Respected & Connected: Practical Conversations for Couples Who Want Real Partnership

Feel like you're doing too much work in your relationship? Jessica Myers-Adams, a certified therapist and relationship coach talks about the power of being a relationship visionary. We explore practical strategies for improving relationships even in the face of personal challenges & disappointment.  We discuss:  the importance of self and other differentiation,  making every problem your own, and ...

Can too much stability in a relationship be a bad thing? Dr. Bruce Chalmer, a psychologist with over 30 years of experience in couples therapy says that often couples get so good at stability in their relationship that they neglect their need for intimacy.  We discuss: The tension between stability & intimacy in relationships Bruce's seven word formula for couples work Recovering from infidelity T...

A very casual conversation with Corrie Woods about our mutual dislike for the very common relationship advice to "let men lead."   Website and Linktree:  Get the full show notes and links to the resources mentioned at https://respectedandconnected.com/podcast/b/ep-133 Sign up for the next Thriving Together Couples Call: https://www.respectedandconnected.com/together   Connect with Sharon Website:...

What's wrong with being a "Nice Guy" anyway? Jason Lange, a specialist in men's issues, particularly the Nice Guy Syndrome shares his insights on the evolution of men's roles and the importance of being connected with one's power, head, and heart. We discuss: What is the Nice Guy Syndrome and how do men develop it Challenges and misconceptions about Nice Guys Advice for couples and individuals dea...

Have you ever felt hesitant to speak up and advocate for the supportive partnership that you want? Dr. Julie Hanks, a licensed therapist, owner of Wasatch Family Therapy, and well known influencer, shares her insights on creating partnership families and the challenges that often come with this endeavor. We discuss: The concept of aspirational shame and how it prevents women from pursuing their go...

Would you like to experience greater intimacy and connection with your male partner? In this episode, we welcome Eric Fitz Medrud, a therapist specializing in relationships and men's issues. Eric shares his personal journey from struggling with his own desires and ethical values to becoming a specialist in relationship and sexuality therapy. He highlights common misconceptions women have about men...

What did you learn about sex growing up and how is it impacting your marriage? In this enlightening episode, we sit down with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers, an esteemed author and sex therapist, to explore the profound impact of sexual shame on intimacy and relationships. Dr. Sellers shares her extensive knowledge on the subject, drawing from years of experience in helping individuals and couples navi...

What's the best way to respond when your spouse rejects your carefully considered requests? In this episode, we dive into the often overlooked yet critical topic of dealing with rejection in marriage. Sharon shares valuable insights on maintaining a healthy relationship despite disappointments. Listen to learn how to handle rejection with grace and foster a greater capacity for generosity, vulnera...

Do you ever wonder if your marriage would be easier if your spouse was just a little more like you? In this insightful episode, we delve into the complexities and beauty of personality differences within relationships. Our guest, Erin Woodruff, a life coach who specializes in helping high-achieving women stay happily married to introverts, joins us to share her expertise.  Erin provides valuable t...

Welcome to Respected & Connected the podcast dedicated to helping couples build more balanced and equitable relationships. Whether you're in the thick of raising kids and trying to establish a career or you're considering what you want your empty nester chapter to look like our conversations are here to empower you and validate your experiences. In each episode, we delve into the complexities of m...

Tired of the old advice on the "right" way to get what you need in your relationships? Discover the transformative power of discovering your true identity and how your relationships can benefit with Megan Gibson. We discuss:   The journey from people-pleasing to self-empowerment How to identify and let go of false identities Practical tips for aligning your life & relationships with your true self...

Many couples facing relationship issues are faced with the question - do we need help as a couple or do we need to do individual work first? In this episode we're exploring the differences between individual work and couples work and when you should consider each type. We discuss: The risks and benefits of couples work The limitations of individual work when dealing with relationship issues How co...

In this podcast episode, Sharon interviews Lark Galley, a wife and mother who has experienced the profound grief of losing a son to suicide. Lark shares the challenges this tragedy posed to her marriage and how it has affected both her and her husband's perception of success, personal achievements, and their relationship with each other. We explore the complexity of grief, the importance of allowi...

Working on your marriage without seeing any noticeable results is exhausting. If you're running out of energy and motivation to work on your marriage, but you're not ready to walk away, this episode is for you. We talk about three reasons we get burned out on working on our relationships and some ideas for how you can address them, so that you can still make progress in your marriage without feeli...

Violetta Znorkowski is on a mission to close the gender gap from the inside out. Listen in for an insightful conversation about: Recovering from hustle culture Self-leadership Recognizing and releasing emotions that don't serve us Redefining personal empowerment & success Navigating gender biases Get the full show notes and links to the resources mentioned at  https://respectedandconnected.com/pod...

Making the decision to get help with your marriage can be difficult, especially if you want help more than your spouse does. If you're on the fence about getting help because you don't know if things are bad enough to warrant it or if you're afraid to rock the boat this episode is for you. We're talking about: signs to look for, the value of third-party perspective, breaking free from passive rela...

If you're in a relationship for any period of time you're going to experience a major conflict or disappointment and that is not easy to deal with. In this episode we share what it takes to rebuild trust and connection after conflict and disappointment so that you can grow together as a couple instead of slowly drifting apart. We discuss: The importance of self-compassion and how it can help you h...

Spoiler alert...safety in intimate relationships is a myth! Many of us hesitate to discuss sensitive issues, even in our most important relationships. But relationships don't work longterm when you can't discuss concerns and issues openly and honestly. In this episode we're talking about things you can do to create more courage, curiosity, & humility in tough conversations so that you can have mor...

We're fooling ourselves if we think that every choice we make in our relationships is consciously determined.  But how to we access our subconscious so that we can make more conscious and aligned actions toward deeper understanding and connection? Dr. Tonia Winchester joins us on the podcast to talk about how to slow down, question our triggered thoughts, and move forward with more patience and cu...

Conflict in our intimate relationships is inevitable. When we're faced with a conflict in an intimate relationship we're trying to achieve two goals at the same time. Maintain a connection with our person and our autonomy. It can be challenging to stay connected when we feel like our personal goals and desires are at risk. And since very few of us were modeled what healthy conflict looks like, it...

We all want happy, healthy relationships. And that can be hard to achieve when you're feeling disappointed or frustrated with your spouse. Sharon shares a few ideas for approaching your partner when you're frustrated so you can address the issue and use a difficult conversation as an opportunity to connect and deepen your relationship. Get the full show notes and links to the resources mentioned a...

Every woman from every walk of life understands the burden of invisible labor.  Laura Mickler, a mindset coach and yoga studio owner, joins us on the podcast for an insightful conversation about how to understand and share the burden of the mental load with your partner and family members.  We discuss: The concept of invisible labor Why it can be so difficult to share the load Practical tips and s...

Dr. Marsha Martin, a spiritual empowerment counselor and best-selling author, discusses the importance of healing one's relationship with themselves. We discuss: Acceptance and self love as the foundation for personal growth Taking responsibility to shift from blame to personal transformation The role of tools and resources in self-transformation Embracing imprefections to move past the fear of fa...

Are you listening? Really Listening? Laura Janusik, a trainer, coach, consultant, speaker, and researcher talks about the importance of listening in communication. We discuss: How our listening habits shape our interactions The importance of quality listening and it's impact on the quality of our communication The concept of "listening intelligence" and how to improve your ability to listen well T...

Does this sound like you...You know you want to communicate better, but you're not quite sure what to do differently? In this episode, we're talking about: The goal of healthy communication (spoiler alert - it's not getting the other person to change) Unhealthy attitudes and behaviors that prevent good communication Five specific skills to improve your communication The one thing you always need t...