ibeenhandsome

Respect Me, Once The Dust Settles.

Education EN ↓ 87 episodes

This isn’t small talk it’s real life, unfiltered. Self-doubt, love, confidence, creative pressure, and the lessons that hit once the noise fades. Life, faith, music, sports, the moments that shape us. Ladies, grab your wine. Fellas, pour your drink or light that cigar. Everyone, put everything down for a minutejust be here. Early episodes? Yeah, the audio’s rough. Thanks for riding with me while the show levels up. Connect with me: Instagram @ibeenhandsome | Twitter @dustsettlespod

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ibeenhandsome

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Latest episode

Jul 9, 2026

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Episodes

Inspired & Warned: Diddy’s Reckoning Pt.2 08.12.2025

Continuation of my thoughts from last episode , a further breakdown. Be sure to comment , follow , share.

Inspired & Warned: Diddy’s Reckoning 08.12.2025

After watching ‘The Diddy Reckoning,’ I found myself inspired by his ambition and hustle but I also saw the mistakes and flaws that made him human. In this episode, I reflect on identifying with the good within the monster, but dive even deeper into human error , faith and an ultimatum we all face.

Ohana Means Family . 04.12.2025

I talk about how I’m feeling post Spotify recognition. I sort through an epiphany I had in realtime as well and a conversation with my pops that triggered another epiphany. Enjoy

I Played Myself ….. Finally Eating My Age. 03.12.2025

If you’ve ever eaten something you KNEW you couldn’t handle, then sat there questioning your entire identity…. Welcome You’re in the right place.

Perfect Timing 02.12.2025

Today I dive into the backlash surrounding Shedeur Sanders after his first win as NFL rookie quarterback. His confidence is clearly a threat, but why ? In what world is knowing where you come from and believing in your preparation a threat ? I break down the double standard in media , the fear of a prepared black family, and why black excellence is constantly asked to shrink Itself. This episode a...

I said , ICDC , ICDC 01.12.2025

2026 isn’t waiting , and neither am I. In this episode, I dive into the late night revelations, prayers, and frustration fueling my journey. From betrayal to heartbreak to relentless ambition. Inspired by Deion sanders Jr walking through the streets of Dallas , 3AM Screaming “WHY GOD” and DuB’s message of perseverance through depression, i reflect the sacrifices, the lonely nights , and the vision...

New York …. I never wanted to leave. 30.11.2025

This episode , I explain why I left New York. I break down the range of emotions , true friendship , high school and even friendship gone sour.

Ain’t No Leftovers In My Fridge. 28.11.2025

This Turkey Day was an interesting one for me. I had a bit of a reality check, I observed a lot , and I noticed a lot within myself as well. This is me turning spending the holiday alone into positive vibes. Ultimately someone out there has it worse , and there’s a lot to look forward to. I’m thankful for everything.

Tamiesha Pt.2 25.11.2025

The continuation of last episode.

Lock The Door Behind You. 25.11.2025

Have you ever unlocked your door and got sidetracked ? I mean sidetracked with anything, a phone call, turning off the oven, running to the bathroom. Listen to me , safety isn’t guaranteed …. Lock your doors.

Tamiesha 24.11.2025

Some people walk into your life quietly and still manage to change everything. Tamiesha was that chapter for me. The one that showed me what safety felt like, what maturity sounded like, what peace can be and how I healed wounds can still ruin a good thing. This is a dramatic and slightly fictional version of events that took place. Decipher what you will.

Cold Wind Shouldn’t Burn Old Wounds 23.11.2025

In this episode , I try my hardest to put language to the pain I never had space to speak. I talk about the kid who was born the black sheep, the kid who had to be perfect. The child who learned exhaustion before confidence. I talk about my green eyed guardian angel who taught me to stand in my truth, so much more. This is the root of all wounds, old expectations, and the cold wind that still find...

If You Used Me…. i let you. 19.11.2025

Sometimes, the hardest trusts are the ones we tell ourselves. In this episode, i get raw about missing the old me, the version of myself that was lighter, freer, and how letting go, burning bridges responsibly, and holding yourself accountable can set you free. From friendships that ended silently, to the beautiful chaos of love, to the loneliness that growth brings, this episode is about honesty,...

