Realistically Living

Many of us are trying to change our choices without ever addressing our identity. In this episode, we explore how the way you see yourself directly shapes what you desire, what you tolerate, and ultimately what you choose. Rooted in Colossians 3:5–10, this teaching unpacks the difference between behavior modification and true spiritual transformation—putting off the old self and putting on the new...

We often make decisions thinking they belong to the moment—but Scripture tells a different story. Choices don’t stay where they’re made. They travel into seasons, relationships, responsibilities, and spiritual maturity. In this episode, I’m joined by a pastor and dear sister in Christ as we talk honestly about the ripple effects of our decisions—how choices made in one season can surface in anothe...

As 2025 comes to a close, this episode is a pause — not to rush into goals, but to reflect honestly on growth, mistakes, patterns, and the quiet work God has been doing beneath the surface. In Before 2025 Ends, I share my word for 2026: maturity — and what that truly means beyond age, titles, or how long we’ve “been in church.” This isn’t about perfection. It’s about responsibility, self-awareness...

life has been on a rollercoaster lately — but God. His mercy and grace literally carries us and i am a witness of that. social media FB : Narkelia Carr-McCann IG : @NarkeliaMcCann

what do we do when life falls apart? who do we become when comfort is stripped away? in a world that pulls up back into familiar patterns, God is calling us forward into faith! Ruth 1:16 - "But Ruth replied: "Don't urge me to leave you..your God will be my God."

You probably clicked this thinking you were about to hear some juicy details about an affair. But here’s the truth— adultery isn’t just physical.  I committed adultery in my  mind, heart, and actions  when I ran back to old mindsets, tried to toe the line with my past habits, and chose self over sanctification. Marriage isn’t just about love and companionship—it’s a  tool God uses to refine us, ex...

In this deeply personal episode, I open up about a pivotal moment in my marriage when I came clean to my husband about the residue of my past life that was still present and affecting us. I share how this residue consumed emotional capacity, creating a barrier to genuine emotional connection with my husband. The Lord convicted me after watching the movie "Parallel", revealing how I was attempting...

Have you ever prayed for something and felt like life took a turn in a completely unexpected direction? In this episode, I share my personal experience of hiring a personal trainer and how the exercises she gave me caused unexpected pain in areas I wasn’t focused on. It’s a powerful analogy for how God sometimes works in our lives—addressing areas we didn’t expect in order to prepare us for the br...

Join me and my lovely husband,Benjamin, as we talk about God's love and how it manifest in our lives as individuals as well as our marriage.

In this heartfelt episode, I share a personal story about planning my husband's birthday and how God used this experience to teach me a profound lesson about love. I realized that I was trying to express my love through material possessions, thinking that gifts and grand gestures would communicate the depth of my feelings. But God showed me that love goes beyond what we can give or do—it's about t...

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Stop striking the rock & speak to it. Listen as I reveal to you what the Holy Spirit allowed me to see as I read and studied Numbers 20. I pray that this revelation penetrate your heart to jumpstart your healing . Connect with us by emailing us info@realisticallyliving.com Wish to support this podcast by donating? Here's our cashapp : $RLPod Grace. Peace. Love

whew, 2024 had been a HELL OF A RIDE! and God had been so good through it all. earlier this month, I got married to the man who was strategically made for me. here's our story! Be sure to leave a rating and review! We'd love to hear from you. Connect with us! email : info@realisticallyliving.com

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Ephesians 6:12 12  For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. - grace. peace. love. - to support this podcast, visit https://linktr.ee/RealisticallyLiving - subscribe to the YouTube channel fam!

John 16:12-15 MSG 12-15  “I still have many things to tell you, but you can’t handle them now. But when the Friend comes, the Spirit of the Truth, he will take you by the hand and guide you into all the truth there is. He won’t draw attention to himself, but will make sense out of what is about to happen and, indeed, out of all that I have done and said. He will honor me; he will take from me and...

Psalm 139:23-14 23  Search me, O God, and know my heart!     Try me and know my thoughts! 24  And see if there be any grievous way in me,     and lead me in the way everlasting! what's your toxic trait? - grace. peace. love. - to support this podcast, click here https://linktr.ee/RealisticallyLiving  -  follow us on IG :@realsitically.living

Ecclesiastes 3:1 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven - grace. peace. love. - to support this podcast, click here https://linktr.ee/RealisticallyLiving  -  follow us on IG :@realsitically.living

Matthew 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you - grace. peace. love. - to support this podcast, click here https://linktr.ee/RealisticallyLiving  -  follow us on IG :@realsitically.living

Isaiah 43:19 “Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.”  - grace. peace. love. - to support this podcast, click here https://linktr.ee/RealisticallyLiving  -  follow us on IG :@realsitically.living

hebrews 12:1-2 "Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith." - grace. peace. love. - to support this podcast, click here https://linktr.ee/RealisticallyLiving  -...