Reframed: Shift Your Perspective

A dinner guest once joked to Brian, "So your wife does the grilling around here, huh?" It stung more than he expected — and it's a small window into a much bigger question: what actually makes a man? In part 2 of our series on meaning, identity, and purpose, Dan and Brian use masculinity as a test case: They work through the cultural options on offer — Joe Rogan, "Wild at Heart," war songs at men'...

What are you actually living for? Most of us never stop to answer that — we just keep chasing the next thing hoping it will finally feel like enough. In this episode of Reframed, Pastor Dan Jarms and biblical counselor Brian Sayers trace the ways people search for meaning — in success, pleasure, status, and identity — and why every path eventually runs dry. Then they turn to what the Bible has sai...

If someone you love is struggling with addiction, you already know how exhausting, confusing, and heartbreaking it can be. You want to help — but how do you know when helping becomes hurting? In this episode of Reframed, Pastor Dan Jarms and Biblical Counselor Brian Sayers walk through a practical survival guide for caregivers, family members, and friends of addicts. They unpack what codependency...

Is addiction a disease you're stuck with forever or is real change actually possible? Pastor Dan Jarms and biblical counselor Brian Sayers challenge the narrative that you're defined by your addiction, unpacking what the science actually says about the disease model, why the Bible's language of slavery and bondage is more honest and more hopeful than you might expect, and what the gospel offers th...

In this episode, Dan and Brian unpack the history of ADD/ADHD, how 45 years of research still hasn't found a root cause, and three perspective shifts that can actually help — whether you're a frustrated parent, a struggling student, or an adult who's wondered if the label fits you. Featured Resources: Four Things You Should Know About ADHD Running the Christian Race: Helping the Child Labeled ADD/...

Before pills and therapy, people dealt with depression for thousands of years — and the Bible has a lot to say about it. Pastors Dan Jarms and Brian Sayers walk through the history of depression, how its been diagnosed over the years, what's really behind most of it, and the three conversations you need to have when you feel stuck. Featured Resources: Discipleship Toolbox Find a Biblical Counselor...

Millions are on medication, diagnoses keep rising, and yet anxiety is worse than ever. We explore why modern treatments are falling short and what's been working for thousands of years. Featured Resources:  A-Z Attributes For those in Spokane, sign up for counseling here For those not in Spokane, find a Biblical Counselor Join us for Sunday services at 8:30 and 10:30 am at 440 W. Cora in Spokane,...

We're more connected than ever, yet loneliness is at an all-time high. How did that happen? Join Dan Jarms and Brian Sayers as they unpack why digital connection isn't the same as real relationship, and share four essential strategies for overcoming loneliness and building genuine community. Featured Resources: 12 Ways Your Phone is Changing You by Tony Reinke Help! I'm Lonely by Matt Collier The...

P*rn is everywhere. Trying to stop looking at it might feel impossible, but there is hope! Join Dan Jarms and Brian Sayers as they discuss both practical strategies, and the necessary spiritual foundation for real lasting change. Featured Resource: Faith Bible Church's Discipleship Toolbox Join us for Sunday services at 8:30 and 10:30 am at 440 W. Cora in Spokane, WA. Learn more about our church h...

We all know social media is a problem. In this episode we reframe the issue to bring real hope for change in how we interact with our devices and share three steps you can take to improve your relationship with social media, and one foundational truth that you must understand in taking these steps. Featured Resource: Redeem Time in the Age of TikTok by Joe Carter Join us for Sunday services at 8:3...