Raisingboys2men Podcast

Why do men struggle to open up to women? In Part 1 of this conversation, we sit down with Marlon Wallen (Big Swoosh from Flawless) as he opens up about becoming a father after 10+ attempts with his partner, the emotional toll that journey took, and why therapy changed everything for him. This is an honest conversation about men, vulnerability, fatherhood, and healing, the parts we don’t talk about...

In this episode, we dive deep into toxic relationships. What they look like, why so many people stay in them, and the psychological patterns that keep us stuck. We break down the five most common reasons people stay in unhealthy relationships, even when they know something isn’t right. We also explore the surprising truth behind the one day every year when divorce enquiries hit their peak, and how...

In today’s episode, we ask a question every man has felt but rarely says out loud: Can your partner really be your safe space? We dive deep into the real conversations men are having behind closed doors about vulnerability, judgment, emotional safety, and what it means to be truly supported in a relationship. 💬 In this episode we discuss: – Why so many men don’t feel safe opening up – Male self-s...

In this episode, we dive deep into one of the most difficult questions in modern relationships: Can you truly love someone and still cheat on them? We explore the psychology behind betrayal, what cheating really means, and whether love is enough to survive it. We also break down how to rebuild trust after betrayal, the mistakes couples make when trying to heal, and the signs a relationship can (or...

Heartbreak hits everyone but for men, it often looks very different. In this powerful and unfiltered episode, we sit down to talk about what really happens when love ends. From the first heartbreak to healing while co-parenting, we break the silence around male vulnerability and emotional recovery. We’re talking about: - What heartbreak looks like for men vs women - How men cope (or avoid coping)...

Why do we avoid therapy until life feels too heavy to handle? In this powerful conversation with therapist Daniella Kadene, we explore how therapy helps us heal trauma, release emotional weight, and understand why we sometimes stay in unhealthy relationships out of fear, survival, or safety. We also touch on the unique pressures faced by Black men, Black women, and single mums, and how therapy can...

She’s doing it all alone as a single mum, two young kids, no family, no support. When he cheated and left, so did his family. Now she’s trying to rebuild her life… and her village. In this episode we answer a followers emotional dilemma and explore how parents can start creating their own support systems again even when it feels like you’ve been doing life solo for too long. #ad - Parents can sign...

In this episode, I sit down with two familiar faces Dwayne and Danny for what turned into an open and vulnerable conversation about our mental wellbeing as parents, something we rarely stop to check in on. We talked about how so many of us pour everything into our children while quietly running on empty, believing that sacrifice equals love. But what if that isn’t always what’s best in the long ru...

In this powerful and honest conversation, I sit down with Paige Lewin, author of “How to Love Your Afro”, to explore her deeply personal journey of self love, identity, and healing. Paige opens up about what it truly means to learn to love the girl she sees in the mirror, her search for the love and protection she never felt from a Black man, and how she’s learned to accept her father’s inconsiste...

She’s back! In this raw and real episode, I'm joined once again by the incredible Natalie Vanessa as we dive deep into the unfiltered realities of dating as a single mum. From navigating judgement from society, to the expectations (and double standards) placed on single mothers, we unpack it all. If you've ever felt misunderstood, judged, or just exhausted by the dating world as a single parent th...

I sat down with Oritsé Williams from JLS to have an honest and heartfelt conversation about his journey to fatherhood and the challenges that shaped him along the way. In this episode, we talk about: Oritsé childhood experiences and the family unit that shaped him The pressures Oritsé faced as a child, handling his mum’s MS diagnosis at just 12 years old while balancing school and caring for her....

Starting a new school year can be tough for any child but for boys, the pressures of fitting in, peer influence, and silent struggles at home can make things even harder. In this powerful conversation, I sit down with youth mentor and criminologist Andrez Harriott to uncover what mum's need to watch out for, the warning signs boys rarely talk about, and how to build the right support systems to he...

In this episode, we dive into one of the biggest questions in relationships: What makes a good partner vs. what makes the right partner? We explore the subtle but powerful differences, why “good” doesn’t always mean “right,” and how to recognise when someone truly aligns with your values and your journey. We also tackle a question many coparents struggle with: What does it mean to accept your copa...

