Recovery of You (ROY)

Being cheated on doesn’t just hurt… it changes how you see yourself, your relationships, and even your future. In this video, I’m walking you through 6 real steps to help you truly heal after betrayal—not just move on, but rebuild from a place of clarity, strength, and purpose. Because healing isn’t just about what happened to you… It’s about who you become because of it. If you’ve been carrying t...

Being cheated on doesn’t just hurt… it changes you. But what many people don’t realize is that the impact of cheating goes deeper than the betrayal itself. It can affect how you see yourself, how you trust, and even how you show up in your life moving forward. In this video, we’re talking about the spiritual side effects of being cheated on—and how what felt like devastation may actually be part o...

If you are currently in a single season, this may be one of the most important seasons of your life. Singles Led in Purpose is a faith-based personal development and empowerment program designed for single women and men who want to grow with clarity, wisdom, and confidence. This is not a matchmaking or dating program. Instead, it is a transformational journey focused on discovering who you are, st...

Have you ever realized that the person you’ve been abandoning… is yourself? Many of us are taught to sacrifice, give, and show up for everyone else — but no one teaches us how easily we can lose ourselves in the process. Self-abandonment often happens quietly through our choices, relationships, responsibilities, and even our desire to be a good person. In this video, I talk about some of the most...

There comes a point in life where you realize… You can no longer keep putting everything and everyone before yourself. Not your job. Not your relationships. Not your responsibilities. Because when you continuously place yourself last, you don’t just become tired… you begin to lose connection with who you are. In this video, we’re talking about what it really means to choose yourself — not from a p...

Are you struggling to find joy in your single season? In a world that often equates marriage with fulfillment, singleness can feel confusing, isolating, or even forgotten. But the truth is — God has not forgotten you. Your life is not on pause, and this season is not empty. In this powerful, scripture-based teaching, we walk through biblical verses that will help you trust God’s timing, surrender...

What does it truly mean to be single — and joyful? In a culture that often equates marriage with success and singleness with lack, this conversation offers a different perspective. In this deeply personal episode, I open my heart to share why I am single at 38, what this season has taught me, and the intentional work required to develop into the person God is calling you to be. Singleness is not a...

In this next teaching of the Grace series, we are addressing what happens when God’s warnings and correction are ignored. Scripture is clear that correction is not punishment—it is protection. When grace and correction are repeatedly rejected, the Bible calls this foolishness, and foolishness always comes with consequences. In this episode, we walk through biblical Scripture to understand how igno...

In Part 2 of this series on God’s grace, we are diving into the connection between grace and correction, and why the two can never be separated. Many people desire God’s grace, but few understand that correction is one of the greatest expressions of that grace.  In this episode, we explore the spiritual difference between correcting someone who is truly seeking God’s way and warning someone who is...

Many people speak about God’s grace, but few truly understand what it is and what it is not. Grace is not permission to continue in sin, ignore correction, or live outside of God’s order while expecting His protection and blessing. In this episode, we are breaking down the true purpose of God’s grace and the consequences of not taking heed. It is so important that we understand that a grace period...

Jealousy and envy are not harmless emotions — they are spiritual seeds that, if left unchecked, can slowly destroy your peace, relationships, and God-given purpose. In this episode, we break down how jealousy and envy are formed in the heart, why they take root when a person lacks clarity about their identity and calling, and how these destructive emotions played a role in the downfall of P. Diddy...

If you’re ready to stop living on autopilot and start intentionally elevating your life in 2026, this video is for you. This is your invitation to rise, grow, and step into the highest version of yourself—with clarity, confidence, and empowerment. In this video, I walk you through 8 powerful ways to elevate your life in 2026, along with reflection questions designed to help you shift your mindset,...

This video explores the critical role parents play in developing a child’s God-given gifts and purpose. From a faith-based perspective, it explains how parents help shape a child’s identity, spiritual alignment, and understanding of how God uniquely created and wired them. Using the life of P. Diddy as a case study, this teaching examines how a lack of healthy purpose development in childhood can...

