Steve and Lo Messam

Real Talk with Steve and Lo

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Real Talk with Steve & Lo is a faith-based podcast equipping believers to build strong, godly relationships—with real talk and real results. Hosted by husband and wife Steve & Lomiekia “Lo” Messam, this podcast creates a safe, honest space for conversations about marriage, dating, parenting, friendships, grief, growth, and the everyday work of love. With transparency, biblical truth, and lived experience, Steve & Lo share what it really takes to fight for the covenant, communicate with grace, and keep God at the center through every season. Because real love takes real work—and real faith.

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Steve and Lo Messam

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Why Unforgiveness Is Destroying Your Relationship (And What the Bible Says to Do About It) 21.03.2026 1:11:35

Forgiveness is one of the hardest things you'll ever do in a relationship. But unforgiveness? It destroys from the inside out — slowly, silently, and completely. In Episode 3 of Real Talk with Steve & Lo, we get honest about what forgiveness REALLY is (and what it's NOT), what the Bible says about it, and how to actually walk it out — even when the hurt is deep. We cover: ✅ Why unforg...

Welcome to Real Talk with Steve & Lo | Faith, Love & Real Relationships 19.03.2026 1:16

Welcome to Real Talk with Steve & Lo — where we equip believers to build strong, godly relationships with real talk and real results. We're Steve & Lomiekia "Lo" Messam, and we've been married for over 20 years. We've walked through love, loss, grief, healing, parenting, and growth together — and we're here to share what we've learned with you. This channel is...

Faith Over Feelings: Why Love Needs More Than Emotion 21.01.2026 1:05:58

Feelings are real—but they were never meant to lead our relationships. In this episode of Real Talk with Steve & Lo , we have an honest, faith-centered conversation about why feelings-led love often fails and why faith-led love lasts. We unpack how culture defines love, how social media normalizes broken relationship patterns, and why “if it feels right” is not a biblical foundation for love....

The Lessons That Kept Us Married: 22 Years Later 05.01.2026 58:09

Special Anniversary Edition What keeps a marriage standing after 22 years? In this special anniversary episode, Steve & Lo share the real story behind their journey—through love, loss, grief, growth, and grace. This isn’t a highlight reel or a how-to formula. It’s an honest conversation about the hard-earned lessons that kept them committed when feelings faded, seasons got heavy, and faith h...