Resourceful Influencing

If you feel frequent anger, depression or hatred,  -- might be you are stuck in life, somewhere somehow. Few people say it is their ‘nature’. As a human being,  you can not have this nature. You feel demeaned? Actually, if you accept yourself to be ‘Less’, only then you will be demeaned. You feel confident about a bigger role, but not allowed the opportunity? Create your bigger personali...

Good habits take time to take shape Unless efforts r put, you will be doing the same thing even in the next year changing habits appear difficult for two reasons - a)we try to change the wrong way  b) we try to change the wrong things Three layers of change are outcome, process and identity Identity is the deepest layer. Ypu decide who you would become. You become skinny because you love exer...

Tiny habits to be shifted for a remarkable change.. The evolution will be an upward graph for all time to come

I felt like singing Mukesh’s song “Mei pal do pal ka shayar hun Pal do pal meri hasti hei …..” That is when I heard the boss Giving me ultimatum if I don't improve the performance this month. Last 9 months, I have been giving super results Topper of my branch. This month, it has not been so good. And he says he has to sit Here in this branch along with me To bring up the performance. So how do you...

I call this as a serious aberration If one is habituated to act last minute. But the last sec of the last minute, Holds the secret to A grand performance If it is completed in its entirety. Completely pronounced. I was speaking to Rashid. He had lost his job to Covid. And When I asked to reach the recruiter in person, He went to have the discussion, Which resulted in an offer Which he refused. Low...

It was Prem this time, a young professional, with six months of experience who responded to my message. I watch with 2-3 points without asking a question, I watch BEHAVIOR. I observe  the  CHOICE OF WORDS. I feel the warmth in their RESPONSE. Believe it or not, I can know your approximate age And number of years at work From those initial interactions. May be each of us can figure that o...

Don't wait till you become a pro- it is a myth  Learn while doing and share with people who dont know to make it a part time hustle  Get a mentor to fail fast fail forward

My values have been Dignity Community Learning Abundance Inclusion Tranquility  How do you find yours? Well  list all the values those are there. segment them into 6 pages  pick up 3 values from each and then do an exercise as described here to find your final 6 values

About prioritizing  and what u lose

🎫 Health & fitness   -   Eating n exercising   🎫Intellectual life  - connecting all dots of all that I do, it is leading to my purpose through life path 🎫Emotional life - I create strength within reach to the higher power within my connection 🎫Character - Through Ups & downs maintain vigour, integrity 🎫Spiritual life - Clarity. Self awareness 🎫Love relat...

Spirituality   -  all about Clarity Financial   - see if this is the end goal...associated with experience, growth or meaning Social - wisdom and admiration Intellectual -  fulfillment Health & fitness  - mental n emotional strength Career - discipline, consistence, persistence Parenting - closing a generation gap Character -  Who u r Emotional - Self aw...

🎡Ultimate productivity  because of gratitude because it creates happiness.  Ultimate productivity  because of gratitude because it creates happiness. 🎡If your dream is like a seed, and action is the water to grow  the seed, sunlight is consistency the gratitude is the fertilizer. People like to come to mys pace is a gratitude 🎡If your dream is like a seed, and action is the...

Need to be concerned about livelihoods is still there, and hardly can think beyond. Many, who could, drafted the stories of Rag to Riches 🎨Evaluate your growth 🎨Recognize which act of yours brought meaning 🎨Memories which brought you immense happiness some time in life

I was a Project Manager reporting to a VP for about 15 years of my life; wondering what extra he does than me? The moment you know the secret, you will fast track your growth 🛒•How would you define happiness at work?  -  More happy you are More productive you become 🛒•Do you love strategy?   -    The more you grow, the more you have to strategize 🛒•How much ti...

We need a combined forces of Power and love to achieve the highest end of human existence 🧵 We dont have to give up anything in spirituality 🧵 Egolessness is about having personal power about soul and spirit to shake the world 🧵 Do not diminish yourself by giving up on abundance, riches, wealth and fame 🧵 We need forces of love and power both to make the world better 🧵 Power is being badass w...

🎇happiness now   🎟 Being unfuckwithable (no bullshit in growth) 🎟Resistant to failure 🎇Vision of Future 🎟Ability to set big bold goals 🎟Intuition as to how to reach those goals 🎇Life unfolds when the boundary between work and play disappears 🎇Paradox of intention  (Sandra Anne Taylor  in 'Quantum success') 🎟 You are happy right now 🎟Regardless of the vision 🎇Blissipline (Discip...

Pain and Realization is Kensho and Aha and Growth is Satory segments in life.

They have great positive energy They truely value everyone on their team They have a clear vision for the future They listen They communicate effectively They are very trustworthy They are passionate They are authentic They have a sense of purpose They have a great sense of humor

Unless emotionally consolidated, can somebody lead? They dont feel sorry for themselves They easily embrace change They dont waste time bothering what they couldnt control They help others to be happy They are kind fair not afraid They elaborate others' success

some times we try to control  more than we care The three rules are Did you take permission Do you respect the process Does it create pressure? Refer to the story by my friend Nimish Shah here https://www.facebook.com/nimish.jitendra/posts/1820025851522255?__cft__[0]=AZV6trZvm28ce6ZWID9X8YQaDXOSgafkK9gCFw03aLePD9YwPtIWBWqcJDTtCLb4Gso6jNCJ_ZAU3FXRtwsjFIx45EzJ_ZOXwwJnMJAIDRyfMT4U5oCaOTqkzfZNCbX...

It is a new insight..  Focus on daily victories when you start with a big audacious vision, you don't have a clue how it will come to actualize. But if that is what scares you, challenge you, and drives you, then you need to be after it. Visualize it, how it is going to happen, doesnt matter if it is day dreaming.  Write as much of it as you can.  The ink on paper wil do the magic.

Sustained leadership growth requires to consider the following aspects

know how u are a differentiator  (DRIP method) Know how to overcome adversity and use those for growth (AHAP method) How to create depth and ultimate identity (Learn to monetize a skill) 

The questions will be around physical and mental health. The questions are to know about Well being Worries Feeling Perception of environment Ways to express unhappiness/opnion Possible support system Confidence level About colleagues Workload Perception on ideal day about 

#WICCI #WICCIINDIA #WOMENCHAMBER #GLOBALIMPACT #WICCIWoman #OdishaCoachingCouncil #LeadingWithSangeeta #resourcefulInfluencing #LeadershipGrowth • What else could this mean? • What can I learn from this situation? • What can I do differently so that it never happens again? • How can I turn this around? • What is the seed of opportunity here for me? • What might be great about this in the future? Y...