As boys, we go through so much we rarely talk about. In today’s world of social media, the pressure of never feeling ‘enough’ is heavier than ever. In this episode, we open up about the battles we’ve faced with self acceptance, the moments we struggled most, and whether self-improvement is a healthy pursuit or an impossible standard . Growing up in a world where likes can dictate your worth isn’t...

This week I’m joined by Law of Attraction expert Francesca Amber, host of Law of Attraction Changed My Life podcast and author of the brand-new book Manifest Like a Mother. In this powerful episode, we dive into: - How to use manifestation as a mother to create the life you truly desire - Why your home environment directly impacts what you attract - How the clothes you wear and the people around y...

In this episode of the podcast, I sit down with Dwayne and Mike to have a raw and unfiltered conversation about inconsistent fathers. We break down: - What inconsistency actually looks and feels like for a child - The long-term impact it can have as boys grow into men - How inconsistency shapes a man’s ability to love, trust, and feel secure in relationships - The silent struggles many men carry w...

In this powerful and honest conversation, I sit down with a Natalie Vanessa, a single mum who opens up about the moment she knew her marriage had to end and how getting divorced ultimately saved her life. She shares her journey of leaving a toxic relationship, navigating single parenthood, and facing the stigma that still surrounds being a single mum. We talk about the emotional toll of staying in...

In this deeply personal episode, I sit down with my son to have the kind of conversation we all need more of, but rarely hear. He shares that he often feels misunderstood by me, and that I don’t say “I’m proud of you” enough. We unpack what that means and how coparenting across two households makes things more complicated. Whether you're a parent, coparent, or child who grew up in a similar situat...

Mo Gilligan’s recent headlines sparked a national conversation, should a man be held accountable for a child he said he didn’t want? In this episode, we dig deep into that question with two fathers who run a powerful platform for dads. We explore the reasons some men walk away, the damage it leaves behind, and the uncomfortable truths society avoids when it comes to fatherhood, responsibility, and...

Think coparenting is just about “putting the kids first”? Think again. In Today's episode I’m sharing 5 brutally honest truths about coparenting that no one tells you, not your friends, not social media, and definitely not the court system. Whether you're just starting your coparenting journey or you’ve been doing it for years, this video will help you feel seen, prepared, and supported. If this m...

If this message made you think then please be sure to like, share, and subscribe. In this episode, I talk about the importance being loyal to your own boundaries, and how my co-parents boundaries helped me to become the man you see today. Follow Me On Social Media: Raising Boys 2 Men (@raisingboys_2men) • Instagram photos and videos Raisingboys 2 Men - YouTube Subscribe & Leave a Review: If yo...

If this message marinated, please be sure to like, share, and subscribe. In this video, I talk about the importance Therapy has played in my parenting journey. Therapy is a tool that we should all use at some point, especially once you become a parent. I touch on: ✅ Why i needed Therapy ✅ Why i was hesitant to open up to my therapist ✅ How i was parenting my inner child instead of my own childr...

Co-parenting isn’t a competition, it’s a commitment. In this video, I break down why co-parenting will never be 50/50, and why that doesn’t mean it’s broken. Each parent’s role may look different, but both are just as important. Whether you're the parent who does the school runs or the one who only gets weekends, fairness isn’t the goal, your child’s well-being is. I touch on: ✅ Why trying to "ma...

As I approach my 40th birthday, I felt it was the perfect time to reflect on the journey so far—and what better way to do it than through a podcast? In this episode, we dive into fatherhood, the impact of absent parents, and the forgiveness required to truly move forward. Joined by the incredible men of Dads R Us, we explore where we thought we’d be at this stage in life and how reality has shaped...

In this month's Q&A episode, I dive into some thought-provoking questions and dilemmas sent in by our wonderful Patreon subscribers. We're tackling real-life issues that many of you may face in your journey through parenthood and relationships. Co-Parenting Complications: Dilemma: A mother expresses her frustration over her child's father's new girlfriend, who she feels is causing a rift betwe...