Resilient Kids Podcast

In this episode, Madeleine is joined by John Prendergast for a look at how generational perspectives shift, and what it takes to unlearn old biases. John reflects on his own background, sharing his unique family connection to a contentious 1877 court ruling and his personal transition from historical ignorance to active cultural awareness. The conversation centers on how parents can move past supe...

Join Madeleine and guest Dr Alex Barnes as they dive into the the realities of bilingual parenting – why families choose it, the unexpected challenges, and the long-term benefits that make it worthwhile. Alex shares his personal motivations behind the decision to raise his daughter bilingually, as well as the practical realities of making it work day to day. If you're considering raising bilin...

In this episode, Madeleine talks with Merophy Hyslop about her experience adopting transracially, and what she’s learned along the way. Merophy shares the real, everyday parts of navigating identity, culture, and family, and how those experiences shaped the way she thinks about raising antiracist kids. Resilient Kids is #1 on FeedSpot's Top 15 New Zealand Parenting Podcasts! https://podcast.fe...

Join today's guest, Jessica Barnes, on an exploration of how the attitudes and behaviors of parents can subtly pass down through generations, shaping our beliefs, biases, and worldviews. Jessica invites listeners to reflect on which inherited perspectives still serve them, and reveals the importance of listening inward and analyzing our intuitive responses. Jessica also shares the value of sur...

In this episode, Madeleine sits down with Adrian Martinca to explore the profound effects of artificial intelligence on human life and connection. Together, they discuss what kind of relationship we should be striving to build with AI, and how the rapid pace of technological change shapes our values and choices. The conversation also touches on the quieter, everyday consequences of tech, how socia...

This time Madeleine talks with Kirstin Barchia, an expert in the art of Calm Connection. They discuss the causes of stress in teenagers, reveal how stereotypical 'teen behaviour' is often the symptom and not the disease, and most importantly how finding your own calm as a parent is the key first step towards meaningful connection with your teen. Drawing on her insight into how childhood to...

Madeleine interviews Tim Curtis, SAS veteran, to explore a powerful topic which resonates with the core of this podcast: building resilience. Together, they unpack how children can develop emotional and social resilience, discussing the growth that comes through struggle, and how letting kids work through challenges builds the confidence they need to successfully regulate and thrive in todays worl...

In this episode, host Madeleine talks with Judith Yeabsley, feeding specialist and author, about all things picky eating. They explore why some kids are fussy with food, what’s normal (and what’s not), and how parents can take the pressure off mealtimes. Judith shares practical, down-to-earth strategies for helping children build a better relationship with food, without battles or bribery. Whether...

This time Madeleine speaks with Dr Barker-Clarke about the complex world of sexting and image sharing among young people. This conversation covers what sexting looks like today, how kids think about it, and why open, non-judgmental conversations matter more than ever. Dr Barker-Clarke shares insights from her personal research, including the most effective methods of teaching kids about online saf...

In this episode host Madeleine interviews Sarah Aiono, a parent and expert in the role of play in the development of children. Sarah and Madeleine discuss tips on how to make routines fun, as well as the best ways to help children manage failure. They delve into topics such as device usage, as well as exploring why being bored might actually be an important step in the process of developing creati...

In this episode, host Madeleine Taylor speaks with Amy Castle, a mother, experienced parent, and dedicated advocate for perinatal mental health. As a team member at PADA (Perinatal Anxiety & Depression Aotearoa), Amy sheds light on the challenges many parents face during and after pregnancy, including perinatal anxiety and depression. She discusses the lack of awareness and support available a...

Madeleine speaks with Dr. Emily Bashah, a renowned psychologist based in Arizona, to delve into the complex topics of radicalisation and dangerous ideologies. Drawing from her extensive experience in clinical psychology and forensic consulting, Dr. Bashah unpacks how these ideologies take root, what makes individuals—particularly young people—vulnerable, and the role of social isolation in the pro...

