Results & Relationships

just a long list of questions to make our heart and mind rest while looking within and beyond

Please help remind those you care about to protect their accounts & devices with Multifactor authentication everywhere. Seek out ways to stay safe, helping those who you believe dont have the knowledge or capacity. its always been urgent. Now you cant afford to wait any more. Help save others by lending a nudge, insight or knowledge. in cyber distance is an illusion and the forces are unreal with...

Seeing, asking and facing what isn't being said by lifting the Question How often to you actually pause and make space for yourself to know your position before answering? How often do you refocus on why that ask you for a recommendation? WHY they are asking in the first place? what is is the ask for a recommended for?  Why do they ask you? Why now? Where are they now and do you see clearly where...

No one care how much effort you invested - they care about how it can help them from where they are to where they are going release freely and often. if your idea is all you've got you've got nothing. share it with those who need it and embrace reality. if you have to lock in knowledge you're turning into a commodity. like the hackers in the 80th used to say. information want to be free deliberate...

Dont store - Create, Release, Reflect So its set. This show will be renamed Results & Relationships. Why? Im hoping to help you let go of what you make. Create it with your intent and then release it. this show isnt just for me. The simpler name might help those its for. you. Just like everything you create. Lots of the stuff wont become a recurring growing assets. but once it does, its important...

Dare to be specific and clear enough to create tension. Be respectful to those you serve, and those around you and yourself. Dare to show the tension early saves so many so much - its an huge alternative cost for us people pleasers who rather save those tough confrontative talks for tomorrow. Thinking we're doing the generous thing to have more details, habits, patterns for when we adress it.. yet...

(I just realized I published this episode to my other podcast, Psychology & Cyber thus just uploading it here as a copy. Sorry for the delay and mistake on my side)   Ready is a choice, it not worth waiting for. Do you regularly invest time with people who: * claim ready enough for action even while uncertain? * do work that matter for them regularly? * Dare find out if those they seek to serve ca...

Remarkable Position and easy to say name change It's been 8 years already with Relationship Power at work. Every week. Some of the early years it was more often. Before that this pod was called "Levelup at work and ingame". That's why the libsyn url is called gaming even if all those episodes are lost now due to my own newbie mistakes with an RSS feed change. I've been wondering if we should renam...

Owning your choice of context, your patterns and positions from which to serve. Are you owning your choice of context? Do you position yourself with people and situations that are likely to help others long-term and effectively? Are you diving into your context to find the context within the context of what truly matter to those you seek to serve?

What do you rhyme with? What does your work ryme with? What does your relationship ryme with? Whats your future ryme with? We live in a time where most want to "Predict the next big wave", "find The Key that unlocks it all" or that "The golden segment to distript industries". Chasing that dream of exponential growth. Believing we see it everywhere. Not seeing the infinite amount of tries between t...

Do you see its many sides and shapes? There is always many sides and shapes to everything that matter. Some sharper than others. Few see the world exactly like you do. How many of the worldviews of those you serve can you hold higher than your own when needed? Do you intentionally make space to stay off the beaten path in a few select areas over a longer time? Do you intentionally surround yoursel...

Uncanny Sight : You saw something inside me that I didnt see until years later yet I wasnt ready when you named it and that made me nervous Are you making people uncomfortable with what you see or does your lended sights give them freedom, energy or clarity to act for their own benefit? Sometimes the people around you are not ready to connect to what you want to connect on. How can you learn to se...

Relentless tests. Lessons and gifts are optional. Relentless tests. Every second of your life, business & relationships. Question is though. Are you taking the lessons that matter and letting go what doesnt belong so you learn between tests? Are you accepting the gifts that helps both you and their giver, and letting the ones go that dont? Even if they are from yourself, fully formed, shiny and po...

About this eposide: I'm glad to introduce you to Özlem, our first guest in perhaps 6 years or something of weekly shipping. Since the 1990ths I have always created a few cyber communities where we have learned together. (On whatever voice platform made it most easy at the time) Almost every day I'd join a live voice channel in a joint venture within a game the group as a whole would be playing. Th...