Relationship Truth: Unfiltered

In this episode of "Relationship Truth Unfiltered," join host Julie Sedenko in a powerful conversation with Kim, a courageous woman who shares her story of transformation from a brutally destructive marriage marred by serial infidelity and emotional abuse. Kim's journey of discovering the truth, finding her self-worth, and rebuilding her life offers hope and inspiration to women facing similar cha...

Empowering Survivors and Shining Light: Addressing Abuse in Churches Introduction: Guest: Rachel Denhollander - attorney, author, advocate, educator. Role in exposing sexual abuse, notably Dr. Larry Nassar's abuse in USA Gymnastics. Highlighting the importance of discussing abuse in religious contexts. Rachel's Background: Pursuit of justice against Dr. Larry Nassar. Over 300 survivors, including...

Introduction: The importance of mutual respect and understanding in a partnership. Part 1: Understanding Unhealthy Relationship Dynamics Traditional perspectives on gender roles and submission in relationships. Misconceptions around submission and headship. The danger of oppressive relationships and their impact on women's well-being. The need for women to reclaim their identity and voice. Part 2:...

Disclaimer: The content shared in this episode contains sensitive and potentially triggering topics related to domestic abuse and miscarriage. Listener discretion is advised. 1: The Beginning of the Destructive Marriage Ayana and her current husband met after both having experienced previous failed marriages. They initially appeared to be a perfect match with similar spiritual values, but things c...

Podcast Show Notes: Living in Alignment with Core Values Introduction Importance of living in alignment with core values Definition and significance of core values Discovering Core Values Reflecting on personal beliefs and principles Identifying core values through introspection and self-awareness The Impact of Living in Misalignment Consequences of not honoring core values Recognizing signs of mi...

In this episode of Relationship Truth Unfiltered, Leslie provides valuable insights and guidance for Christian women who find themselves in destructive marriages. Drawing upon her expertise as a counselor and Christian author, Leslie discusses the importance of recognizing destructive patterns, setting healthy boundaries, and seeking personal growth and healing. With a focus on faith and wisdom, s...

Carrie is a brave woman who shares her story of being in a destructive marriage for 26 years and her journey towards healing and finding the strength to leave.   Early Signs Carrie grew up in Canada but moved to California after marrying her American husband. Her husband exhibited controlling behavior from the beginning of their marriage. It's not as great as it sounds Carrie explains complementar...

Welcome to a special edition of Relationship Truth Unfiltered. In this episode, we have a very exciting invitation for all our podcast listeners. Leslie would like to invite you to join a transformative program called Moving Beyond People Pleasing. This program, starting this Monday, July 10th, is designed to help you learn to speak up for yourself and set healthy boundaries. Moving Beyond People...

In this second half of Leslie's interview with Professor Nancy Pearcey, we explore the journey of masculinity throughout history and how it has been shaped by different beliefs and cultures. Professor Pearcey, helps us understand how the worship of many gods and the shift to monotheism affected our understanding of manhood. We also discuss the problem of toxic masculinity and the importance of pro...

Leslie welcomes guest, Nancy Pearcey, author of The Toxic War on Masculinity: How Christianity Reconciles the Sexes , as well as Love Thy Body , The Soul of Science , Saving Leonardo , Finding Truth, and Total Truth . She is professor and scholar in residence at Houston Christian University. She has been quoted in The New Yorker and Newsweek, highlighted as one of the five top women apologists by...

In this episode, we dive into the topic of "Detachment" and explore how detaching can bring freedom and peace in destructive marriages. Understanding Detachment: Leslie defines detachment as the ability to show up as the person you want to be without expecting the other person to meet your expectations. Detachment doesn't mean disconnecting or not caring; it means letting go of the need to control...

In this episode, we are joined by special guest, Jim Cress, an expert in the field of sexual addiction recovery and marriage restoration. Part 1: Understanding Destructive Marriages Leslie and Jim delve into the reality of destructive marriages, especially in the area of sexual addiction, and its impact on individuals and relationships. Jim's shares his personal story and how he came to recovery....

