Relationship Transformers

➡️ How to fix your relationship WITHOUT couples therapy: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com — What’s The Episode About: It’s Not Your Fault! We’ve been handed an old & broken relationship paradigm that stopped working DECADES ago… and relationships have been falling apart ever since.  The breakdown in your relationships (all relationships) is NOT your fault (nor your partner’s).  In t...

➡️ How to fix your relationship WITHOUT couples therapy: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com — What’s The Episode About: Have you ever felt like everything around you — movies, social media, and society — insists it takes two to change a relationship?  Couple’s counseling usually backs this idea, but let me tell you… it COULD NOT be farther from the truth! If there’s one thing we’ve proven...

➡️ How to fix your relationship WITHOUT couples therapy: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com — What’s The Episode About: Have you ever felt like no matter what you do, it's NEVER enough to make your partner happy? Or you might be pleasing them at your own expense, and at some point you wonder “what about me?” If this is your reality, and you feel resentment bubbling up…let me be the on...

➡️ How to fix your relationship WITHOUT couples therapy: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com — What’s The Episode About: Ever thought a dog trainer could teach you the secret to a happy relationship? (hehe) Before you run out and grab some puppy treats for your significant other (YIKES!) dive into this episode! There’s been an invisible dynamic happening in your HUMAN relationships… that i...

➡️ How to fix your relationship WITHOUT couples therapy: https://relationshipbreakthroughsecrets.com/ — We’re kicking off SEASON 2 of the Relationship Transformer Podcast with this Episode!  Join Stacey Martino, founder of Relationship Development and inventor of the Relationship Development Method, as she dives into…  What to do when “Love Isn’t Enough” When you feel STUCK because there’s “too mu...

First things first, let’s celebrate the success of the July 2020 Relationship Breakthrough Retreat. This was the first RBR we did online. We reached so many more people than past in-person breakthrough retreats. We delivered multiple breakthroughs, and we were so happy to see people achieve great results. We are reimagining several of our programs to better serve you and we have several releases c...

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share a talk that they recently had with their Relationship U students on what is going on in real life today behind closed doors when couples and families are stuck together because of the COVID-19 related self-quarantining. Paul and Stacey have been working very hard in sharing amazing tools and strategies on what people can do to avoid kerfuffles and all so...

In this episode, Stacey will share part two of her talk on how couples (and parents) can maintain their sanity during these social distancing and self-quarantining times. She will talk about what she sees as two of the most common causes of kerfuffles that are going on right now and how to solve that, and how to deal with the effects of the current pandemic on our lives. She will also dive into ho...

In this episode, Stacey will talk about how couples can maintain their sanity during these social distancing and self-quarantining times where parents have to be at home all day every day with their kids. She recently did training with their RelationshipU students on the same subject and it had immediate phenomenal results for those who applied the tools and strategies they learned in their househ...

In this episode, Stacey will share a recording that she made to talk about pivoting instead of canceling their Breakthrough in Paradise live event in Jamaica. She will talk about the decision that they made to pivot the event, what they will be doing instead, and how they made that decision in confidence and not fear. The live event was planned for next week, and Paul, Stacey, and 120 of their rel...

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a common point of view that most people in a relationship have that negatively affects their relationships without their knowing. And that is the view that they have something figured out more than their partner and so they have to get their partner to subscribe to it too so their relationship can become better.  That’s a common thing that Paul and...

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a dynamic where someone in a relationship gets stuck in the false belief that their way is the right way and that their partner’s way is all wrong. The issue between a couple could be just about anything, but with this dynamic, one partner feels that their way of solving the issue or their perspective on the issue is the correct one while their part...

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a very common complaint that they get from women about how their husbands are too blunt and mean in their conversations, and how that triggers or embarrasses them. Stacey will share the story of one of their relationship transformers who asked them what she should have done when she asked her husband if she could take a certification class for her w...

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the invisible expectations that women have of their partners and the harm they cause their relationships. They will start off by sharing a story from a long time ago of how Stacey ruined their Valentine’s Day. Paul had told Stacey that he would take her out to dinner for Valentine’s when he got back from work, and she was so excited about it. She go...

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will cover part three of busting the myths series, and talk about the “But my partner is …” myths, which are all about how one partner thinks that their partner is keeping them from having their desired relationship because they behave a certain way. Key Points Discussed: Depressed spouses and the dangers of labeling (00:52) Everyone changes at different points in...

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a topic that is literally fundamental to what we think of when we think of relationship struggles. And that is the tendency of taking sides when we re-tell stories or people re-tell stories to us, mostly about terrible situations, either with their partners, or their parents, or somebody at their workplace. And when they tell us, we immediately go r...

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a persistent and repetitive kerfuffle that they used to have often in the car when Paul was driving, and it’s a kerfuffle that a lot of couples can relate to. They’re going to share a clip from their previous three day live immersion event, the Relationship Breakthrough Retreat, where they ended up sharing the story of that kerfuffle in great detail...

This week we are replaying one of our most popular episodes!  In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the invisible force that stops people from living with a relationship development mindset and instead continues to enslave them in a demand relationship mindset. That force blocks people from getting the results that they desire in their relationships and keeps leading them in the wrong d...

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will do part two of the two-part series on relationship development parenting. They will share the second clip from behind scenes of their filming for the Relationship Development Parenting Program that they will be releasing this year. In this particular clip, they addressed the issue of misery in parenting. This is a topic that might ruffle some feathers with a l...

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will do part one of a two part series on relationship development parenting. They teach a lot of tools on how people can stop doing demand parenting with their kids, and start doing relationship development parenting so they can create peaceful harmonious households, build up their relationships with their kids over time, and reduce the kerfuffles that they have of...

In this episode, Stacey will dive into step two of their 10-step planning and strategy day framework, and talk about the thing that keeps us from seeing the biggest version of ourselves and the reason why most goal-setting/strategy setting doesn't actually work. The way most people do their goal setting does not work to create results and it eventually backfires which makes them feel bad, and...

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will share the strategy and planning framework that they use in both their business and personal lives to get results that exceed their expectations every year. They just recently shared the framework with their Relationship U students and they got so much power from it to easily set achievable goals for this new year. So many people do their annual goal setting, b...

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about the Yellow Brick Road, a tool that they created to help people learn how life works, and what is required to move from one level  of life to another. They teach the tool to all their students, and Stacey even taught an expanded version of it to 5,000 entrepreneurs at a Funnel Hacking Live. In the movie, The Wizard of Oz, there is a yellow brick road...

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will answer the question, “What are the strategies for being able to work with your spouse in a way that strengthens your marriage instead of weakening it?” This is something that they get asked a lot because most spouses who work together find it nearly impossible to separate their marriages from their businesses. Most of those spouses end up failing at one of tho...

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about triggers and how to go about them. We all have those moments where we get triggered by our partner, and unfortunately, people don’t know what to do in that moment, and it happens to the best of us. The one thing that’s most important to know is that every single trigger is unique, and therefore requires a unique solution that only we ourselves can c...