Real Mother Fuckers

Vanessa and Steph talk about working, before and during motherhood. Have some tea while they spill the tea on... pumping milk-filled boobs in public places, changing careers, working crazy hours, and feelings of value and worth. A 2022 report by the US Bureau of Labor Statistics found that the percentage of women participating in the workforce (working or looking for work) has fallen to 56.2 perce...

This one is deep. Vanessa and Steph explore their rich family histories, how they were parented, and their approach to mothering from what they learned from their parents. Both come from immigrant households but have very different family stories. They explore intergenerational trauma and what they learned from their childhood. This episode features a few surprise guests: Steph’s cat, Nala, and Va...

Becoming a mom can feel like an identity crisis. Vanessa and Steph get real about the struggles with who they were before becoming moms and their evolving view of their identities after having babies and raising little humans. They talk about what they “should have” felt as new moms vs. their realities. It ain’t easy, says everyone! But you know what? You don’t understand the depth of mothering un...

Vanessa and Steph get real about sex, changing body parts after baby, sex after baby, pooping while giving birth, and lots more. Vanessa talks about her hot sex life while Steph reminds us to touch our partners everyday because sometimes couples forget this in the midst of the parenting chaos. FOLLOW US: realmotherfuckerspodcast Vanessa Anderson Stephanie Jucar Cooley DISCLAIMER: This podcast has...

Being a mom can feel isolating even though you’re always surrounded by little humans, or partners, or animals, and piles of laundry. It’s why moms need friends! Steph and Vanessa explore all the different types of friendships, especially mom friends. They explore good friends, bleh friends, and what they look for in friendships.  They discuss the 18 different types of friends , a fun list of frien...

How many times have you put too much on your plate? Are you guilty of the rushy-rushy crime? Steph talks about how a class pizza party was too dang much while Vanessa gives you permission to take a pause and slow the F down. They also reveal their truths about summer camps, activities outside the home, saying no to playdates and birthday parties. Vanessa talks about this article and a great resour...

New podcast, who dis? Vanessa Anderson and Stephanie Cooley are friends, moms and co-hosts of the Real Mother Fuckers. Will you join them for tea talk? You’ll learn a heck of a lot more about them in each episode but you can get a sneak peek of who these ladies are here.  FOLLOW US: Realmotherfuckerspodcast CREDITS: This episode was edited by the geriatric millennial, your co-host, Vanessa Anderso...

Hi mamas! We are working on a podcast about motherhood. Will you come hang out? We will release our first episodes on Mother's Day. Stay tuned!