Real Influence w/ Joey Vaillancourt

There's a point where personal development stops helping and starts keeping you stuck. In this episode, Joey opens up about a pattern he's seen in himself over the past year: the urge to find one more coach, one more breakthrough, one more framework, one more answer. On the surface, it looks like growth. But underneath, it can become something else entirely — avoidance. If you've been stuck in sel...

Most people don't wait until the end of life to discover what's important. They simply wait too long to act on what they've known all along. Inspired by Bronnie Ware's The Five Regrets of the Dying, this episode explores the hidden pattern behind the most common life regrets and why so many ambitious people unknowingly build lives around expectations instead of intention. If you've been caught in...

It's 9 PM. You told yourself you'd be done hours ago. But you're still answering messages, checking one more thing, handling one more problem, and convincing yourself that this season is temporary. For many entrepreneurs and high performers, the issue isn't a lack of discipline. It's not poor time management. It's a subconscious pattern that equates being needed with being valuable. In this episod...

Why do some comments stay with us for years while others roll right off our backs? In this episode, Joey Vaillancourt explores the hidden reason feedback feels so personal and why criticism often triggers something much deeper than the conversation itself. Using a personal story about receiving difficult workplace feedback, Joey breaks down the beliefs, emotions, and unconscious patterns that shap...

What happens when the person teaching the tools becomes the one struggling to use them? In this episode of the Real Influence podcast, I sit down with my wife, Monika, for a raw and unfiltered live coaching session on overwhelm, anxiety, burnout, and suffering. Instead of speaking from the other side of the breakthrough, I open up in real time about feeling mentally overloaded, emotionally exhaust...

Most high performers aren't lacking discipline. They're carrying pressure. In this episode, Joey breaks down the hidden emotional pattern behind pressure-driven discipline — and why success can quietly disconnect you from your life if you're not careful. This conversation explores how many entrepreneurs and high achievers build their identity around sacrifice, proving themselves, and delaying life...

Most high performers aren't overwhelmed by life itself. They're overwhelmed by what they think life means about them. In this episode of Real Influence, Joey Vaillancourt breaks down the hidden pattern that creates constant pressure—even when things are going well and why success doesn't feel the way you expected it to. You'll learn the difference between pain and suffering, how subconscious patte...

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