In Episode 4 of difficult conversations host Madeleine is joined by Brett Harvey to discuss the challenges surrounding the rise in accessibility and consumption of pornography. Madeleine and Brett discuss many topics including the dangers of pornography addiction, safe strategies to approach difficult conversations with young people, and tips to encourage healthy development and exploration of sex...

In this episode Madeleine interviews RuruHana Brownie on the topic of Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders. RuruHana is passionate about raising awareness towards the potential dangers of alcohol, especially in the societies of today where alcohol use is embraced and promoted. This episode gives insights into the causes and symptoms of FASD, as well as information about the support systems in place wi...

In this episode host Madeleine is joined by counsellor and social worker Tash Micheletti to dive into the essential yet confronting topic of consent. They explore the importance of the "enthusiastic yes", and discuss strategies for parents to become comfortable in supporting their children to understand and navigate consent. Whether you're a parent looking for ways to have open conversations or ju...

This episode focusses on the tragic topic of baby loss, as Madeleine is joined by Vicki Culling, a bereaved parent, educator, and support worker. Vicki shares her invaluable experiences in hopes of helping other bereaved parents to find moments of solace in the midst of sorrow, honour the memory of their children, and discovering unexpected sources of strength along the way. Growing Around Grief:...

This episode features Celia Hogan, an expert on the importance of play and the role it plays in child development. Celia and Madeleine discuss the benefits of nature in play, child-led play, and strategies for enabling the healthy contribution of play to children's cognitive, physical, social, and emotional well-being. Celia's website: https://littlekiwisnatureplay.com/ Madeleine's website:  https...

In this episode, Madeleine is joined by optometrist Keren Dravitzki as they delve into the fascinating world of eye health. Myopia, commonly known as nearsightedness, is a growing concern in today's digital age. Explore the environmental factors that contribute to Myopia, strategies to protect developing eyes, and tips to minimise eye strain and tiredness. Myopia - for families: https://mykids...

This week on Resilient Kids Madeleine speaks with specialist Brett Harrington about all things ADHD. This episode is filled with insights and strategies for parents raising children with ADHD. Listen in as Brett shares her expert knowledge and we discover that ADHD is not something to be fought against, but rather a challenge that we must embrace and adapt around. Brett's website: https://adhd...

In this week's episode, host Madeleine speaks with Te Kahukura Boynton, to explore innovative strategies for imparting financial wisdom to children. Te Kahukura Boynton is a 19 year old Law Student, Entrepreneur and Activist for Māori. Te Kahukura is on a mission to teach Maori financial literacy because she believes that this will reduce disparities in outcomes. You can learn more about her j...

This episode we are joined by Sarah Amy Glensor Best, an author, parenting coach, and mother of 3, as she shares her insightful take on the significance of play in a child's life. Madeleine and Sarah uncover the reasons behind play's importance and practical ways to infuse it into daily routines, fostering creativity and resilience naturally. Covering topics such as what is play, why we pl...

In this episode, we're joined again by children’s continence nurse Lisa Smith, a seasoned professional in the realm of potty training. Lisa imparts her extensive expertise, offering invaluable advice for parents and caregivers. From recognising signs of readiness to overcoming challenges like regression, Lisa's proven techniques and empathetic approach pave the way for a successful potty t...

On this week's interview we hear from the wonderful Lisa Krause. Lisa is a parent and grandparent with years of experience and expertise parenting. She has worked as a parenting educator and a teacher of parenting science. On this episode Madeleine and Lisa have a discussion on the topic of helicopter parenting. Lisa uses the terms “Rescuing your children” rather then helping and guiding them....

Heather has been working with parents and parenting professionals for 15 years and offers a unique perspective all the way from Carolina in the USA. In their conversation Madeleine and Heather discuss how hard it is for parents to find their own solutions when issues come up with their children rather then looking for help from professionals. The irony of this being a parenting podcast is not miss...

Sleep is one of the most essential parts of all of our lives. Billie, a sleep consultant with the business Sleeping Lions, takes her time to share our vital sleep is for all of our health. This is especially the case for babies. Billie discusses with Madeleine strategies for getting our infants to sleep. Billie boils it down to how essential it is to be consistent and have a plan and how habits ar...