Remix your Marriage Podcast

Send a text In this episode we talk about finding out how close Brittany was to us throughout her childhood and teenage years. And we crossed paths with her mother numerous times and she never said a thing.  Brittanys immediate family was not happy that she reached out to us! Thankfully we have gotten to know the rest of her family, Her Grandma and Grandpa, her Uncle and Aunts and a handful of oth...

Send a text  December 2nd(or 1st), 1989—a day etched in memory, not just for us, but now for all who tune in. We are recording this episode on our 35th anniversary of when we knew we liked each other, lol! Our marriage story isn't just about love—it's about resilience and growth in the face of challenges and the path toward rebuilding trust. Overcoming obstacles has been central to our j...

Send a text On this episode of "Remix Your Marriage", we reflect on key moments that have shaped our understanding of marital expectations and intimacy. Influential conversations, like one with Bec Smith, that taught us that consistency and full commitment are essential in both personal and professional realms. These lessons, interwoven with our candid insights into the intimate dynamics...

Send a text Today we talk about Gary Smalley's "If Only He Knew" the book that helped save our marriage! In this episode we uncover how this book reshaped Lyndan's perspective on his wife and women, emphasizing the importance of understanding and respecting gender differences. Hear about a desperate husband who followed Gary's unconventional advice and saw his marriage flo...

Send a text Have you ever found yourself in the middle of an argument, wondering if there's a better way to communicate? Tune into this episode of Remix Your Marriage, where we share our personal journey. This episode promises to provide you with tools to handle disagreements more effectively, focusing on communication, forgiveness, and growth as the cornerstones of a stronger, healthier marr...

Send a text Rebuilding trust after infidelity is tough, but it's one we faced head-on. Join us as we recount our personal experiences and share the powerful lessons we've learned along the way. You'll gain insights into the role of obedience in healing and the nuances of dealing with triggers and setbacks, which are a part of the process! Effective communication and mutual accountab...

Send a text Seventeen years ago, the fabric of our marriage was torn by an act of infidelity. Through this podcast, we share the intimate and often unspoken journey of rekindling the sexual and emotional connection that was threatened by this betrayal. We reflect candidly on the rollercoaster of emotions, from the false sense of repair in the aftermath of makeup sex to the genuine healing that ari...

Send a text In this episode we talk about how we allowed our circle to be to big. Letting in to many friends and family. We learned quickly the importance of keeping that circle tight with friends and family that you know you can trust. The ones that were there for us are still in our lives. The ones that used our story to gossip and spread rumors, thankfully are gone! Pay attention to those who a...

Send a text This is the 10 Challenge that has changed marriages! One of our favorite things to do together with our Remix Your Marriage community! 10 Days of fun things to do together, for each other to Reignite the flames or to add fire to the flames that haven't stopped burning! This challenge is for all couples! Click here to get the FREE 10 day challenge PDF  and get started! To Join our...

Send a text  In this episode we talk about reconnecting and trust-building after infidelity, where we don't just share our story, but also the essential steps we took to revive the love that once seemed lost. It's an intimate look at the shifts we endured to mend a bond that was frayed, as we candidly discuss the slow dance of rebuilding trust and rediscovering the tender rhythm of our r...

Send a text We really did not like each other a lot during this process. I (Lyndan) had no right to be angry or mean which made me just want to give up. I am not the victim and I was struggling not to be the coward and run away! Vanessa struggled with feeling bad for me cause she knew I was sorry but also not liking me for betraying her trust. At times she wanted me by her side, laying next to her...

Send a text In this episode Vanessa shares her feelings of being lost and feeling like she had nothing. Feeling like she was just a mom and Lyndan's wife. As she is trying to heal she begins to seek validation from other men. This only causes things to get worse in our marriage.  As she spends time with her mentor learning to forgive and grow, she has one foot in a dangerous place allowing fl...

Send a text As we, Lyndan and Vanessa, lay bare the rawest edges of our marriage, we confront the shadows of infidelity and the long, often bumpy road to healing. Our heartfelt discussion offers a glimpse into the emotional aftermath that followed my (Lyndan's) confession of an affair, and how it forced us to face the music, leaning heavily on our faith and the wisdom of our church pastor.  M...

Send a text In this episode Lyndan and Vanessa discuss the unreasonable expectations they had for one another when they first got married. Lyndan expected non stop passion in the bedroom, Vanessa expect a church going husband who prayed for strangers!  With little to no communication the stress of not receiving these unreal expections led to a destructive relation! Lyndan made some horrible choice...

Send a text As you learn more about our back story you will understand why we made so many bad decisions as teenagers that we carried into our marriage. In this episode we talk about the beginning of our relationship, the toxicity, drug use and an unexpected pregnancy. How we broke up then jumped into marriage way to soon.  No guidance, and no clue!  We were two kids trying to raise a kid and we w...

Send a text Ever wondered how childhood experiences can shape your relationships and self-perception? Get ready to be part of an enriching conversation, as we, Vanessa and Lyndan, uncover the profound impact of childhood trauma, exploring deep-rooted stories that have played a significant role in our lives. Listen as Lyndan opens up about growing up without a father and how this absence took a tol...

Send a text On today's first episode, Vanessa shares part of her childhood story . The pain of growing up with parents that fought daily, losing her father at 13 and how that  effected her teenage years.  Please Subscribe! I know we are the first Podcast host to ask you that! Let us know if you have any questions or comments: RemixYourMarriage@gmail.com Help us grow by Becoming a supporter of...

Send a text Have you ever felt like you were just "playing house" in your marriage? Like you were fumbling in the dark, trying to figure out what it meant to be a spouse, a parent, and an adult all at the same time? That's where we, Lyndan and Vanessa, found ourselves as high school sweethearts turned teenage parents. Join us as we peel back the layers of our messy, chaotic, yet ult...