RAW: Relationships Are Work

This episode explores the deep ache of feeling like an outsider, how that identity can form from past rejection, and why those thoughts aren't necessarily the truth. Host Tara offers practical reframes and steps—focus on one-on-one connections, pause and check assumptions, speak up and invite others, practice extroverted behaviors, and consider therapy or journaling—while grounding hope in faith a...

This episode explores the patient–doctor relationship, especially when long history or embarrassment keeps you from being fully honest. It highlights how withholding information harms care, when to advocate for yourself, and when it’s okay to find a new provider. Host Tara offers practical questions to reflect on and an action step: ask one honest question at your next appointment and empower chil...

Ever been labeled something that doesn’t quite fit, but it still stings? In this episode of RAW: Relationships Are Work, Tara opens up about the pain of being misread by the people closest to us. From being called “too competitive” to “too perfect” or even a “goody two-shoes,” she unpacks what it feels like when others misjudge your motives and how those labels can isolate, frustrate, or just plai...

In this episode of Raw Relationships are Work, Tara delves into the complexities of unspoken hurts and the invisible weight they place on our closest relationships. Through a poignant letter, she explores a common dynamic where support and contributions go unacknowledged, leading to feelings of erasure and minimized value. Tara discusses the emotional struggle of confronting these silent wounds an...

In this episode of Raw, Relationships Are Work, Tara delves into the profound difference between hearing and truly listening. We explore how the lack of true listening can lead to feelings of invisibility and disconnection in relationships, whether romantic, familial, or platonic. Through a heartfelt listener letter, Tara discusses the importance of active listening and provides practical tips for...

In this episode of "Raw," Tara explores the concept of the "good girl glitch"—the compulsion to be agreeable, helpful, and selfless, often at one's own expense. She addresses the emotional fatigue and identity loss that accompany living up to this ideal. Listeners are encouraged to reclaim their true selves by setting boundaries, prioritizing their needs, and choosing authenticity over societal ap...

In this episode of Relationships Are Work, Tara tackles the complicated dynamics of navigating relationships with exes and significant others. How do we build trust, set healthy boundaries, and leave past insecurities behind? Join Tara as she explores the impact of old wounds on new relationships and offers actionable steps to create stronger, healthier connections. Whether you're dealing with lin...

In this episode, Tara discusses the importance of financial compatibility and how to make money work for you as a couple. From open communication and mutual respect to setting shared goals, we explore the key factors that help couples create a healthy financial partnership. Whether one partner is the primary wage earner or both contribute, we’ll talk about how to avoid common pitfalls, manage powe...

Welcome to the inaugural episode of "RAW: Relationships Are Work," hosted by Tara! In this episode, Tara delves into the intricate dynamics of relationships, highlighting their beauty and messiness. Whether with a partner, family member, or oneself, relationships demand honesty, vulnerability, and a commitment to overcoming challenges together. Tara tackles the common issue of unequal contribution...