Resourceful Influencing

Courtesy: Carson Tate To make workplace an inspiring place, the leader is as much responsible as the team members. Proactive team members are called ‘Resourceful Influencers’. There are ways it can be done. Emphasize inclusion. People who are close by are visible, and hence approachable. Those who are remotely placed, are visible over zoom. Approachable too, provided you make an effort to reciproc...

Courtesy :   Barry Dunlop #1 Never test the depth of the river with both feet -   Warren Buffett #2 You must gain control over your money, or the lack of it will forever control you. – Dave Ramsey #3 Be The Recognised Expert In Your Niche. #4 DREAM BIG! I think it is often easier to make progress on mega-ambitious dreams. Since no one else is crazy enough to do it, you have little compet...

Despite bitter workplace environment at times, when people thought me to be too independent and have my ways always, I observed one important thing. That is the trick to my evergreen happiness. That also gave a lot of time to indulge in my pass-times and hobbies as well. And kept me healthy. Of course, I need to workout regularly to be fit. 😜😜😜 I am happier all the time, since I last discovered...

The morning is full of mystery if you wake up during 3 am – 5 am. Robin Sharma is a leadership guru whose passion is helping others live more productive lives. He has written a book called “The 5 AM Club: Own Your Morning. Elevate Your Life”. It is a fictitious story about a billionaire mentor teaching a struggling artist and an entrepreneur about the importance of 1/4 waking up early to show how...

Passion is the difference between playing the piano and being a pianist. “Passion is the genesis of genius.” – Galileo Your personal best will be about you and no one else. Do what you love, and you’ll never work a day in your life. I was putting all the above at one place to give myself some gyan. For my clients. When they start, they describe the issues which are quite contradictory. Like being...

As I reached Puri, the pilgrimage place in Odisha, famous for Lord Jagannath and the Car festival, I had goose bumps. Time for being face to face physically, with an intimate friend.. Since He is synonymous with Lord Krishna, we have a whole epic dedicated to him, about his human dwelling. As I write this, be mindful that I am praying as a devotee as well. But I feel I am being pampered by Him, al...

I really wanted to help Sonu, my protagonist! She has a pure heart, but horrible in communication. As many of us, she has friction with her boss.  She can go endlessly finding his faults.  One major complaint she has, is that the boss, let us call him ‘B’,    does not stand by her when she most needs him. If she is very capable, handling her work, why does she need his sup...

You're The Average Of The Five People You Spend The Most Time Wit, said Motivational speaker John Ronn. Why do you at all like to be in the company of below average people? Law of averages give you the result that you achieve as outcomes. If you have one phenomenal person in your life, then the affect will come down if the rest 4 are average or below average. The one reason that comes to my mind i...

Professionally, we get into lot of trouble because we are perceived as undependable. Part of us remains hidden. The 'Other' person is always the problem-person. That entangles us in further problems. Sonu, has been an achiever, but when it comes to coordination, nobody likes to sit with her for a discussion, that would put both parties on the same page. Nobody responds when she calls a meeting. No...

My mentor asked me to get dissociated from work obsession to mindfulness.  The shift happens there.  So I have designed a code for tranquility.   When you pause you regulate your environment. Let me talk about me when I am at version 7.0. I am a director who earns a crore every day.  My bunglow is on a hilltop at the foothills of Himalayas.  I conduct tranquility retr...

My takeaway from the exercise: I have been listening to this at least since last June (June 2020). Morning as I wake up and night before falling asleep. I think I fall asleep listening to it too. Some work for Subconscious. What is the result? If you see me upbeat 24x7, then I attribute that to this exercise about 90%. All the masters say that I can get whatever I wish, provided I know what I want...

How I transformed the bad boss into my greatest supporter It is important to be a notch higher than the circumstances. I just was expressing a situation. And my senior burst out laughing. Everybody in the room was staring at his laughter which didn’t seem to end. Just the day before he had dealt very badly with me over something trivial. I knew he was having insecurity. His degrees, experience and...

I look at people who have not yet been picked up to be leaders but have all the qualities to serve, empower and elevate people around them for better results. I call them as 'Resourceful Influencers (RIs)'. They usually are the number two people. A player who passes on the shot so that another person can hit the goalpost. 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐜𝐞𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐈𝐧𝐟𝐥𝐮𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐫𝐬 Resourceful Influencers are often...

