RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay!

Meet Mutt (by Nature), he/him, cis-gay/queer guy. He has been clean and sober for over 12 years. He is also a sober fister and do that without poppers, although he should say chem sex was never my thing. He got sober via AA but haven’t been in a few years now, instead opting for therapy to keep him moving forwards. Therapy also played a part in establishing a sober sex life. He has lived in Berlin...

JeFF was born and raised in Colorado. He went back to school in 2013 to earn a chemical and biological engineering degree. He works in process development for a biotech pharmaceutical company. He has been part of the leather and kink community off and on for 17 years. He is Mr. Leather Colorado 2023 and will compete at IML this year. He is a proud sober leatherman with a passion for kink, fisting,...

Tyler is a kinkster living on the east coast of Canada. Kink and fetish have always been a part of his life and has evolved over the years, including the decision in 2019 to take a hard look at his use of substances in relation to sex, relationships and his life in general. Outside of kink, he loves to surf and snowboard, hiking, languages and being outside as much as possible. Instagram: @tytysur...

Saba aka Princepunk has been sober since 2006. French American, born in France and became an American citizen after a career as a professional dancer and comedian. Was introduced to leather and bdsm over 30 years ago, and lives his kinky life sober and happy. Photo by @leatherrubber75 Homepage: princepunk.com Instagram: @princepunkmaster X (Twitter): @THEPrincePunk Snapchat: sabaprincepunk Iron Wo...

Ben is born and raised and living in Liverpool. Married to Jon, who is a writer.  Ben discovered kink and leather at a young age and gradually explore it over many years. He is a dom/top and into a wide variety of kinks. His main fetishes is leather and skin gear. Ben is also an artist, He exhibits nationallly and internationally on a regular basis. His work encompasses a wide varie...

Bull is a 30 y/o piggy fucker from Atlanta, GA. He has been sober for two years, and facilitate meetings for The Satanic Temple's sober faction, where he is also a Minister. He is into damn near anything piggy, and love showing off his escapades. He has been producing events for over a decade now, but navigating that world sober has been a fun new challenge these past two years. Instagram: @bull.s...

Discover the journey of Stu Fenton, a seasoned Gestalt Psychotherapist and Chemsex Specialist, on our podcast. With 18+ years in addiction treatment and a deep commitment to the LGBT+ community, Stuart shares insights from global programs and ongoing advocacy efforts. As he studies Social Work in Berlin, join us to explore Stuart’s transformative work and innovative approaches to Chemsex challenge...

Erik is a 37, American bred and Berlin based. Currently on his path to a PhD in educational leadership, he is also navigating a very personal journey. This weekend coincides with Berlin’s leather week, a time that’s particularly resonant for him as it marks his first anniversary of embracing a substance-free lifestyle. This milestone is significant as he delve deeper into understanding his sexuali...

Andrés is the chairman of the board of Chemfriendly Norway. A user- and peer organisation for queers and sex workers affected by illegal drug use. He is an exhibitionist publishing amateur porn and has a positive attitude towards sex. Instagram: @mitthomoeventyr Instagram: @chemfriendly_norge Facebook: www.facebook.com/Chemfriendly Homepage: Chemfriendly.no #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music...

Miguel was born in Madrid, Spain. He is 42 years old and is a Civil Engineer. He moved to Sweden 🇸🇪 10 years ago and work for a Fintech company. He is into sport, healthy living, cooking and travelling. You probably have seen in some cool pictures on Instagram, now it is time to meet the real person. Instagram: @leather_crossfiter #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS R...

Mao is 34 years old, he is happily engaged, he meet his fiancé in Berlin. He works in IT development, Mao is sport oriented, a geek and a nerd at hearth. He has been sober for 3.5 years. He is a sober pig trying to share his story, help others and continue exploring his sexual life in a city like Berlin. Instagram: @nonamefckrbln X (Twitter): @nonamefckrbln Gay Romeo: nonamefckrbln #RealClearFetis...