In today's video we are going to examine the spiritual side effects of pride, jealousy, and unchecked power through a spiritual case study of P. Diddy’s life and influence. From a faith-based perspective, this video explores how pride and jealousy can open the door to deeper sin, leading individuals further away from God’s design for their purpose. Rather than judgment, this message is rooted...

Sometimes the real battle is not with others, but with how we love ourselves. In today’s video we’re talking about why loving yourself first is the foundation of self-worth, relationships, and even your connection with God. When you learn to honor who you are, value your voice, and treat yourself with love, the way you show up in life begins to shift. Your standards rise. The love you accept chang...

How Self-Love Is the Key to Healthy Relationships & Purpose! We often hear “love yourself,” but many people never learned what that truly means. Self-love is not a luxury, a spa day, or a moment of pampering — it is the daily stewardship of your mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical well-being. It’s the way you speak to yourself, the standards you uphold, the boundaries you honor, and the...

In today’s video, we’re talking about something so many people are facing right now: layoffs, career changes, uncertainty, and the pressure to define yourself by what you do. But here’s the truth: your job is not your identity — and it is not your purpose.  God knows exactly what you’re facing. Nothing is happening without His permission. And this season may be the very door He uses to pull out th...

If you’ve been praying, hoping, or working toward change… but your life still looks the same, this video is for you. Today, we’re breaking some reasons "why" your life may not be changing. Sometimes the reason you feel stuck isn’t because God isn’t moving… It’s because there are hidden habits, patterns, and mindsets blocking the very change you’ve been asking for and until you confront t...

If you’ve been feeling pulled away from your calling, constantly drained, or unable to focus on what God told you to do — this isn’t by accident. Distractions are one of the enemy’s greatest strategies to keep believers stuck, stagnant, and questioning what God clearly placed inside of them. In this video, we’re exposing the purpose-killing distractions that look harmless, familiar, and sometimes...

So many people are stuck replaying the pain of their past, not realizing that God can use that very pain to bring healing — not just to them, but to others. There’s purpose in your story.  In this video, we’re talking about how your healing and purpose are connected. When you allow God to heal those wounds, your pain becomes your testimony, as well as a light to guide others through the darkness. ...

Somewhere along the path of life, we tend to forget who we truly are…  Life happened. Disappointment, fear, and distraction tend to make our life dim and unconsciously cause us to dim our own light. But today, I’m here to remind you — the power God placed inside of you never left. It’s just been buried under the things you were never meant to carry. In this video, we will discuss how to get your p...

If you’ve been feeling lost, empty, or unsure about what you’re supposed to be doing with your life — this video is for you. Sometimes we get so caught up chasing stability, success, or survival that we forget to ask ourselves very important questions. In this message, we’ll talk about how your divine purpose is often hidden inside the very things that burden your spirit. ✨ New to the ROY family?...

Are you feeling stuck, uncertain, or questioning what God is calling you to do with your life? You’re not alone. Many believers mistake spiritual warfare for self-doubt — but what feels like confusion in your mind is often a battle for your purpose. Sometimes what you think is doubt is actually spiritual warfare. When you begin walking in your God-given purpose, the enemy will do everything he can...

Have you ever felt like something was off—emotionally, mentally, even physically—but couldn’t explain why? You’re not crazy, and it’s not just life. Many of the battles we face aren’t mental, they’re spiritual. In this video, we’re breaking down 17 spiritual complications that often show up when you don’t know your God-given purpose. From depression and burnout, to toxic relationships and repeatin...

If everything in your life feels off — your peace, your focus, your passion — it may not just be life happening… it may be a spiritual battle for your purpose. In this episode, we’ll talk about how the enemy uses the people closest to you, as well as confusion, depression, and distraction to try and pull you away from how God created you. When you don’t understand “Why you were created and who you...