Carla Shellis, Michelle Calderon

Really Feminine

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The Really Feminine Podcast — where Carla Shellis, joined by Michelle, answers all of your questions about everyday etiquette, hosting tips, emotional etiquette, and so much more. Each episode includes Tea Time , a special segment where you send in your questions, and we spill the tea with advice and insights to help you live gracefully and confidently. Tune in for practical guidance, heartfelt conversations, and a touch of feminine charm.

Author

Carla Shellis, Michelle Calderon

Category

Arts

Podcast website

www.carlashellis.com

Latest episode

Nov 18, 2025

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Episodes

Amber Duncan: Life After Debt: Empowering Women to Master Money 18.11.2025

Join Amber Duncan, founder of Life After Debt , as she shares her expertise on breaking free from financial struggles and creating lasting financial freedom. In this empowering episode, Amber, Carla, and Michelle  have an open conversation about getting out of debt, staying out of debt, and navigating the unique financial challenges women face. We dive into topics like balancing success and femini...

Madison Yezak: Becoming a Wife, Embracing Femininity, and Healing From the Past 11.11.2025

Marriage has opened a new chapter for Madison Yezack, one filled with peace, purpose, and deeper confidence in who she is as a woman. In this heartfelt episode, she reflects on the beauty of embracing her feminine side and the power of no longer accepting what doesn’t align with her worth. This is a conversation about becoming softer without losing strength, and loving yourself enough to choose be...

Jane Gonzalez: Finding Faith and Redefining Femininity After Loss of a Spouse 04.11.2025

After losing her husband, Jane Gonzalez found herself standing in the middle of heartbreak, faced with the reality of starting over. In this deeply emotional episode, she opens up about her journey through grief, widowhood, and rediscovering her identity as a woman walking through loss. Jane shares how she’s finding peace, purpose, and strength again: learning to love her life in new ways while ho...

Alyssa Hidalgo: How to Build Rhythms That Work For You and Your Family 28.10.2025

Life with ADHD, homeschooling, and healthy living isn’t about perfection— it’s about rhythm. Alyssa Hidalgo shares her journey and the simple systems that help her family flourish. With her Spark Program, a 7-step rhythm for moms craving peace, purpose, and community, Alyssa brings honest stories, helpful routines, and hope to every episode. Whether you’re navigating motherhood, mental load, or mo...

Dr. Doug Weiss: Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity and Addiction 21.10.2025

On this episode of The Really Feminine Podcast , we sit down with Dr. Doug Weiss, a renowned Licensed Psychologist, relationship expert, and Executive Director of Heart-to-Heart Counseling Center in Colorado Springs, to discuss the challenging yet transformative topics of infidelity, addiction, betrayal recovery, marriage counseling, and emotional healing. With over three decades of experience hel...

Laura Lentz: Rebuilding with Intention After Infidelity and Addiction 14.10.2025

In this emotional and inspiring podcast episode, Laura Lentz shares her powerful story of rebuilding her life after infidelity, betrayal, and addiction. She opens up about the pain of broken trust, the challenges of walking through addiction recovery, and the courage it takes to create a life rooted in healing, self-discovery, and intention. Laura’s journey is a testament to the resilience of wome...

12, The Feminine Guide to Boundaries: Tech, Family & Toxicity 19.08.2025

This week on Really Feminine , we’re talking about how to stay gracious and poised even when life gets messy. From practicing proper technology etiquette in a world that’s always online, to our Tea Time chats about the sting of not being invited to a family wedding, handling an overbearing grandmother with a newborn, and learning how to level your expectations when toxic people keep letting you do...

11, Graceful Entrances, Elegant Exits & Escaping Pit Dwellers 12.08.2025

 In this episode of Really Feminine , Carla and Michelle share the art of arriving at and leaving a party in a way that leaves a lasting, graceful impression. They’ll also unpack how to spot the “pit dwellers” in your life, the people who pull you into negativity, and how to step away without guilt. Finally, join them for Tea Time , where they answer your personal questions and offer heartfelt, fe...

10, Manners, Marriage & Mindset Shifts 05.08.2025

 In Etiquette, we’re talking restaurant manners, how to dine with dignity, handle the check like a pro, and tip with confidence. In Tea Time, Carla dives into two raw and real struggles: the ache of a wife who feels invisible in her own home, and a woman exhausted from always saying yes.. And in Emotional Etiquette, it’s time to stop reliving the past and start reshaping your future, because your...