Guy is a leatherman, writer, mentor and certified coach in the community. He coaches people to tap into their inner resources to find powerful ways to confront their ‘demons’, so you can stomp your boots wherever you - with clarity - and pride. RealClearFetish talks RealClearLiving Instagram: @theleathercoach BLUF: 515 Email: coach@bluf.email #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay #RealClearFetishTalk...

Micheal, alt name is Orson the Pig Farmer. He is 32, living in Columbus Ohio, USA. He works in a factory, and is currently in school to become a web developer. He was always on the kinkier side of things, really leaning into the try anything a few times, and he rarely just didn’t like something. But that led him into the arms of addiction with crystal meth, of which he struggled with for 6-7 years...

Marcus Barela is a Mexican Texan who’s ready for some sexin! He’s been a member of the Eagle LA staff for 18 years and preparing to be a UCLA student studying Spanish and Queer Studies. He is Eagle LA Mr. Leather 2023, and International Mister Leather 2023.  Marcus is a proud sober leather man. He keeps centered through Tarot and Astrology and the cultivation of magic he believes we all share...

M has recently gone alcohol free, two years now. Occasional drag queen, Lover of certain fetishes and singer (definitely not Pavarotti!). He is now retired and living on the north west coast of Ireland 🇮🇪. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 17 March 2023 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/kpZ9df8WPMM Hosted on Acas...

Miles is a sober leather kink man in his 50s from San Francisco California. Currently living in Los Angeles. He has been clean and sober since 1991. He has been part of the queer sober community and Leather communities in both cities since the 80s. While growing up in San Francisco, he was mentored by many gay men who are no longer with us due to the aids epidemic. Being an artist, he has been abl...

Jim is a queer leatherman, musician, and athlete living in Memphis, TN, USA. He's practices sobriety from all alcohol for 2 years, and through sobriety, he's found a more genuine expression of himself. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 24 February 2023 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Y8rc3OlUwFE Hosted on Acast...

FJ has navigated the gay, kink, club, bar, gym, online, and hookup cultures on two continents for the last thirty years without drugs or alcohol. Known as RuffTankTop in the kink scene, he is notorious for both his voracious appetites and his direct observations, including on what chems bring to our culture. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 17...

Hagen is a sober kink pig from Berlin, Germany. He is clean and sober from chemsex for about 5 years. After a recovery break of several years, he started his journey into clearheaded kink, fetish, and pigginess in 2022. Involvement in Berlin's queer 12-step-community, fetish socials as well as community work have been the base of his recovery, today he experiments with adult content. #RealClearFet...

Lez is 12 years clean in march and he found the kink scene after he got sober. He is lucky enough to work in the treatment services and this has helped him build a strong recovery. Picture by N Z Page #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 3 February 2023 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/lw5cQn7_U0w Hosted on Acast....

UK based Rubber and Leather Daddy, just marked his 1st anniversary clean from recreational drugs, after losing his drug sobriety back in 2021, but now back on track. Non active advocate for non consensual Image Abuse/Revenge Porn in the LGBTQ community and founder of the LGBTQ Image Abuse Survivors website. For more information about Image Abuse Survivors - Homepages:  www.lgbtqimageabusesurv...

Chris is a UK based reformed pig, (some may call him SPAM!). He has been clean and sober over 4 years. His recovery journey has moved him further away from the fetish scene, but he still has an interest in FF and Role Play. He is an active member of Sober Gay Socials bringing the sober LGBTQ+ community together in Manchester. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Releas...

Special Q&A episode with me as the one being asked the questions, so you can lean a little bit about me. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 14 January 2023 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/SoPd_gq6wZA Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Race Bannon has been an organizer, writer, educator, speaker, and activist in the LGBTQ, leather/kink, polyamory, and HIV/STI prevention realms since 1973. He is an author, widely published writer, active speaker, community organizer and project leader, and has received numerous national and local awards, the most recent being the Palm Springs Pride 2021 Spirit of Stonewall Lifetime Achievement Aw...

Edge is a sober leatherman and educator with a long and storied life in both the online and offline leather communities. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 13 August 2022 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/V_WhEFZuJLE Check out his podcast Full Cow - https://open.spotify.com/show/5r5fHW4o8dtPXiNquTGcXP?si=iJKXKHqnT...