𝐈 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐨𝐧 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐈 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰. 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐝𝐨 𝐈 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡? 𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐈 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐳𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐭 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐚 𝐬𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐝 𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐞.  𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐞𝐫-𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫?  A super-power is something which you are bestowed with naturally. You do not need any effort for this. It comes naturally to you.  Everybody comes with this 🎇package🎇 believe it or not. ...

Being a person of technology does not ensure an apt technical solution.  To utilize technology adequately, one needs to ask like a child and believe that there can be a 'solution' - which means it is 'possible'. OR There can not be a solution - which means it is 'impossible'. To become 'connected'  is a possible solution as on today. So how could it be 'impossible' for  Meghalya, a...

𝕺𝖕𝖊𝖗𝖆𝖙𝖊 𝖆𝖙 2% 𝖗𝖆𝖙𝖊 𝖙𝖔 𝖔𝖚𝖙𝖜𝖎𝖙 𝖋𝖊𝖆𝖗 𝖔𝖋 𝖋𝖆𝖎𝖑𝖚𝖗𝖊 For success to happen, we need to focus on the 'process' and not the 'outcome'.   - Tom Daley Do you not deal with it in one of the following ways? 🎈 Avoid (Not to go to the garden because there is a snake) 🎈Emotion (The snake is not bad after all) 🎈Problem (Get rid of the snake) Just see to it that you are not getting rid of innovations or...

The nervousness at going for a change is because of unpreparedness. That can be counter with the 4 steps 🥽 Desire & wish        do not let your negative talk  put you down with new degree requirement,  I am not enough, not prepared... 🥽 Explore : go to the depth as to why this offer has caught your eyes in the first place 🥽 Take a look as to how...

A perfectionist actually does the work thoroughly. The problem is of delay. The gets down to the level of the prepositions(of course important). He is usually headstrong. He insists on writing 'few days later'. No matter what, one can not explain that it looks nicer if you can mention 'A few days later'. The 'Article' does a world of good in conveying the comfort level. But no, if he cant see the...

Even if the problem appears to be big, it can start with a simple solution. It gives the comfort to the affected person that its not huge after all For more resources download my e-book here by clicking this link https://bit.ly/2Vvttbz https://bit.ly/3A7eHXC #leadingwithsangeeta #leadtosucceed #everexpandingsangeeta #leadershipgrowth #resourcefulinfluencing  #problem-awareness Does anybody ha...

The inhuman boss can create mood swings, make verbal put downs, and may yell or scream frequently. The effected employee can sustain cardio-vascular disease or Post-traumatic stress disorder . He is usually a micro-manager. Here you can find the 7 ways to deal with him: 🎈Make sure he is a bad boss 🎈 Keep a record of what he does or says 🎈 Understand the triggers 🎈Work on the solutions 🎈Take a...

The basis of putting up with workplace hostility is to counter them, for the reverse Engineering process with regard to Leadership Growth. "Lead to Succeed" is in fact leading irrespective of the designation or position acquired so far. It is to put this gear on when you are actually feeling stuck, frustrated, restless, not able to decide the way forward. To know more about this of course you can...

A super busy Leader meeting deadlines can be doing something away from his  center, and is getting reminded by his gut feeling that something is not right.  Hence the restlessness. 🎈 The moment you become aware of this fact, record the date and time. A beginning has been made. This is the Turnaround moment. Most people whom I spoke with usually want to avoid talking about this. 🎈 Recor...

I was speaking to a gentleman who hadn't taken leave for last 5 months. 🎈I asked if he is enjoying is work. Or feeling stuck? He said he has this feeling of 'restlessness'. 🎈 Was he able to delegate his work? 'No' he said. "Why' I asked. He hesitated. "Is the manpower inadequate?"  I asked because many companies have downsized their teams. "No", he replied.   "Not quite able to place t...

If somebody can over come the limiting beliefs around selling, s/he becomes a leadership material. It is mostly fear of rejection with the following perspective 🎇 If yes I am  offering something world class creating breakthrough in his or her life. 🎇 If no, it's a disruption in my life I should have known long back. I go beyond the immediate call. My stages in rejection are 🎈 An outright n...

My USP..is silent speak. Like the Sambalpuri Ikat...the silently roaring handloom, of Odisha which is world famous ! If you are leader in silence, you are a resourceful influencer.. The tranquility ..the serene positiveness is obvious as you are looking to extend the helping hand anytime wherever required You do not prefer noise. You are the person recognised wholeheartedly by your team which has...