up on the job or in his relationships? Is being a man under attack? In this episode, we get into a phrase that's used a lot these days: "toxic masculinity." What does it mean to each of us when we hear it? Is "toxic femininity" a thing, too? C...

Our relationship has been a musical journey since our beginnings in 1993 with Sade's Love Deluxe through Joseph Solomon's Black Like You. Along this journey—much of which took place literally on the road—we've introduced each other to soulful R&B (his bag) and uplifting gospel music (mine). Come with us as we get wax nostalgic on the tunes that bind us. Email: contactcylent@gmail.com | Web: cy...

For many of us as children, our parents were superhuman, until one day they weren't. Over time, they became real people - people who don't know everything about everything, people who could lose a step, people who could make a mistake, people with private lives that didn't include us. Join the conversation as Clarence and Yalonda talk about when those realizations hit them -- their par...

This episode is all about aging like fine wine and keeping their health game strong by staying on point with preventive health screenings. Clarence and Yalonda know that preventive health care is self-care, and taking care of yourself is also taking care of your spouse. Tap in and join the conversation! Email: contactcylent@gmail.com | Web: cylentertainment.com | LinkTree: linktr.ee/contactcylent

The recent political turmoil and haphazard government layoffs that started on January 20, 2025, are affecting the Lewis family. Yalonda has been unjustly furloughed from the job she cherished. She and Clarence get into what a furlough means, what it's like being thrust into this situation, and what their next steps might be. Also in this episode, Threebies are back! The couple shares three helpful...

Ever pretend to like something just to be in solidarity with your partner? In this episode, Clarence and Yalonda dive into the danger zone and reveal things they secretly dislike, but pretend to enjoy for the sake of their marriage. You won’t believe what they’ve been “lying” about all this time! Plus, they kick off a brand-new segment on what the internet has totally ruined. As veterans of life b...

What have you and your spouse done to get healthier and how is that working out for you? We discuss what it's like for us trying to get "skinny from the side." It's one thing to suck your gut in and look good from the front. It's a whole other thing to be skinny from the side. We also introduce a new segment called 3 Freebies, or Threebies for short. Good things come in 3&#39...

Clarence & Yalonda kick off season 2 with a special trip to Madrid Spain. After giving you some recap of their trip, they talk about traveling tips with your spouse!!

In their season-ending episode, Yalonda and Clarence do their first-ever in-person interview with one of their favorite couples from the YAY-AREA, Twomp Tha DJ and his wife affectionately known as T So Crafty. We get into what really happens in the clubs as opposed to what our wives think happens in the clubs. Contact us:  contactcylent@gmail.com Website: cylentertainment.com LinkTree: linktr.ee/c...

In this episode, Yalonda and Clarence recap their adventures in Las Vegas and they discuss whether or not married couples can have platonic friends. Contact us:  contactcylent@gmail.com Website: cylentertainment.com LinkTree: linktr.ee/contactcylent Please check out: Streamer Social - https://quedupentertainment.com/ HIP-IME - https://www.instagram.com/hipime/ Comment, Like, and Subscribe!! New ep...

In this episode, Clarence accuses Yalonda of attempted murder. They need a jury and you're it. Let them know in the comments if Clarence has a legitimate case. Contact us:  contactcylent@gmail.com Website: cylentertainment.com LinkTree: linktr.ee/contactcylent Comment, Like, and Subscribe!! New episode weekly!!

Clarence and Yalonda talk about true gender equality issues based on a post on IG by @indeskribeabull about opening doors for women. Clarence voted no, but potentially with good reason. Contact us:  contactcylent@gmail.com Website: cylentertainment.com LinkTree: linktr.ee/contactcylent Comment, Like, and Subscribe!! Reel by:  @IndesKribeaBULL  New episode weekly!!

Clarence and Yalonda's talk about some of the benefits of marriage and some precautionary stuff you can consider. They also talk about Yalonda's trip to Philly to see...USHER Contact us:  contactcylent@gmail.com Website: cylentertainment.com LinkTree: linktr.ee/contactcylent Comment, Like, and Subscribe!! New episode weekly!!

Clarence and Yalonda's son is home for the summer from college and asked to spend the night over a friend of the opposite sex's house. We manage most of his expenses but he is 20, so should he really have to ask? How do you manage children as they transition from adolescence to full adulthood? Also in this episode, Clarence and Yalonda are sent a surprise message. You won't believe fro...

Clarence and Yalonda delve into a hodgepodge of topics, from self-care in marriage to movie reviews to defining submissiveness and assortment in marriage. This episode is a true "stream of consciousness". Contact us:  contactcylent@gmail.com Website: cylentertainment.com LinkTree: linktr.ee/contactcylent Comment, Like, and Subscribe!! New episode weekly!!

Clarence & Yalonda discuss methods they used to give each other feedback and walk through what's worked, what hasn't, and why. Contact us:  contactcylent@gmail.com Website: cylentertainment.com LinkTree: linktr.ee/contactcylent Comment, Like, and Subscribe!! New episode weekly!!