In this powerful episode, join our host, Julie, as she engages in a heartfelt conversation with Katarina, a brave survivor who shares her personal journey of breaking free from an abusive marriage. Together, they explore the challenges Katarina faced, the transformative moments that led her to question her circumstances, and the profound impact of finding hope and healing in the midst of adversity...

In this episode, we explore the theme of why trying harder may not be the most effective approach when facing a destructive marriage. Part 1: Understanding the Reality of Destructive Marriages Differentiating between difficult and destructive marriages. Acknowledging the presence of harmful patterns such as abuse, control, or addiction in destructive marriages. Recognizing the importance of accura...

Title: Relationship Truth Unfiltered: Addressing Domestic Violence in the Church Description: In this episode of Relationship Truth Unfiltered, host Leslie Vernick engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Pastor Dan, discussing the often overlooked issue of domestic violence within Christian marriages and the church. Together, they explore the challenges faced by pastors and church leaders...

Join us on this compelling episode as we dive into Connie's courageous journey of overcoming marriage struggles, finding healing, and experiencing personal growth. Through her candid and heartfelt story, Connie shares the challenges she faced in her marriage, including infidelity, unmet needs, and emotional disconnection. She opens up about her journey of self-discovery and the transformative impa...

Part 1: Understanding Destructive Marriages In this episode, Leslie defines what a destructive marriage is and explains the difference between a difficult marriage and a destructive one.   Part 2: Why It's Not Your Fault Leslie discusses the common misconception that women in destructive marriages are responsible for the behavior of their spouses. She offers insight into how to overcome feelings o...

In this episode of Relationship Truth: Unfiltered, we have a special guest, Neil Schori, a pastor who has dedicated his life to helping victims of abuse find safety and healing in the church. Pastor Neil Schori shares his personal experience counseling Stacy Peterson. Stacy missing shortly after telling Pastor Neil that her husband  had confessed to her that he killed his former wife, Kathleen Sav...

I. Discovering the Betrayal Jayne shares the shock of finding out about her husband's affair Discusses the discovery of additional affairs and a pornography addiction The impact of betrayal trauma on her emotional and mental health II. Coping with the Aftermath The decision to seek marriage counseling The challenge of keeping the situation a secret from family and friends The importance of having...

In this episode Leslie answers these listener questions: So how do you deal with your husband when you remove yourself either to a different room or a walk in the woods or even leaving the house and he tells your that you are just running from your problems. My husband had been verbally and sexually abusing me for years. I told him I want a separation a month and a half  ago l. He finally moved to...

In this episode Leslie talks with best selling author and president of Proverbs 31 Ministries, Lysa TerKeurst.  Lysa’s latest book, “Good Boundaries and Goodbyes,” helps readers stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships by showing them proven ways to set boundaries—and, when necessary, how to say goodbye—without losing the best of who they are. Prepare to hear some very practical advice when...

Subscribe  Apple * Google * Spotify * Amazon * iHeart Laura’s Lessons Learning to be okay with someone who is upset with me instead of trying to fix things. Learning that I couldn’t fix my marriage. I could do my work but I couldn’t do his.  I was realizing that I didn’t like who I was becoming and I wanted to change for myself, regardless of what he did.  My marriage was supposed to be a wonderfu...

He says he's sorry. That you should forgive. But how do you know his words are true, that he won't repeat this sin in the future?  Takeaways: Two questions to ask in order to determine if he's truly sorry: Does he care, through his actions as well as is words, about the impact his sin has on you? Is he committed to change, actively working on himself so that the sin does not repeat itself? How to...

Debbie Laaser knows what it’s like to be blindsided by the sexual sin of her husband. In this episode she not only shares what happened but the story of how she and her late husband, Mark, came to build a ministry to those dealing with sexual sin and the loved ones who are impacted by it. Subscribe  Apple * Google * Spotify * Amazon * iHeart   Takeaways Take care of symptoms. Work first on the tra...

Jessica’s destructive marriage impacted her to the point where she seriously considered suicide. She says kids helped save her life. She had to get them - and herself - to safety.    Subscribe  Apple * Google * Spotify * Amazon * iHeart   Three Takeaways Safety is priority! Get emotionally and physically safe. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is 1-800-799-7233. They offer confidential suppor...