Nothing’s Ever Promised Tomorrow Today. 16.11.2025

In this episode , we talk about what it feels like to lose love , heal from it and taking the steps to rebuild. This story isn’t about the last, it’s for anyone standing at the cross roads between letting go and leveling up. Last but not least , a goodbye.

Bitterness, Money, and the Death of Connection 11.11.2025

💔 Love in 2025 is complicated. Money, social media, bitterness, and survival have changed the game. We’re chasing attention, not connection. I go deep on what we’ve lost and why intimacy feels almost impossible. Listen. 🎙️

Moon Walking Through The Shadows 07.11.2025

Ever feel like you’re giving your all, but no one’s watching? In this episode, I get real about feeling unseen—whether it’s your art, your grind, or your podcast. Using Michael Jackson as the ultimate example of relentless work, we talk about the highs, the lows, and how to keep going when it feels like nobody notices

Discipline Over Discouragement 04.11.2025

This episode is about choosing discipline over discouragement, even when you’re tired, overwhelmed, or disconnected from yourself. We talk about the quiet power of self-control, the trap of comparison, and the realization that sometimes the most life-changing thing you can do is simply put the phone down and sit with your own thoughts. We break down how discouragement can make you selfish — how it...

Different Eras, Different Thrones… Chris Brown & Usher 31.10.2025

Usher represents the polished soul of the 90s, while Chris Brown embodies the millennial evolution a hybrid artist who’s been running his own lane for nearly two decades. But when it comes to a true era-for-era matchup? The real showdown is Usher vs. Justin Timberlake. Brandon dives into the producers, the catalogs, and the impact: Jermaine Dupri and Usher, Timbaland and Justin, and how Chris Brow...

Twin , Where have you been ? 29.10.2025

aaaaaaND , we are back , Season 2 Episode 1. A reset , an introduction , an update. We establish the mission, a special thank you to my family, what I’ve been up to.

EP18: Tha Carter & Wale Deserve Their Flowers 18.06.2025

In the episode , We return with a quick Update We also take a moment to discuss Tha Carter 6 to a certain degree , and last we discuss Wale Both Wayne and Wale deserve their Roses while they can smell them & most important ? They’ve given us too much for us to forget their greatness

EP17: “Echoes Of Me” When The Past Comes Knocking 12.05.2025

When the past shows up in dreams, memories, and old friends…. It’s not random…. It’s a reminder. In this episode , i reflect on unexpected signs from my past and what they might be trying to tell me about who I’m becoming and what to do next. Also a huge shout out to Forever on Netflix , that triggered the inspiration for this episode.

EP16: Shedeur Deserved Better 27.04.2025

When players with worse records and worse reputations still get picked, you have to ask…what’s really going on? Today, we break down the truth about Shedeur Sanders, compare his story to others like Johnny Manziel and Baker Mayfield, and explain why the ones they count out always hit hardest. Tune in

EP15: Ambitionz Of Tha Marathon 24.04.2025

My attempt at a heartfelt tribute to two men who changed the world with more than just music. Nipsey Hussle and Tupac Shakur. This conversation isn’t about hype or headlines. It’s about honoring them as men as brothers, leaders, and voices for the voiceless I reflect on their impact and the values they lived by: ownership, resilience, revolution, love for the community, and community today …. For...

EP14: My Mic On ? 24.04.2025

We’ve upgraded the audio quality! Big shoutout to “Butta” for putting me on to this new equipment. This episode features some podcast updates, a few scattered thoughts, and me getting back into rhythm while testing the new setup. Be sure to like, subscribe, and follow for more

EP13: Somehow, I found beauty in lust 14.04.2025

In this episode, I open up about my last relationship the moments that felt like love, the ones that were just lust, and the blurred lines in between. It wasn’t perfect. It shocked me. But somehow, through it all, I found something beautiful. I talk about what I lost, what I learned, and the kind of love I’m still holding space for. If you’ve ever mistaken chemistry for connection, or stayed hopin...

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