9 , Buds in the Ground & Boundaries in the Room 29.07.2025

This week on Freedom Formula , we dig into how to stop repeating the same toxic cycles in relationshps. In Tea Time , Carla shares her advice on dealing with a difficult mother-in-law, and the freedom found in boundaries. This weeks Etiquette segment, focusing on how to introduce yourself with confidence, maintain composure, and build strong, graceful first impressions. To support the mission of B...

8, Let It Marinate: Presence, Poise & Professionalism 22.07.2025

Just like a good recipe, life requires time to marinate. The Freedom Formula invites you to slow down and absorb truth. In Tea Time, we reflect on presence and preparation. Then, in Etiquette, we explore poise in professional settings, maintaining femininity in authority, and setting boundaries at work.    To support the mission of Bochy’s Org.- Bochys.org (https://bochys.org)     •   To register...

7, Breaking Free from the Trap of Offense + The Art of Being a Gracious Guest 15.07.2025

This week, Freedom Formula explores “Skandalon”—the ancient word for offense and how it keeps us stuck. During Tea Time, Carla sips through insights on emotional freedom. In Etiquette, we define what makes a perfect guest, what to bring as a hostess gift, and why these small gestures carry deep meaning.   To support the mission of Bochy’s Org.- Bochys.org (https://bochys.org)     •   To register f...

6, Travel, Tension & Togetherness: Navigating Life with Grace 08.07.2025

 Ever feel like your relationships are out of sync? Freedom Formula discusses attempts to balance imbalanced connections. Tea Time centers around travel and adaptability. And in Etiquette , we cover global and cultural etiquette, how to be a respectful guest, and how to manage shared travel gracefully—even under stress.   To support the mission of Bochy’s Org.- Bochys.org (https://bochys.org)    ...

ADHD as a Superpower: Michael Shellis on School Struggles, Strengths & Self-Acceptance 01.07.2025

In this powerful episode, Michael Shellis opens up about his journey with ADHD, from the challenges he faced in school to discovering how it became one of his greatest strengths. If you or someone you love has ever felt “too much” or misunderstood, this conversation will encourage you to reframe that narrative. Michael shares how Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder impacted his education, con...

5, The Power of Gratitude: Perspective, Presence & Politeness 24.06.2025

This episode’s Freedom Formula is all about shifting your perspective. In Tea Time , Carla opens up about practicing gratitude in daily life. Our Etiquette segment focuses on intentional thankfulness—from writing heartfelt notes to the right way to respond to thoughtful gifts and gestures.   To support the mission of Bochy’s Org.- Bochys.org (https://bochys.org)     •   To register for The Experie...

4, Activating Your Feminine Fibers: Relationships, Respect, and Radiance 17.06.2025

How do you embody and activate your feminine fibers? Freedom Formula breaks it down. Tea Time offers Carla and Michelle’s thoughts on dealing with controlling mom friends and strained Mother, Daughter relationships. In Etiquette , we explore how dressing reflects self-respect, guidelines for formal and casual events, and being feminine and modest.    To support the mission of Bochy’s Org.- Bochys....

3, Holding Space & Holding Boundaries: A Conversation on Family, Etiquette, and Emotions 10.06.2025

Freedom Formula introduces the Hula Hoop Magnetic Field, a tool for understanding your emotional boundaries. In Tea Time , Carla and Michelle answer listener questions on family members asking what a listeners inheritance from his father is and another listener asks about what to do about a daughter in law that only wants to spend time with her side of the family. Then, in Etiquette , we tackle ho...

2, From Friendships to Flatware: Navigating Relationships and the Dinner Table 03.06.2025

This week’s Freedom Formula unpacks the levels of friendship, how to recognize them, and why they matter. During Tea Time , Carla and Michelle share their thoughts on listener questions. The Etiquette segment walks through formal dining basics: which utensil to use, BMW, and napkin etiquette. To support the mission of Bochy’s Org.- Bochys.org (www.bochys.org) To register for The Experience England...

1, From Survival To Freedom: Living In The Pink Zone 27.05.2025

 In this episode of Really Feminine, during Carla’s Freedom Formula, we explore the difference between living in the Pink Zone (freedom) versus the Red Zone (survival). During Tea Time , Carla and Michelle answer the listener's questions about how to tell a friend they have halitosis and address a mom struggling to connect with her daughter. In our Etiquette segment, we dive into the art of h...

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